Actor Leslie Uggams has had an exciting career in both theater and film.
Even with a remarkable career spanning seven decades, the singer and actress from Harlem is best known for her role in the *Deadpool* series.
However, her marriage to White Australian Grahame Pratt in 1965 challenged expectations for interracial relationships, making her life story worthy of a movie.
In 1953, Leslie, a talented singer, recorded a song for MGM when she was just 10 years old. Her aunt, soprano Eloise Uggams, recommended that she attend the famous Julliard School of Music in New York and the Professional Children’s School of New York.
But her career didn’t stop after her musical success; in 1969, she hosted *The Leslie Uggams Show,* the first network variety show hosted by a Black person since *The Nat King Cole Show.*
However, Leslie got to know and fell in love with actor Grahame Pratt behind the scenes. During one of her famous tours in Australia, the pair reconnected in Sydney after first meeting as students at the Professional Children’s School in New York.
Leslie was aware of the challenges of dating a white man because she had dated one in her youth and her aunt had discouraged her from thinking about a future with him. Leslie shared with Ebony in 1967, “I remember the shock I felt once when I was dating a white boy.”
He sent me a color photo of himself. I showed it to my aunt. He was a young, attractive man with nice hair. I thought he was very good-looking. But my aunt lectured me after she saw the picture. “Well, I guess he’s alright,” she said, “but only on dates, huh, honey? When you’re ready to settle down, you’ll marry a nice [Black] fella, won’t you?”
Leslie said that after their lucky meeting, she kept visiting Grahame.
“At just 21 years old, it was surprising that I started to fall in love with him.”
It would be a full year before she saw him again after she left Australia.
Leslie was worried about how her family would react and what would happen if Grahame moved to the U.S. for her job, but despite her worries, they had fallen in love. When they had been engaged for five months, Grahame visited her in New York.
“I wanted to know if my family would truly accept Grahame and not just tolerate him, knowing their views on mixed marriages,” she said.
Leslie didn’t have to worry because Grahame was Australian.
“Many white Americans feel awkward about their situation, but he didn’t.” He got along well with my friends, so he easily fit in with them. And both the men and women liked him.
While living in New York, Leslie said she received hate mail because of their marriage, even though they didn’t face the same racial issues as many others in the country.
In an interview with PEOPLE, Leslie said about her marriage, “It wasn’t as difficult as I expected. I think it’s because Grahame wasn’t a white man in America.” Naturally, they did receive some negative mail.
Leslie shared, “I sometimes get anonymous letters about being married to a white man when I go on tour in the United States. I remember getting one, of all places, in Detroit.” It was addressed to “The Little Negro Entertainer.” Those letters were painful to read and often used that term.
Grahame took on the role of Leslie’s manager, and the couple had two daughters, Danielle in 1970 and Justice in 1976.
Leslie got the lead role in the miniseries Roots in 1977, a year after their second child was born. For that role, she was nominated for an Emmy for her character Kizzy.
Two years later, she played Lillian Rogers Parks in the miniseries Backstairs at the White House, earning another Emmy nomination for Best Actress.
In 1983, she won a Daytime Emmy Award for hosting the NBC game show Fantasy, and in 1996 she played Rose Keefer on All My Children.
Leslie has also made appearances on shows like Family Guy, I Spy, Hollywood Squares, The Muppet Show, The Love Boat, and Magnum P.I.
After fifty-five years of marriage and a granddaughter named Cassidy, Leslie and Grahame are still happily together.
“We have a lot of fun together, but it’s not always sunshine and roses,” Leslie said about their happy marriage. “We enjoy being together.”
Their love has stood the test of time and defied expectations. They support each other because they are loyal to one another and have always helped each other.
Entitled Guard Denied My Wife Entry to the Movie Theater – I Returned Days Later for Payback
When Grace, retired and full of life, was humiliated at the local movie theater, her husband Tom decided to take a stand. Armed with a recording and a determination to protect his wife’s dignity, Tom confronted the guard from their past, setting off a chain of events that neither of them expected.
Grace and I have been married for over 40 years. We grew up and have lived our entire lives in a little postcard town where everyone is like a big family. Running into your classmates at the grocery store or seeing your former teacher at the dentist is a usual occurrence.
Tom and Grace on a walk | Source: Midjourney
I’m still working as an engineer, while Grace enjoys her retirement. We’ve raised three wonderful children and now have five adorable grandchildren. Our days are filled with laughter and love, spending time with our family, gardening, and taking long walks together.
Grace has always loved movies. Since retiring, she’s been watching more than ever. She gets so excited about new releases, and it’s a joy to see her passion.
Grace in a movie theater | Source: Midjourney
One day, Grace was thrilled about a new movie. She had been talking about it for weeks. The day finally came, and she was all set to go. She picked out a nice outfit and even put on a bit of makeup. She left the house with a smile, eager for a relaxing evening.
At the theater, she approached the entrance with her ticket in hand. But just as she was about to walk in, the guard stopped her.
“You can’t come in. This movie isn’t for people like you,” he said, without any explanation. Grace was stunned. She didn’t know what to say. She felt humiliated and bewildered.
Guard forbids Grace to enter | Source: Midjourney
When she got home, she was in tears. “I don’t understand, they wouldn’t let me in,” she said, her voice trembling.
Seeing her like that broke my heart. “What do you mean they wouldn’t let you in?” I asked, trying to stay calm.
“The guard said the movie wasn’t for people like me,” she replied, wiping her tears. “He wouldn’t explain why.”
Tom comforts Grace | Source: Midjourney
My sadness quickly turned to anger. “No one has the right to treat you like that,” I said firmly. “I’m going to make sure he regrets it.”
I started thinking about who this guard could be. Grace hadn’t recognized him, but something in her description rang a bell. Then it hit me – Matt, from high school.
Tom picks a fight with Matt in high school | Source: Midjourney
He had asked Grace out once, and she had politely declined. He had been a bit of a troublemaker back then. Could he still be holding a grudge after all these years?
I decided to confront him. A few days later, I went to the theater, making sure he was there. I approached him, trying to keep my cool. “Hi there,” I said casually. “Nice evening for a movie, isn’t it?”
Tom approaches the movie theater | Source: Midjourney
Tom records his conversation with Matt | Source: Midjourney
His face turned pale. “I… I didn’t mean to kick her out…”
I cut him off. “Save it. I’ve got your confession on tape. I’ll be talking to your manager about this.”
He started to stammer, trying to apologize, but it was too late. I walked away, determined to see this through. Grace deserved better, and I wasn’t going to let anyone get away with treating her like that.
Tom calls the manager | Source: Midjourney
As soon as I left the theater, I knew I had to act quickly. Grace deserved justice. I went home and played the recording again to make sure I had everything. Matt’s admission was clear. There was no doubt about what he had done.
The next morning, I called the theater’s management. “Hello, my name is Tom. I need to report an incident involving one of your employees.”
The manager, a woman named Sarah, sounded concerned. “What happened, sir?”
Manager talks to Tom | Source: Midjourney
I explained everything, from Grace’s excitement about the movie to the humiliating encounter with Matt. “I have a recording of Matt admitting he refused her entry because of an old grudge,” I added.
“Could you send us the recording?” she asked.
“Of course,” I replied. I emailed it to her right away. Within an hour, I received a call back.
Tom waits for justice | Source: Midjourney
“Mr. Tom, we’ve listened to the recording, and we are deeply sorry for what happened to your wife. This behavior is completely unacceptable. Rest assured, we are taking immediate action.”
The next day, I got another call from Sarah. “Mr. Tom, I wanted to let you know that Matt has been dismissed from his position. We apologize for the distress this caused you and your wife. As a gesture of goodwill, we’d like to offer you both complimentary tickets to any movie of your choice.”
Happy Grace with free movie tickets | Source: Midjourney
I thanked her and shared the news with Grace. She looked relieved but still a bit shaken. “I can’t believe he held onto that grudge for so long,” she said softly.
“A lot of people can’t let go of the past,” I replied, hugging her. “But it’s over now. Let’s go enjoy that movie.”
A few days later, we returned to the theater. This time, a young, courteous guard greeted us with a warm smile. “Good evening, folks! Enjoy the movie!” he said cheerfully.
Tom and Grace at the movies | Source: Midjourney
We found our seats and settled in. As the lights dimmed and the movie began, I glanced over at Grace. She was smiling, fully immersed in the film. I reached over and held her hand. We had faced an ugly moment, but we stood up to it together.
After the movie, we walked out of the theater hand in hand. The night air was cool and refreshing. “That was a good movie,” Grace said, her eyes twinkling.
Tom strolls with Grace | Source: Midjourney
“It was,” I agreed. “But the best part was seeing you happy.”
Grace squeezed my hand. “Thank you for standing up for me,” she said. “I don’t know what I would have done without you.”
Grace and Tom together | Source: Midjourney
“You never have to find out,” I replied. “We’re a team, remember?”
We walked to our car, both feeling a sense of closure. Justice had been served, and the past was finally behind us.
Our Kids Accused Us of Spending Their Inheritance — The Audacity Shocked Us So Deeply We Decided to Teach Them a Lesson
When our kids accused us of spending their inheritance, we were stunned. But instead of getting angry, we decided to teach them an important lesson about life and money.
A pile of one dollar bills | Source: Pexels
My husband, Tom, and I have always prided ourselves on living a modest, yet fulfilling life. We worked hard, saved diligently, and now, in our golden years, we wanted to enjoy the fruits of our labor. Our doctor recently recommended that we take a little trip out of state for a vacation. It was a much-needed break for both of us. I planned a getaway to a cozy, inexpensive hotel by the beach.
A tented hotel room near the ocean | Source: Pexels
As soon as the reservations were confirmed, I couldn’t wait to share the happy news with our kids, Emma and Jake. I expected them to be happy for us, maybe even a little envious of our upcoming adventure. But their reaction left me utterly shocked.
A shocked senior woman | Source: Pexels
I showed Emma and Jake a picture of our cozy little hotel. Emma glanced at it and sighed.
“You know, you should think about us too,” she said. “Your money isn’t just yours; it’s also our inheritance. If you spend it all now, we’ll have nothing after you’re gone.”
Jake nodded in agreement. “Yeah, do you really need that vacation? People your age should stay home and keep it low-key. Why are you always spending money and doing things? Sometimes I feel like there’ll be nothing left for us.”
I felt tears welling up, but Tom squeezed my hand and shook his head. That’s when I knew he had a plan to handle this.
An upset senior woman being comforted by her husband | Source: Pexels
Later that evening, Tom and I sat down to talk about what happened. I was still hurt by what the kids had said, but Tom was calm and thoughtful.
“They think our money is already theirs,” Tom said. “We need to teach them a lesson.”
An angry senior man | Source: Pexels
We came up with a plan. Instead of just arguing with them, we decided to show them that our money was ours to use as we saw fit. We wrote letters to Emma and Jake, explaining that we were going to donate a big part of our savings to charities we cared about. We wanted to help make the world a better place rather than just leave money sitting in a bank.
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