While performing in Denver, Van Ark met actress Julie Harris while interviewing her for a local newspaper, and the actress persuaded her to study acting and drama at the Yale Drama School.
As a result, Van Ark became the youngest student ever to receive a scholarship to the well-respected school and the second woman ever to enroll. The first woman was Julie Harris, who helped Van Ark into the school.
“She wrote to the dean and asked him to meet me. Long story short, my parents drove me to New Haven, Connecticut, to meet the dean, who gave me a scholarship,” she recalled.” It was meant to be.”
Valene Ewing on ‘Dallas’ and ‘Knots Landing’
Van Ark began her professional career at the Minneapolis Guthrie Theater, where she starred in The Miser by Moliere. After working about a year at the Arena Stage in Washington DC, she moved down to work with the national touring company Barefoot in the Park in 1963, which led to her Broadway debut. In 1971, she was nominated for the Tony Award for Best Featured Actress in a Play after starring in The School for Wives.
At that point, Joan Van Ark had begun working in front of a screen rather than on stage. She appeared on television series including Temperature’s Rising, Spider-Woman, and Days of Our Lives and even in one episode of Bonanza.
Even though Joan Van Ark wasn’t short of jobs, she was still looking for her significant breakthrough role as the 1980s approached. In 1978, she made several appearances as Valene Ewing on Dallas – which led her to the role of a lifetime.
Knots Landing – a spinoff of Dallas – premiered in 1979, and Joan Van Ark reprised her role as Valene Ewing. She starred in 327 episodes – acting alongside Michele Lee as Karen and Ted Schakleford as Gary – and became a massive star.
Even though it was a spinoff of Dallas – about the rotten but wealthy Ewing Clan – it was initially brought to CBS years before.
However, the network wanted a “big rich family” show, and Dallas got picked as the one. But later on, Knots Landing became a massive success as the studio realized how big of a show Dallas had grown into, and after only one season, it rose into the top 20 in TV ratings.
How Joan Van Ark almost missed out on her biggest role
Knots Landing became the story of Gary Ewing and his wife Valene – played by Van Ark – and how they decided to start a new life in Knots Landing.
However, Van Ark almost missed out on the part of Valene Ewing. She explained that she had a “three-way clash” where she did The Love Boat simultaneously, as well as a commercial in New York.
In the end, it was her husband – John Marshall, who we will come back to in a minute – that persuaded her into choosing Dallas. And it was a significant – and important – decision.
“I got the call asking me to do a guest appearance in this show called Dallas, which was attracting a lot of buzz, but I said to my husband, ‘John, why should I even read this script? I can’t be in three places at once,’” she told Express. “Then he read it and said, ‘No, you’ve got to do it. It looks wonderful.’”
“So basically, he talked me into a schedule that had me in LA one day, then flying to Dallas for two days, followed by two days in New York and then back to Texas. But looking at this old cast photo from Knots Landing – the spinoff from Dallas – I’m so glad I listened to him,” she added.
Dallas and Knots Landing became a 15-year commitment for Van Ark, who became identified by her role. As earlier mentioned, she and Julie Harris had quite a history – and in 1980, they met again
“I could stay forever on the show and be safe”
Harris was cast in Knots Landing as the mother of Van Arks’ character, and for the actress, it was almost too good to be true.
“When the producers told me they had finally last someone to play my mother, I held my breath,” she recalled in a 1984 interview with Florida Today.
“I thought, ‘Oh my God, are they going to say Phyllis Diller or Zsa Zsa Gabor, or who?’ Then they said it was Julie Harris, and I went right through the roof. I couldn’t believe they had picked her to be my mother. They didn’t even know we were friends.”
Joan Van Ark stayed for 13 seasons and 327 episodes on the show. Then in 1993, just one season after she left, Knots Landing was canceled. But the reason for Joan leaving wasn’t that she didn’t like it. Instead, it was all about her trying on new challenges.“I could stay forever on the show and be safe,” Van Ark told the Los Angeles Times in 1992.
“But three years ago, I did Night of the Iguana in Williamstown (Mass.), and I had a quote from Tennessee Williams taped on my mirror, taken from an essay he’d written on success. It said, and I’m paraphrasing here: ‘Security is in the shape of a kidney-shaped pool in Los Angeles, where you sit waiting for your residual checks.’ I was in a comfortable spot on Knots, and an artist should not be comfortable.”
At the same time, the television series became a huge part of Van Ark’s life. So even though she felt comfortable leaving, it was a tough blow since she thought it would be easier.
Blamed herself for ‘Knots Landing’ cancelation
“I have loved more than life the 13 years I’ve had on that show,” she said. “[Knots Landing creator] David Jacobs is a great influence on my life, has taught me so much about so many things. Ted [Shackelford] is the other half of every breath I take on the show, and personally, he’s a large part of my heart. The people are my family–we have shared marriages, deaths, divorces. It’s far more difficult to leave than I thought.”
The show didn’t quite work without the great chemistry between characters Valen and Gary. In fact, Joan took the blame for the show being shut down.
“Well, it was my fault. I jumped over to NBC to do a pilot which did not sell,” she said. “I was so ready to go, after fourteen years with the one lady, so I auditioned for the pilot, and they cast me. It wasn’t as cleanly negotiated as it should have been. When the pilot didn’t sell, they asked me back, and I did do the four-hour finale of the show.”
Joan Van Ark left the soap opera business behind but continued to star in many television series. She had minor parts in television series, including Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, and starred in some television movies. Between 2004 and 2005, Joan appeared as Gloria Fisher in 55 episodes of the hugely successful television drama The Young and The Restless.Joan Van Ark – marriage, husband, children
It’s common for celebrities in Hollywood to marry other celebrities, and show-biz marriages don’t always last very long.
But that wasn’t the case for Joan Van Ark, who met the love of her life back in high school. She met her husband, John Marshall, while the two were students in Boulder. In 1966, the couple married on a military base in Germany.
“Believe me, it was nothing like the marriages [Valene Ewing] has gone through,” she told UPI.
In 1969, they welcomed daughter Vanessa Marshall, who also chose a career in entertainment. She became a well-known voice-over artist and actually gave up on her on-camera acting career. Instead, Vanessa Marshall has lent her voice to animated films, television series, and several video games.
John Marshall went on to become an Emmy newsman, working on KNBC-TV and NBC. He’s had a flourishing career just as his wife Joan, and while the couple was working hard to make it in their respective fields, Vanessa was growing up.
For Van Ark, becoming a mother while trying to navigate through the business was tough. And she gives credit to her husband, John, for keeping the family together during those stressful years.
“He is the reason we have the most wonderful daughter in the world and that the marriage has stayed strong,” Van Ark told The Leader-Post in 1988. “I feel I am the committed person who can’t give up time for this or that.”
“He did not want to miss watching Venessa grow up, and he did not want to miss me,” she added. “He knows correspondents live out of suitcases. John made career choices I didn’t agree with because if it had been me, I would have packed my bags, and I would have been waiving at the airport.”Joan Van Ark – net worth
Besides her acting job, Joan Van Ark has a great interest in running. The 78-year-old has completed several marathons and explained she’s running instead of going to a psychologist. However, when it comes to her husband, she stated that she would never go on a run with him.
Why? Because “it’s the quickest way to a divorce that I know of. You’re always criticizing the other’s style,” Joan said.
In the last decade, Joan Van Ark has continued to work on stage in several productions for theater and starring in television series and movies such as Watercolor Postcards and Psycho Wedding Crasher. But she will always be most remembered for her magnificent spell on Dallas and Knots Landing.
According to Celebrity Net Worth, Joan Van Ark has a net worth of around $10 million.
My Ex-MIL Sent Me a Generous Gift After My Divorce, but Her Clause Made Me Say No — Two Years Later, I Saw Her Crying in the Park
After a messy divorce, a mysterious package from her ex-mother-in-law offers Emilia a chance to escape her struggles, but at a shocking price. Years later, she’s thriving in a new life when a chance encounter reveals the cost of arrogance, leaving her to decide if forgiveness can outweigh the past.
When I married Wyatt, it felt like I was stepping into a whirlwind romance with a man who was so unlike anyone I’d ever met.
At least, that’s what I told myself.
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He was charming and unpredictable, always full of big dreams and bigger promises. But charm doesn’t keep a marriage afloat, does it? A year later, that whirlwind turned into a storm, and I found myself alone, betrayed, and shattered after discovering his infidelity.
Our divorce was swift and sterile. There were no kids. No shared assets to fight over. But emotionally?
It left me gutted. Financially, it was even worse. Wyatt left me drowning in legal bills, trying to rebuild a life from the wreckage he caused.
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I moved into a tiny apartment on the outskirts of the city, took on a second job at my lawyer’s firm. To be honest, I think the man just felt sorry for me when he offered me the job. I canceled every unnecessary expense. It was exhausting.
Lonely.
Every day felt like an uphill climb. But I pushed through.
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Then, one cold afternoon, a package arrived at my door.
No name. No return address.
It was just a set of keys and a note with an address, a date, and a time. The courier had disappeared before I could ask questions.
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I held the keys and note to my chest, my heart racing. Was it Wyatt? Had he come to his senses and wanted to apologize? I wasn’t naïve enough to think we could get back together, but closure?
That, I desperately wanted.
Maybe this was his peace offering.
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The address led me to a sleek apartment downtown, the kind of place I used to dream about when I was younger. The key turned smoothly in the lock, and when I stepped inside, I found someone waiting for me, but it wasn’t Wyatt.
It was Jill, my ex-mother-in-law, perched on a plush white sofa. Her pearls glinted under the soft light, and her smile felt more like a performance than a welcome.
“I’m glad you came,” she said, motioning for me to sit.
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“What is this?” I asked, holding up the keys.
“This apartment is my gift to you,” she said smoothly. “Of all the women my son has been with, you were the best. The most deserving.”
My stomach twisted.
The apartment could change everything, no more scraping by, no more endless nights worrying about rent. But Jill’s generosity wasn’t exactly her signature trait.
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I didn’t trust this, and I didn’t trust her.
“On one condition,” she added.
Of course.
“A grandson,” she said, as if it were the most reasonable request in the world.
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My jaw dropped.
“What do you mean?”
Jill tilted her head, calm and businesslike.
“Wyatt is my only child, and I doubt he’ll ever become a family man. We need a grandchild to carry on the family name. You deserve this, darling. You’ve been through so much with Wyatt. Let me make it easier.”
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“But we broke up!” I said, my voice rising. “We don’t even talk anymore! I don’t think he knows where I live, Jill!”
Jill rolled her eyes, waving off my concerns like they were trivial.
“Oh, please, Emilia!” she said. “Just call him, tell him you miss him, invite him here for a romantic dinner. He’ll come. I know he will. I’m not asking for anything complicated. Once my grandson arrives, I’ll provide everything you need. And more.”
“And what if it’s a granddaughter? Then what, Jill?” I pressed, curious to see how far her arrogance stretched.
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Her expression didn’t even flicker.
“Then, Emilia,” she said. “You will try again, darling. No one else will offer you what I’m offering. A comfortable life, all the amenities, all the luxuries. Heck, you wouldn’t even need to work.”
Her words sank in.
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This woman thought I was desperate. She thought I was incapable of standing on my own. She didn’t see me as a person. She just saw me as a means to an end.
The thought of being with Wyatt… being intimate with Wyatt… it put me off. I felt sick.
“No,” I said finally.
Jill’s polished exterior cracked, surprise flashing across her face.
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“Think carefully, girl,” she warned. “This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.”
“I have thought carefully,” I replied, meeting her gaze. “And I’d rather struggle than sell my soul and my child over to you.”
I left the keys on the table and walked out, ignoring her protests.
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The two years that followed were the hardest, and the most rewarding of my life. I poured myself into my job at the law firm, staying late, volunteering for extra projects, and building connections.
One of the senior partners noticed my dedication and started mentoring me.
It wasn’t easy at all, and there were nights when I cried from the exhaustion, but I refused to give up. With every promotion, I felt like I was proving to myself that I didn’t need Wyatt or anyone else to succeed.
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Eventually, I was offered the role of head of client relations. It came with a solid paycheck, a corner office, and something I hadn’t felt in a long time:
Pride.
It was at the firm that I met Daniel.
He was an associate attorney, and he was kind, empathetic, and quietly funny in a way that made bad days seem lighter. He knew all about my messy marriage to Wyatt, and he never pitied me for it.
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Instead, he admired how I’d clawed my way out of the wreckage.
“And I’m not just saying it, Emilia,” he said, handing me a bottle of water. “I mean it. I saw that kind of relationship first-hand. But my mother couldn’t get away from my father, no matter how hard she tried. I guess she wanted to believe in some fantasy that he would change.”
“I get that,” I replied. “At first, a part of me thought that Wyatt would come back with some sense of remorse. But then one day, I opened my eyes. And they stayed open.”
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Our first date was a simple coffee after work. And by our third, I knew he was the real deal. Daniel wasn’t flashy or unpredictable. He was steady. Honest.
A man I could build a life with.
We got married a year later in a small ceremony with close friends and family. A year after that, we welcomed our son, Ethan.
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“Finally,” I said to Daniel as I looked at our son. “I’ve waited for this little boy for decades. I always knew I wanted to be a mom. But I also knew that I wasn’t going to be a mom with Wyatt.”
Immediately, that bright-eyed, giggling baby boy became the center of our world.
One morning, I was walking through the park, pushing Ethan’s stroller while Daniel jogged ahead. The air smelled of snow, and the bare trees cast long shadows on the path.
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As I paused by a bench to adjust Ethan’s blanket, I spotted a woman sitting a few feet away.
It was Jill.
She was crying, her face buried in her hands. She looked older, wearier somehow. Her hair was unkempt, her clothes plain, and her signature pearls were nowhere in sight. A stack of papers had fallen from her lap, scattering at her feet.
I hesitated, but then instinct took over. I reached into the diaper bag, grabbed some napkins, and walked up to her.
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“Here,” I said softly, holding out the napkins. “Is there anything I can do for you?”
Jill looked up, startled.
Her eyes flickered to the stroller, landing on Ethan’s smiling face. Something between longing and bitterness passed across her expression.
“Thank you,” she said, taking the napkins. I bent down to gather the papers she’d dropped and handed them back to her.
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“For hours,” Jill muttered, her voice thin. “I’ve been sitting here for hours. Sometimes, it’s the only place I can think. Your child is beautiful.”
I didn’t know what to say, so I stayed silent.
“Wyatt married again,” she blurted out, her voice dripping with bitterness. “It didn’t last, of course. He married her after only three months, thought she was the perfect trophy wife. But she was just as cunning as he was. Took him for everything.”
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Her shoulders shook as she cried again.
“He lost a fortune in the divorce. And now? There’s nothing left. He came crawling back to me. I’ve spent every penny trying to keep him afloat.”
“I’m sorry,” I said quietly.
Despite everything Jill had put me through, I meant it.
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We talked a little more, about Ethan, about life, before Jill gathered her things and stood.
“You could have given me a grandson after all. He’s lovely,” she said. “Goodbye, Emilia.”
I watched her walk away, her back hunched against the cold.
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A few minutes later, Daniel jogged up to me, his cheeks flushed. He leaned down, kissed me, and scooped Ethan out of the stroller, making him laugh.
“Ready to head home?” he asked.
“Yeah, always,” I said, smiling as I slipped my arm through his.
Together, we strolled away, leaving the past where it belonged.
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