At the time the public learned of then-prince Charles’ affair with Camilla Parker Bowles, she became the most hated person in Britain. At one point, she was even afraid to go out in public.
However, as time passed by, the people of Britain learned to love Camilla, and today, she’s a very important part of the family. What’s most, she’s loved by many.
Charles and Camilla were introduced to each other by a mutual friend, Lucia Santa Cruz, the daughter of the Chilean ambassador, at a polo match. They started dating in 1972, but the relationship didn’t last long as Charles left to serve in the Royal Navy. When his duties there came to an end and he returned home, Camilla was already engaged to her now-ex husband Andrew Parker Bowles.
However, they never stopped being close. Even when Charles married Diana, he and Camilla stayed in touch.
Royal author Penny Junior claimed that Charles was aware he wasn’t in love with his future wife Diana, but it was already too late for him to call off the wedding.
“Charles was not convinced he was doing the right thing in marrying Diana but there was no way out and, bolstered by the hope that things would be different once they were married, he put a brave face on it,” she wrote, as reported by the Mirror.
What’s most, Camilla and Diana knew each other and got along, but then things changed.
“I met [Camilla] very early on. I was introduced to the circle, but I was a thrеаt, I was a very young girl, but I was a thrеаt,” Diana explained in the book Diana: In Her Own Words.
The love affair between Charles and Camilla started in 1986, according to Prince Charles’ authorized biography, as quoted by Town & Country. At the time, Charles was still married to Princess Diana and she eventually became aware that her husband was cheating on her.
Diana even confronted Camilla once, but nothing changed.
Speaking of the troubles in her marriage and the reasons for its failure, Diana told Martin Bashir during a televised interview, “Well, there were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded.”
Charles and Diana separated in 1992 and their divorce was finalized four years later.
Just months after Charles and Diana formally separated, the press published a full transcript of a telephone call between the then-future King and Camilla.
The phone call revealed an intimate and sexual exchange between the couple, which became known as Tampongate.
Despite the mistreatment from the press, the bond between Camilla and Charles prevailed. On April 9, 2005, the couple exchanged vows in a civil ceremony at Windsor Guildhall.
Later, at the wedding reception, the late Queen Elizabeth offered a toast to the newlyweds. However, she had other plans in mind, as she briefly stepped into another room to catch a horse race.
“I have two important announcements to make. The first is that Hedgehunter has won the Grand National,” the queen said.
“They have overcome Becher’s Brook and The Chair and all kinds of other terrible obstacles. They have come through, and I’m very proud and wish them well. My son is home and dry with the woman he loves,” Queen Elizabeth II continued as she made a comparison with her horses.
When she was married to her first husband, Camilla had a regular job. According to the Mirror, she worked as a secretary at several firms in London’s West End area and later as a receptionist at Sibyl Colefax & John Fowler in Mayfair. She studied at Dubrells School in Sussex and Queen’s Gate School in South Kensington before finishing school at Institut Britannique in Paris, where she studied English and French Literature.
In the book On The Fringe—A Life In Decorating, designer Imogen Taylor, who was a colleague at the interior design firm Colefax and Fowler, where the queen used to work, remembered a time when a young Camilla arrived late to work after a night of partying.
Taylor claimed Camilla was then yelled at and fired.
In 2016, she told the Sunday Times: “There were lots of debutantes working for us, even Camilla. She worked for us for a moment but got the sack.”
“He would shout and bellow so the whole building heard every word. The Duchess of Cornwall was one assistant who fell victim to one of tantrums. I think she came in late, having been to a dance,” Taylor recalled their boss’s temperament.
Today, Camilla is a vital part of the Firm.
Speaking of the current role Queen Camilla has taken upon herself, royal expert Angela Levin said Camilla is “holding the royal family up.”
“I mean, to wait till you’re 73 is a long time before you can take the crown. I think obviously, at his age, it’s very difficult, but he’s very determined, and he’s only really just started to be king,” Levin said while appearing on GB News. “Supporting him very much, absolutely by his side, is Queen Camilla, who is going to all the engagements that they would have gone to together on her own.”
“And so that way he will feel it’s still moving, it’s still running, and they can discuss it and talk about it. And I think that’s marvelous. I mean, she is holding the Royal Family up and being strong. If you imagine 30 years ago, people were saying the whole Royal Family would absolutely disintegrate, and she would be of no use.”
Although it is known that Camilla doesn’t want to be under the spotlight, she’s doing an excellent job while meeting with the public.
“To support her husband. She understands him very well because they’ve been together for over 50 years, before they even got married. it’s a long time and they make each other laugh,” Levin added.
Royal expert and former royal correspondent Charles Rae praised the queen for supporting King Charles and Kate Middleton in this troublesome time, calling her a “remarkable asset,” adding that Camilla is “one of the best things to happen to the Royal Family” in a “good number of years.”
“There’s no question about it, she stepped into the breach. She’s got everything on her shoulders with what’s going on, and she’s taking on even more work,” royal expert Charles Rae said.
“Everywhere she goes, she has got a cheery smile on and a happy face. She says the right things. She has proved to be a remarkable asset to the Royal Family, given the allegations that at one time she had bread rolls thrown at her in a supermarket car park.”
Rae concluded, “I remember her when she was the most hated woman in Britain. I’ve met her several times and she’s charming, she’s witty, she’s really nice to chat to, and certainly when she’s chatting to people, she has done her homework as to who she’s chatting to.”
Daily Mail’s royal correspondent, Rebecca English, told Town & Country Magazine there was a “very different situation” when Camilla joined the royal family and the present.
“They decided the way to do it wasn’t to ‘sell her’. They concluded that the best way to move things forward was to just let her be herself and let people see for themselves what she is actually really likе.”
We believe Camilla is doing an amazing job for the royal family during these tough times when both King Charles and Kate Middleton are battling cancer.
My Mom Promised Me Our Childhood Home — Then Gave It to My Brother’s Wife and Called It ‘A Gift for the Real Daughter’
The house was supposed to be mine. Mom had promised it since I was little. But at my SIL’s birthday party, she handed the deed to her instead. “It’s time this house belonged to a real daughter,” she announced to the room. I felt my world collapse.
Growing up, I was always Mom’s favorite. She never tried to hide it, and honestly, neither did I. While Mark would be outside playing with neighborhood kids, I’d be helping Mom bake cookies or listening to her stories about her own childhood.
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“One day, this house will be yours, Sarah,” she’d say, running her hand along the worn kitchen counter. “Every scratch and dent has a story. And when I’m gone, you’ll be the keeper of those stories.”
It was never anything fancy. Just a creaky two-bedroom with warped floors, bad plumbing, and a roof that sighed in heavy rain. But it was my childhood home.
And she made sure I knew that when she passed or moved on, it would be mine.
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“What about Mark?” I asked once when I was about twelve.
Mom just laughed. “Your brother? He’ll be fine. Besides, he never appreciated this place the way you do.”
Mark never seemed to care much about the house anyway. As a teenager, he was already talking about moving to the city.
Meanwhile, I would daydream about which room would be my office and what color I’d paint the living room walls someday.
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After high school, I moved out for college, then found a decent job in marketing.
As life got busy with deadlines, friends, dating disasters, and trying my best to build some savings, the promise of the house faded into the background of my mind. It became something I rarely thought about as I navigated my late twenties and early thirties.
Then, when I was thirty-three, everything changed. My grandmother passed away, leaving Mom with a decent inheritance. Not wealthy-overnight money, but enough to make some comfortable changes.
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Mom called me one Sunday afternoon. “I’m moving, sweetie. Using some of Mom’s money to get a luxury apartment closer to the senior center. All my friends are there now.”
“The house?” I asked, feeling that childhood promise stirring in my memory.
“It’s yours, sweetie. Fix it up how you like. Consider it my early gift to you. You’ve earned it.” Her voice was warm with pride. “I’m not selling it. I’m not renting it. It’s yours now.”
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I nearly dropped the phone. After all these years, she had remembered. Kept her promise.
“Are you serious?” I whispered.
“Dead serious. I’ve already talked to my lawyer. We just need to meet him to sign the paperwork to transfer it properly. But you can move in whenever you want.”
I had been saving for years to buy a place of my own. I wasn’t married, didn’t have kids, and had no co-signer. But I had enough for a small down payment and had been working full-time since I graduated.
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My studio apartment was fine, but the thought of having a home was overwhelming.
So, instead of putting that money toward a house of my own, I used it to repair hers. Now mine, supposedly.
The first weekend, I scrubbed every inch of that house, clearing out cobwebs and dust from corners Mom couldn’t reach anymore. I made lists of everything that needed fixing, including the leaky roof, the temperamental plumbing, and the electrical system that would dim during thunderstorms.
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“Take your time with it,” Mom said when she visited that first month, touching the peeling wallpaper in the hallway. “Rome wasn’t built in a day.”
But I was determined. I redid the roof that summer, hiring professionals but helping where I could to save money. Fixed the plumbing when winter came. Updated the electrical system in the spring. Replaced the ancient appliances one by one as my paychecks allowed.
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Slowly, over two years, I poured in my savings, weekends, and heart. I painted walls, refinished floors, and planted a small garden in the backyard. Sometimes Mark would stop by, usually to borrow something, and whistle at the changes.
“Place looks great, sis,” he’d say, but never offered to help.
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Mom came by less and less as she settled into her new life. She had joined clubs, made new friends, and seemed happier than I’d seen her in years. I was happy for her, and happy in my home with all its memories and new improvements.
Soon, my house felt like the place I’d always dreamed of. I thought everything was perfect until Amanda’s birthday party changed everything.
My brother’s wife, Amanda, was hosting her 30th birthday at their townhouse.
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She was the kind of person who never even lifted a finger to help others unless she had something to gain. She never visited Mom, never offered to help with anything, and only called when she wanted something.
“You coming to Amanda’s birthday thing?” Mark had asked over the phone a week earlier.
“Do I have to?” I groaned.
“Mom really wants you there. Says she has some big announcement.”
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Curious about Mom’s announcement, I showed up with a generic gift and a forced smile.
Mom arrived fashionably late, looking elegant in a new blue dress. She hugged Amanda like they were best friends, though I couldn’t remember the last time they’d spent any time together.
Halfway through the evening, Mom clinked her glass for attention. She was smiling, holding an envelope I hadn’t noticed before.
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“This family has given me so much,” she began, “but this year, I wanted to give something back. Something special.”
My stomach tightened. Something about her tone made me uneasy.
She handed the envelope to Amanda, who blinked dramatically and opened it in front of everyone.
“What is it?” someone called out.
Amanda’s eyes widened. “It’s… it’s a deed. To a house.” Her voice cracked with fake emotion.
It was a deed.
To the house.
My house.
Signed over.
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Everyone clapped. Amanda pretended to cry, dabbing at her eyes carefully to avoid smudging her makeup.
I just stood there, frozen, my mind refusing to process what was happening.
And then Mom turned to me and said, loud enough for the whole room to hear, “It’s time that house belonged to a real daughter.”
I couldn’t believe what was happening. How could Mom do this to me? I remember she said something about talking to the lawyer, but then she never had the time to visit the lawyer with me.
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And… I didn’t force her because I didn’t mind if the house was still in her name.
After all, she was my mom, and I never thought she’d do something like this.
Once the guests got busy with food, I pulled Mom aside into the hallway.
“What did you do?” I hissed, trying to keep my voice down.
She just shrugged, like she was returning a borrowed sweater, not taking away my home.
“Amanda’s going to give me grandkids. You’ve made it clear you have no man, no plans, and no children. I want this house to go to someone who’s building a real family.”
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“But you promised—” My voice broke. “All that work I did—”
“They’ll appreciate it,” she cut me off. “They need a bigger place now that they’re starting a family.”
“Amanda’s pregnant?” I asked, the betrayal somehow cutting deeper.
“Not yet,” Mom admitted. “But they’re trying. And a nice house will give them space to grow.”
I left that night and never spoke to her again.
I moved out of the house within a week. Took nothing but my clothes and what little pride I had left.
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I used the last of my savings to rent a studio apartment. I had to start over.
Mom never reached out. Neither did Mark.
Five years passed.
Five years of rebuilding my life from scratch. New apartment. New routines. I changed jobs twice, finally landing a marketing director position I loved. I met Peter at a work conference, and we married after a year of dating. Nine months later, our daughter Amy was born.
“She has your smile,” Peter would say, watching me rock her to sleep.
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We bought a small house in the suburbs, and the best part about it was that it was completely ours. No promises that could be broken.
One Saturday morning, I took Amy to the park near our new home. She was just learning to walk, tottering between playground equipment with fierce determination.
“Sarah?” a voice called out.
I turned to see Mrs. Johnson, our old next-door neighbor from my childhood home.
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“It is you!” she exclaimed, hugging me. “And who is this beautiful little lady?”
“This is Amy, my daughter,” I said with a smile.
Mrs. Johnson’s face softened. “My goodness, you have a family now. I always knew you’d come out stronger than them.”
“Them?” I asked, confused.
She leaned in, lowering her voice. “Your mother and brother. Such a mess they’ve made.”
Turns out… Amanda had cheated on my brother.
With my mom’s new husband.
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“New husband?” I repeated, stunned.
“Oh yes,” Mrs. Johnson nodded. “Your mother remarried about a year after… well, after everything happened with you. Some wealthier guy named Richard. Retired investment banker. And apparently, Amanda liked him too.”
The story spilled out. Mom had married Richard and moved into his house. Amanda and Mark had moved into my childhood home. Then, six months later, Amanda was caught having an affair with Richard.
“Amanda took everything,” Mrs. Johnson continued. “Filed for divorce from Mark, and because the house was in her name, she walked away with it. Sold it within a month to some developers. They tore it down last spring… building a duplex there now.”
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Now, Mom and Mark were living together in a small, rented apartment. Mrs. Johnson told me Mom had to sell most of her things to afford living there.
“And no grandkids,” I murmured.
“No grandkids,” she confirmed. “Such a shame. And all because she couldn’t see what was right in front of her.”
That night, after putting Amy to bed, I discussed everything with Peter and decided to call Mom.
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Her voice cracked the second she heard mine.
“Sarah? Is that really you?”
“It’s me, Mom.”
She cried. Sobbed, really. Apologized over and over. Told me I was the only one who ever loved her without conditions. That she’d made the biggest mistake of her life.
“I have a daughter,” I said when she finally quieted. “Her name is Amy. She’s almost one.”
More tears from Mom. “A granddaughter? Oh, Sarah…”
I listened. I didn’t scream. I didn’t gloat.
When she asked if we could talk sometime or see each other, I said, “Family is family. I won’t let you starve. But you don’t get to use me anymore.”
I sent her a grocery delivery the next day. But I didn’t invite her over.
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Peter asked if I regretted calling. I shook my head.
“They’re still family,” I said, watching Amy sleep in her crib. “But that doesn’t mean I have to forget.”
***
Sometimes, I drive by where our old house used to stand. The duplex is almost finished now, and it’s nothing like the creaky home of my childhood. I don’t feel sad anymore. That house was never really mine, despite all the promises.
What’s mine is this life I’ve built. This family I cherish. This love that can’t be signed away on a deed or given to someone else.
And that’s worth more than any house could ever be.
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