It would seem logical that we’d be the ones to know ourselves the best. Yet, life has a peculiar way of springing surprises on us. Every now and then, we stumble upon unknown aspects of our character, taking us by complete surprise. Now, we’ve prepared a fun, visual test for you. Who knows? You might just uncover new facets of yourself that were hidden until now. Enjoy this journey of self-discovery!
What did you see first?
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- Frog: You are very honest and straightforward while communicating with other people. You are self-assured and expect everyone else to treat you in the same manner.
- Horse: You aren’t known for your impulsiveness, but on the contrary, you over-analyze everything. That’s because you prefer to see things for yourself and not let others guide you.
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- The lock: You love to explore what you don’t know, learn new things, and get out of your comfort zone. You may be interested in someone, so be sure to talk to that person.
- The crying figure: You need to pay more attention to your feelings and listen to your wishes. At the same time, you need time to relax and clear your mind.
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- The face: You are a social person and curious about the lives of others. For you, everything is unique and interesting. You pay attention to what is, instead of the details.
- The fish: You are happy with your life. You believe in luck and a happy future. For you, the glass is always half full and details are very important to you.
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- An open door: You are ready for changes and are going in the right direction. You face the future without fear but rather, excitement. You are a source of inspiration for others.
- The musical note: Expressing yourself is important to you. You feel you have something important to share with the world. Don’t look back and take risks.
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- A car: The world is full of mysteries to you. It is also made of many different things that always stimulate your imagination.
- A person with binoculars: You are nice to others, and are not critical of them or yourself.
- The letter “A”: Your mood swings are real, but not extreme. You can go from happy to sad. Remember to balance life and work.
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- A crocodile: Your life is full of many colors and you have a creative approach to everything.
- Mountains and water: You are neither very conventional nor very individualistic. You are usually optimistic and tend to be constructive.
- People on a boat: You are sociable and get along well with others. You are adventurous and adapt easily to social situations.
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- Rabbit: You are more of a technical person than a caring one because the left hemisphere of your brain is dominant.
- Duck: In this case, the right hemisphere of your brain dominates the left, so you are very “human” when it comes to your personality.
Our childhood greatly influences our character and behavior. Here are several parenting decisions people don’t realize can have a domino effect.
On my way home from work, I witnessed a man publicly humiliating his wife – I couldn’t tolerate it and decided to teach him a lesson
As I trudged home, my mind cluttered with work stress, a venomous shout pierced through the city’s hum. In a park, a man viciously berated his tearful wife while bystanders did nothing. Driven by anger, I knew I had to stop the abuse.
You ever have one of those days where everything feels like it’s piling up? Yeah, that was me, walking home from work on a Tuesday evening. Deadlines looming over my head for the new marketing campaign, my boss breathing down my neck about the quarterly report—life was a grind, and I was feeling every bit of it.
I couldn’t wait to get home to my wife and kids, to shed the stress of the day, and immerse myself in the comfort of family.
I could already imagine the scent of my wife’s cooking, and the excited yelps and yells of my three kids as they chased each other around the yard. The eldest boy was getting a little old for such games now, but he indulged his younger siblings.
I heaved a sigh as I looked up at the city skyline. The sun was setting, casting long, dramatic shadows over the bustling streets. Kind of beautiful, if you stopped to think about it. But who has time for that when you’ve got a million things on your mind?
I was halfway home, thinking about the mountain of work waiting for me after dinner. I felt a prickle of guilt as I pictured my wife’s disappointed frown.
She hated it when I brought work home with me, but what else could I do? There wasn’t enough time during the day and my boss was a dragon. If I didn’t keep up with my workload… A loud, angry voice that sliced through the usual city noise distracted me from my depressing thoughts
It wasn’t just some random shouting—this was the kind of venom that makes you stop in your tracks.
I followed the sound, curiosity and a bit of dread tugging at me, until I found the source in a small park. There, under an old oak tree, was a scene straight out of a nightmare.
A man was standing near a bench, absolutely berating a woman. She stood before him, her face hidden by her hair as she hung her head. Even from a distance, I could see she was shaking.
I was filled with outrage as I marched across the street to the park. Just as I drew closer, the man’s voice cut through the city noise once more.
His voice was harsh, full of anger, and his gestures were wild and aggressive.
“You’re useless! Can’t you do anything right?” he shouted, his face inches from hers. “Everything that’s wrong in my life is because of you! I should’ve never married you. You’re pathetic!”
The woman flinched at his harsh tone, further fueling my own anger. How could anyone treat their partner like this? It made no sense to me, but as I watched him reach out to her, I knew I couldn’t let this spectacle continue.
His arm swung out, knocking her purse to the ground. The contents scattered, but she just stood there, head bowed, tears streaming down her face, her body trembling. It was gut-wrenching.
And I wasn’t the only witness. The usual crowd of people heading home from work or out to have fun walked by, casting disapproving glances but doing nothing to intervene.
Typical, right? Everyone knows something bad is happening, but nobody wants to get caught up in it.
“Look at me when I’m talking to you!” he yelled, grabbing her arm roughly.
“You think anyone else would put up with a worthless thing like you? Think again!”
That was it. My blood boiled. I could feel the anger rising in me, a burning need to do something.
I pulled out my phone and dialed 911, but then the man shoved her. Without even thinking about it, I switched from my phone to my camera and started recording everything.
The video started just as she fell. I captured the moment he kicked dirt at her, and the horrible names he screeched while doing it.
I also moved closer, ensuring I got a clear shot of his face and the woman’s distress. It was all valuable evidence, but it wasn’t enough. I had to divert his attention before he hurt her.
“Hey, you!” I yelled. “Smile for the camera.”
The guy whirled around. He froze for a moment, watching me like he couldn’t figure out what I was doing. The moment it clicked, he turned his fury toward me.
“What the hell are you doing?” he snarled, marching over, his face twisted with rage.
“Documenting your behavior,” I said, trying to keep my voice steady. “This kind of abuse can’t go unchecked.”
He paused, realizing what this meant. For a split second, I saw fear flash in his eyes. Then, he lunged at me.
I stepped back, keeping my phone out of his reach. “Touch me, and I’ll make sure the police see this,” I warned. “Do you really want this video going viral?”
By this point, others had started to notice. Phones came out, people began recording from different angles.
The abuser looked around, realizing he was surrounded by witnesses. His bravado started to crumble.
“You people have no right to stick your noses into my private affairs,” he yelled, shaking his fist at the crowd.
“You have no right treating this woman like this,” I retorted. “Whatever shame you feel is your own making.”
He rounded on me then and for a moment; I was certain he would tackle me. I was caught completely off guard when he turned and marched back to the woman instead.
She stared up at him in terror. I moved closer, ready to jump in if he tried to hurt her.
He snatched up her purse and dropped it near her feet. “I’m sorry honey, okay? Now get your stuff and let’s get out of here.”
He held out his hand to her, and the woman flinched. He then reached to grab her, but myself, and several other bystanders yelled at him to get away from her. The man looked around at all of us and hunched his shoulders.
“Fine,” he snapped.
He turned and shouldered his way through the crowd, his tail between his legs.
I hurried up to the woman and crouched nearby. “Are you okay, ma’am?”
The woman looked up at me, her eyes glistening with tears of relief and gratitude. “I think so. Thank you,” she whispered, her voice trembling with emotion. “I didn’t know what to do.”
“Well, ma’am, I’ve probably interfered in your life enough for one day, but you can’t carry on living like this. I don’t know your story, but if your husband treats you like this in a public space…” I let out a deep sigh as I contemplated my next words.
“I’m concerned for your safety,” I eventually added. “And I want you to know that you’re not alone, okay? There are people out there who care, people who can help you. You deserve better than that.”
A few bystanders started to gather around us, offering words of support and solidarity. It was heartening to see, after the initial apathy. One older woman with kind, wise eyes approached and held out a business card.
“I’m a lawyer, ma’am,” she said, her voice calm and reassuring. “If that man gives you any more trouble, I want you to contact me immediately.”
The woman burst into tears as she took the card and clutched it against her chest.
“Thank you,” she said between sobs.
The woman nodded, her expression firm and determined. “I already called the police and they should be here any minute, okay? I’m going to stay with you until this is all cleared up.”
The woman nodded.
When I finally got home, I felt an odd mix of adrenaline and exhaustion. My hands were still slightly shaking as I uploaded the video to social media, hoping it would inspire others to take a stand against abuse.
The response was overwhelming. Within hours, the video had gone viral. It drew attention from local news outlets and sparked a widespread conversation about public intervention in cases of domestic violence.
Comments and messages of support flooded in, praising my bravery and condemning the abuser’s actions.
A few days later, I received a message from the woman I had helped. She told me she had found the courage to leave her abusive husband and was now staying with friends, getting the support she needed to start a new life.
She thanked me for my intervention and shared her plans to seek legal action with the help of the lawyer who had offered her assistance. Reading her words, I felt a profound sense of relief and accomplishment.
Reflecting on the whole experience, I couldn’t help but feel proud. My actions had not only helped that woman escape a terrible situation but had also reminded everyone present that they have the power to make a difference.
It was a powerful realization, one that I hoped would inspire others to act when they saw someone in need.
When I told my family about what had happened, their reactions filled me with warmth. My three kids looked at me with wide eyes, admiration shining in their expressions.
My wife, always my rock, hugged me tightly.
“I’m so proud of you,” she said, her voice thick with emotion. “You showed everyone what it means to stand up for what’s right.”
As I sat with my family that evening, I felt a deep sense of fulfillment. The incident had reinforced the values I wanted to pass on to my children: courage, compassion, and the importance of standing up for others.
Life is full of moments that test our character, and this one had shown me just how impactful individual actions can be.
In the end, that Tuesday evening wasn’t just another day. It was a turning point, a moment that reminded me—and hopefully others—that we all have the power to make a difference, no matter how small our actions might seem.
And sometimes, those small actions can change someone’s life forever.
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