Adkins said, quoting Keith, “Never apologize for being patriotic,” from the platform.
On July 29, 2024, in Nashville, Tennessee, Trace Adkins takes the stage at Bridgestone Arena. Image courtesy of Tibrina Hobson/Getty Images for Universal Music Group
In the two-hour NBC program Toby Keith: American Icon, Trace Adkins paid a moving homage to Toby Keith, recalling their many years of traveling together and the significant influence Keith had via his patriotism.
Adkins was one of the few artists that really know Toby Keith and the man behind the scenes, having been friends with Keith for many years and going on tours with. Adkins paused to remember the poignant message that Keith conveyed at the conclusion of each of his live performances before giving an incredibly emotional and beautiful rendition of “American Solider” in honor of Keith and his dedication to the military.
“I’ve known Toby for a very long time, and we did a lot of gigs together while on multiple tours together. I seem to recall that at the end of each performance he gave, he would always say, “Never apologize for being patriotic.” Every night, he said that, Adkins noted. And since, my God, he really did believe that, I realized while he was saying it that it was both a challenge to the rest of us and a window into Toby Keith’s personality.
Keith lived what he preached, and Adkins praised him for it. Keith had undertaken 11 USO Tours, performing in front of 256,000 soldiers and military families in 18 nations at over 285 engagements.
“He had a deep-rooted love and respect for the men and women who have served this country.” It was real, authentic, and meaningful. With a rich, baritone voice, he remarked, “I always respected him so much for that.” “Toby is someone I could talk about all night, but for now I’ll just say that I’m glad I got to know him and call him a friend. We miss you, Toby. Thank you.
Trace Adkins performed “American Solider” in a terrifying manner a short while later. On the screen behind him, pictures of Toby Keith and his numerous USO Tours displayed during his performance. Toby Keith: American Icon gave a truly remarkable performance, and it was undoubtedly an emotional time.
Written by Keith and Chuck Cannon, “American Solider” was published in November 2003. It can be found on the album Hi Shock’n Y’all and has an RIAA Platinum certification.
Among the many famous country musicians that gave their all to pay tribute to the late Toby Keith was Trace Adkins. Priscilla Block, Luke Bryan, Eric Church, Jordan Davis, Scotty Emerick, Brett Favre, Brantley Gilbert, Riley Green, HARDY, Tyler Hubbard, Jamey Johnson, Krystal Keith, Ella Langley, Mac McAnally, Ashley McBryde, Parker McCollum, Leanne Morgan, Darius Rucker, Carrie Underwood, Clay Walker, and Lainey Wilson were among the performers and special guests on the two-hour special.
The special featured a variety of musical performances that showcased Keith’s amazing songwriting and music, but it also emphasized his kindness and generosity by supporting The Toby Keith Foundation’s OK Kids Korral and Monroe Carell Jr. Children’s Hospital at Vanderbilt. Families from both groups seemed to tell the stories of how they were helped and supported when things were really hard.
NBC broadcast Toby Keith: American Icon on Wednesday, August 28 at 9 p.m. ET/PT. The next day, Peacock will offer the episode for streaming.
On February 5, 2024, the legendary country music performer Toby Keith departed from this life due to stomach cancer. He had an astounding 32 No. 1 hits over his career and sold an astounding 40 million albums.
Given that he has achieved a chart-topping hit for 20 years running, including “How Do You Like Me Now?!,” “Courtesy of the Red, White, & Blue (The Angry American),” “I Love This Bar,” “Beer For My Horses,” and “As Good As I Once Was,” it should come as no surprise that he is considered one of country music’s biggest hitmakers.
In addition to being inducted into the Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame (after being admitted into the all-genre Songwriters Hall of Fame in 2015), he has been awarded the National Medal of Arts and the prestigious Merle Haggard Spirit Award by the Academy of Country Music.
The Oklahoma native won three BMI Country Songwriter of the Year awards over his career in addition to the BMI Icon Award. In 2006, his popular song “As Good As I Once Was” won BMI’s Country Song of the Year.
To date, Toby Keith’s music has received 100 million terrestrial radio spins and over 10 billion streaming.
We Paid for My Stepdaughter’s Honeymoon, but She Called Us ‘Cheap’ — So We Taught Her a Lesson in Respect
What happens when a dream honeymoon isn’t dreamy enough? One shocking phone call from my stepdaughter set the stage for a lesson in gratitude she never saw coming.
Life has a way of surprising you, often when you least expect it. I never imagined myself becoming a stepmother at 45, let alone to a young woman like Brooke. When I married Gary ten years ago, it wasn’t just him I fell in love with; it was the idea of family.
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Brooke was thirteen then, and while we didn’t always see eye to eye, I poured my heart into making her feel cared for.
By the time she was twenty-three, Brooke had blossomed into an ambitious, sharp, and, let’s be honest, a bit spoiled young woman. She had big dreams, and Gary and I always did our best to support her. From her college tuition to her dream wedding, we were there. But nothing prepared me for the events that unfolded after her wedding.
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Gary and I had spared no expense for Brooke and Mason’s wedding. The venue was a sprawling vineyard with twinkling fairy lights, the kind you’d see on the cover of a bridal magazine. It cost a fortune, but it was worth it to see Brooke’s radiant smile as she walked down the aisle.
After the wedding, we wanted to gift them something truly special: a honeymoon to remember. Gary and I spent weeks scouring travel sites until we found the perfect villa in the Dominican Republic.
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It had everything: a private pool, stunning views of the ocean, and enough space to rival a boutique resort. It cost more than we planned, but we figured it was our way of sending Brooke into her new life with love.
The morning after they arrived, my phone buzzed just as I was pouring my coffee. Seeing Brooke’s name pop up, I smiled and answered cheerfully, “Hey, sweetheart! How’s paradise?”
Her tone was sharp, almost accusatory. “Dad’s there too, right? Put me on speaker.”
I frowned but obliged. “Sure. What’s going on?”
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Gary leaned over the table, mouthing, “What’s wrong?” I shrugged and tapped the speaker button.
“What’s wrong?” Brooke’s voice rose, dripping with indignation. “I’ll tell you what’s wrong, Dad. This villa. It’s tiny!”
Gary blinked. “Tiny? It’s over eight hundred square meters, Brooke.”
She scoffed. “Exactly. Barely. I mean, Mason and I were expecting something more… spacious. And the pool? It’s a joke. I can only do like three strokes before hitting the edge.”
I exchanged a glance with Gary, his face slowly turning crimson. I held up a hand to calm him.
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“And don’t even get me started on the beach!” Brooke continued, her voice rising with every word. “It’s a whole five-minute walk! Who does that to newlyweds? You couldn’t find a place with direct beach access? Honestly, Dad, it’s like you don’t care.”
Gary’s jaw tightened, but I gently squeezed his arm. “Brooke,” I said, keeping my voice steady, “we spent a lot of time picking this villa. It has great reviews. I thought you’d love it.”
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“Well, you thought wrong. And the sun here? It’s not even as golden as it looked on Instagram. Everything feels… underwhelming. I can’t believe you guys are so cheap.”
Gary exploded, slamming his hand on the table. “Cheap? Do you have any idea how much we spent on this trip? Not to mention your wedding! You’re being ungrateful, Brooke!”
She huffed on the other end of the line. “You know what, Dad? Forget it. Clearly, you don’t understand.”
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The call ended abruptly, leaving a stunned silence in its wake. Gary paced the kitchen, muttering under his breath, his fists clenched. “I can’t believe her. After everything we’ve done—her wedding, her honeymoon—this is how she treats us?”
“Hon,” I interrupted softly, placing a hand on his shoulder. “It’s not worth losing our cool over. I have an idea.”
He stopped pacing and stared at me. “What are you thinking?”
I gave him a small, knowing smile. “Trust me. Let’s show her that gratitude is a two-way street.”
And with that, I began to plan.
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If Brooke wanted to play the “cheap” card, I was about to show her what that actually looked like.
I picked up my phone and dialed the villa’s management. When the receptionist answered, I explained the situation. “Hi, this is Marianne. My husband and I booked a premium villa for a honeymoon stay. Unfortunately, there’s been a change of plans. I need to cancel the remainder of the stay and downgrade the reservation.”
The woman on the other end sounded confused. “Downgrade, ma’am? I don’t follow. Could you clarify?”
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“Yes,” I said firmly. “Please find the most modest, no-frills room you have—no private pool, no chef, and absolutely no ocean view. Do you understand?”
She hesitated before saying, “Yes, of course. We have a basic standard room in the adjoining hotel. Would that work?”
“That’s perfect,” I replied, a smirk spreading across my face. “One more thing. I’d like to be notified when the guests are informed of the change.”
The manager hesitated again. “That’s… unusual, but I’ll see what I can do.”
Gary shook his head as I hung up. “You’re ruthless.”
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“Just tired of being taken for granted,” I said with a shrug.
A few hours later, the call I’d been waiting for came in. I put the phone on speaker so Gary could hear.
“This is the villa management,” the voice began. “We regret to inform you that your current reservation has been modified. You’ll need to relocate to a standard room at the hotel next door.”
“What?!” Brooke’s voice shrieked through the phone. “There must be some mistake! We’re in the honeymoon suite. My dad and stepmom paid for this!”
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“I’m afraid there’s no mistake,” the manager said politely. “The new booking reflects their updated request.”
Brooke’s tone turned icy. “Updated request? What are you talking about?”
I stifled a laugh, covering my mouth. Gary was shaking his head, grinning ear to ear.
Moments later, my phone buzzed, and I saw Brooke’s name flashing on the screen. I answered calmly. “Hi, Brooke.”
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“Marianne!” she screeched. “What is going on? We just got a call saying we’re being moved from our villa to some awful little hotel room! Fix this right now!”
“Oh, that,” I said, feigning surprise. “Firstly, it’s not your villa, sweetheart—it was booked for you. And since you thought it was too ‘cheap,’ I figured a more modest place might better suit your expectations. After all, your dad and I wouldn’t want to embarrass you with our low standards, now would we?”
“You can’t be serious!” she yelled, her voice cracking with frustration. “This place is a dump!”
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“Is it?” I replied, keeping my tone light. “Oh, I’m so sorry. Well, maybe now you’ll appreciate what you had. Gratitude, Brooke. It’s an important lesson.”
Her screeches could be heard across the ocean. “I can’t believe you’re doing this to me, Marianne! Mason and I are stuck here. Where’s Dad?”
Gary, who had been listening quietly, leaned toward the phone. “Brooke, enough. We’ve spent years supporting you, giving you the best of everything. And this is how you repay us? By complaining about the brightness of the sun and the size of a pool? Grow up.”
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“I don’t need a lecture, Dad. I’m not a little girl anymore!” Brooke snapped.
“No,” Gary said firmly. “What you need is a reality check. And your stepmom just gave you one.”
She let out an exasperated groan. “You’re ruining my honeymoon!”
“I think you ruined it yourself,” I said evenly. “When you decide to be grateful for what you have, maybe things will start looking brighter—even that ‘meh’ sun.”
With that, I hung up. I glanced at Gary, who was staring at me in stunned silence.
“What?” I asked, raising an eyebrow.
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“Remind me never to get on your bad side,” he said with a laugh.
We didn’t hear from Brooke for the rest of the week, and honestly, it was a relief. When she finally called again, her tone was subdued.
“Hi, Marianne. Hi, Dad.”
“Brooke,” Gary said cautiously. “How are you?”
There was a pause before she replied. “I… I just wanted to say I’m sorry. For how I acted. The hotel room was awful, but… it made me realize how much effort you both put into everything you’ve done for me. I guess I’ve been a little… ungrateful.”
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Gary softened, his voice kind but firm. “A little?”
“Okay, a lot,” she admitted, her voice small. “I’ll do better. I promise.”
I smiled, glancing at Gary, who nodded. “We appreciate that, Brooke,” I said gently. “We just want you to understand the value of what you have—and the people who love you.”
“I do now,” she said quietly. “Thanks for everything. Really.”
When the call ended, Gary wrapped his arm around my shoulder, his expression a combination of relief and pride. “Well,” he said softly, “you did it. I think she finally gets it.”
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“We did it,” I said with a smile, leaning into him. “Sometimes, people just need a wake-up call—a little taste of their own medicine. Even our kids.”
Gary chuckled, his tone lighter now. “I’m just glad it didn’t blow up into something worse.”
“Me too,” I murmured, resting my head against his shoulder. For the first time in days, the tension lifted, and I allowed myself to breathe.
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What do you think? Was my approach a wise lesson in gratitude, or did I take things a step too far?
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