Humankind has been trying to solve the mystery of dreams for as long as they’ve existed. Today there is even a special discipline in the study of dreams called oneirology. Those who prefer the esoteric side of things over science love to interpret their dreams according to various dream books and believe that they can predict the future. But psychologists think that dreams accurately reflect our current condition and that our subconscious tries to tell us something important via dreams from time to time.
We at Bright Side have learned that there are dreams that are common for all of us. Each of us sees these types of dreams every now and then. These dreams are caused by our ancient instincts, a cultural code, the experience of our ancestors, and personal experience. A psychologist and an expert in the field of dreams, Patricia Garfield, calls them “universal dreams” and says, “Like a hearty stew that is rich with local produce, the universal dreams differ among different peoples, but they are all nourishing variants of the same wholesome meal. They are as old as humanity and as widespread as our globe.”
1. Falling
In adulthood, we see falling more often than flying. According to the psychologist Ian Wallace, a dream about falling symbolizes the fear of losing control. You can’t control something in your life anymore because some drastic changes that you were not ready for took place in your life. Think about what sphere of life (work, relationships, finances, health, etc.) you feel most suppressed or vulnerable in as well as the ways to correct it.
Some scientists explain dreams about falling with simple physiology. As the body is sinking into sleep, the nerve system starts to calm down, your blood pressure and heart rate decrease and your falling asleep brain (especially if it was overwhelmed during the day) can perceive this physiological change as danger or an approaching death and therefore, makes you wake up suddenly.
The opposite version of this dream is flying which signifies freeing oneself from some hard burden and getting the desirable freedom.
2. Teeth that fall out and injuries
Our subconscious interprets teeth as an indicator of strength, and an ability to “bite off” a piece of the world. “Perhaps, you have recently been feeling unarmed and helpless in the real world,” Penney Peirce explains.
Patricia Garfield, another expert who’s studied dreams for many years, connects dreams about teeth falling out with hidden anger. As a rule, when we suppress anger, we clench our jaw, and our teeth might start to creak and grind. This dream might be signaling that it’s high time to get rid of negative feelings.
We often have dreams where someone close to us is wounded or sick. Those dreams cause consternation; however, from psychology’s point of view, things are not that bad. It’s simply our fears of the future and inevitable changes with those close to us. If you see your own death, it means that some part of you is dying and staying in the past to give space to something new.
“Opposite” dreams about birth and recovery usually appear when something new is taking place in a person’s life (like a new job or project) and symbolize a new experience.
3. Failure at an exam or public performance
You’re about to take an exam and suddenly realize that you don’t remember anything or you can’t say a word when standing in front of a big crowd. These dreams might be experienced not only by students and school kids but also by people who have graduated a long time ago. It’s likely that you had some stress shortly before going to sleep or was extremely worried about something. In this case, it’s better to take a short break and relax.
4. Being chased or persecuted
Such dreams have several different meanings. An expert in the field of dreams named Lauri Loewenberg says, “People that tend to avoid conflict, who are afraid of ruffling feathers or causing issues will have the recurring dream of being chased.”
Pay attention to the thing chasing you — they symbolize an unpleasant feeling or situation that you try not to think about in real life. It can be debt or addiction. Are you chased by a person you know? Think about what or who you associate this person with. They might indicate some other person or even a part of your personality that you don’t want to admit (like a hidden talent or aspiration) in your dream.
There’s also a theory saying that dreams about running away from someone are simply the echoes of primitive instincts that are in our genes thanks to our ancestors. All because they were constantly running from predators.
5. Inappropriate clothes or an absence of any
In your dream, you turn up in a public place wearing inappropriate clothes or not wearing anything at all. In this situation, it’s important to pay attention to the feelings you encountered in your dream. These dreams are usually followed by a feeling of shame and embarrassment.
Psychologist Ian Wallace notes, “It means that you feel vulnerable at your new job or in your new relationship and are afraid that others will learn about your weaknesses and disadvantages.” However, if you don’t feel any shame in your dream but instead feel proud of yourself, the dream has the opposite meaning. Perhaps you feel a lack of recognition and admiration and would like others to see your talents as well as your personality more.
6. A catastrophe or an apocalypse
We’ve all dreamed about natural or man-made disasters where we’re scared for our own lives and the lives of those close to us. These dreams might indicate personal problems that have gotten out of control or are a result of feeling threatened by something. Of course, constant messages in the media about catastrophes and terrorist acts worsen the situation. As a result, we start feeling vulnerable in the modern world.
Sometimes, when having a nightmare, we try to shout out loud but feel that our voice has left us, which causes an even bigger fear. Psychologists explain it as sleep paralysis. During the last phase of sleep, when we have dreams, our brain purposefully paralyzes the body so that we can lie still and not “live” in our sleep by running, jumping, etc. People who have sleep paralysis usually wake up before the end of the last phase and enter a state between sleep and reality for a short period. This can be felt as an inability to move, speak, and, in some cases, breathe.
7. Faulty equipment or vehicles
You try to use some gadget or device, and it breaks right away. For example, your phone stops working, and you can’t call anyone. According to Patricia Garfield, these dreams are more often experienced by women and symbolize worries about relationships or losing an emotional connection with someone.
Dreams in which you’re trying to operate a vehicle that doesn’t work properly or breaks down are in the same category. You are likely missing support and can’t cope with a difficult life situation by yourself.
8. Pregnancy
As strange as it might sound, it’s not only women who can have dreams about pregnancy. A psychologist name David Bedrick says, “Pregnancy symbolizes something new growing inside us.” You subconsciously dream about “giving birth” to a new fascinating creative project. It can be anything from writing a book to repairing a house. It’s time to set a goal and show the world how you can take on this new role.
If you’re not pregnant in real life, you may be seeking fulfillment after having such a dream.
9. Being late
Dreams that have you running after a departing train or running late for an important meeting can occur quite often. According to a dream expert, Michael R. Olsen, they can symbolize the fear of missing out on something very important in your relationships or in the upbringing of your child, for example. If you’re constantly overwhelmed and don’t have much time to accomplish things in real life, your subconscious is signaling that it’s time for you to reconsider your schedule and free up time for really important things.
10. An unknown room
Dreams about new rooms are about self-knowledge. If you find yourself in an unknown house in your dream, it means that you don’t know yourself well and try to neglect some sides of your character. A separate unfamiliar room symbolizes that you have a hidden talent, skill, or opportunity that you don’t use.
A psychotherapist named Eddie Traversa thinks that we subconsciously associate some rooms with certain processes. A kitchen is a place where products get transformed into a finished dish which means that you’re currently going through some inner changes. A bathroom is a symbol of freeing oneself from unnecessary baggage. It might symbolize that it’s time to get rid of something that is not needed any longer. A bathroom is a symbol of cleansing and it means that you feel the necessity to clarify things or see them in a different light. A bedroom signifies the things that worry you in your romantic relationship.
Have you ever experienced any of these dreams or do you usually see something different? Please tell us about it in the comments!
My Daughter, 5, Brought Me a Picture from Her Dad’s Suitcase, but When I Saw It, I Fainted
My Daughter, 5, Brought Me a Picture from Her Dad’s Suitcase, but When I Saw It, I Fainted
When Emma found a mysterious ultrasound in her dad’s bag, it unveiled a secret that would shatter her mother’s world, leading to a dinner revelation that changed the fabric of their family life forever.
As the front door creaked open, the familiar silhouette of my husband, Jack, filled the entryway. He looked worn from his travels, his shoulders sagging under the weight of exhaustion, yet there was a faint relief in his eyes as he stepped into the familiarity of our home.
Jack returning home | Source: Midjourney
The chaos of his return was evident in the disarray of suitcases, briefcases, and various items spilled by the doorway, a jumbled testament to his recent business trip. His coat dangled precariously from one suitcase, while a tangle of charging cables peeked out from another, each object telling a silent story of his hurried transitions between airports and meetings.
Jack and Emma together by the suitcases | Source: Midjourney
In the midst of this scattered landscape, our daughter Emma’s bright eyes sparkled with the uncontainable excitement that only a child’s innocence can hold. At four years old, her world was one of wonder and discovery.
Emma playing with the suitcase | Source: Midjourney
The return of her father was an event marked by the joyous anticipation of stories and perhaps a hidden treasure from his travels. Her small, delicate hands often explored the world around her, seeking out new mysteries to unravel, her curiosity as boundless as the sky.
Jack unpacks his suitcase with Emma by his side | Source: Midjourney
Emma’s playful laughter echoed through the house as she darted between the suitcases, her tiny feet barely making a sound on the soft carpet. Her blonde curls bounced with each step, a lively contrast to the stillness of Jack’s weary demeanor. She was the heartbeat of our home, filling each corner with light and life, her presence a constant reminder of the love that had once been the foundation of our family.
Emma playing | Source: Midjourney
As I watched her, a mix of affection and apprehension stirred within me. Emma’s innocence shielded her from the complexities of adult emotions and the unspoken tensions that had crept into our marriage. Yet, in her unguarded joy and exploration, she was about to stumble upon a secret that would unravel the carefully maintained facade of our family life.
Mary watching her daughter warily | Source: Midjourney
The stage was set in the most ordinary of scenes: a tired husband returning home, the chaotic remnants of his journey littering our entrance, and our daughter, the embodiment of childlike wonder, innocently navigating through the clutter.
Little did we know that this ordinary day was about to take an extraordinary turn, revealing truths hidden just beneath the surface of our daily lives, truths that would challenge the very foundation of what we had built together.
Mary unknowing of the storm that was coming | Source: Midjourney
Then, amidst the jumble of business paraphernalia and souvenirs, Emma’s hand closed around something unexpected. Her eyes widened, a gleam of triumph and curiosity dancing within them as she pulled out a slender piece of paper.
“Mommy, you’ll never guess what I found!” she exclaimed, her voice a mixture of wonder and mischief, as she approached me with a secretive delight, holding her find behind her back.
Emma approaching Mary | Source: Midjourney
As she stood before me, her small hands revealed the object of her discovery—an ultrasound image. The black and white picture was stark against her tiny, pale fingers. It depicted a tiny, unborn child, its features barely discernible yet unmistakably human. Below the image, a caption read, “Hi Daddy, I’m coming soon. T ,” a message that felt like a cold blade slicing through the warm fabric of our family life.
Ultrasound photo | Source: Pexels
My heart plummeted into an abyss of shock and disbelief. The room seemed to tilt and sway as I took in the image, every line and curve of the ultrasound burning itself into my memory. The date stamped on it was just last week, a time when Jack was supposedly engulfed in meetings and corporate dealings. The reality of what I was seeing clashed violently with the world I thought I knew.
Shocked Mary | Source: Midjourney
A torrent of emotions crashed over me like a relentless wave. Betrayal, confusion, and a piercing sadness intertwined, forming a choking knot in my throat. My mind raced, trying to piece together the fragmented truths and half-lies that had colored our recent conversations about his trip. The implications of this ultrasound image were clear, yet my heart rebelled against accepting them.
Mary holds Emma trying to process the photo | Source: Midjourney
Emma, oblivious to the storm of emotions her discovery had unleashed, looked up at me with eyes full of innocence and expectation, waiting for my reaction. Her face, usually a source of joy and comfort, now mirrored the image of an unfamiliar reality that I was not prepared to face. In that moment, our lives, entwined in love and daily routines, seemed to fracture, revealing a hidden layer of deception that threatened to engulf everything we held dear.
Emma looking up at her upset mom | Source: Midjourney
In the solitude of our bedroom, I sat with the ultrasound image clutched in trembling hands, a tempest of hurt and anger swirling within me. My mind was a battlefield, torn between an immediate confrontation with Jack and the gnawing need to craft a plan that would unveil the true extent of his deceit. The urgency to scream and shatter the facade of normalcy was overwhelming, yet a part of me craved a more calculated approach, a way to gauge the depth of his betrayal.
Mary deep in thought | Source: Midjourney
The image of Emma’s innocent face, juxtaposed against the stark reality of the ultrasound, fueled my resolve. I needed to know if there was any remorse in Jack, any sliver of the man I once loved, or if that, too, had been a mirage. With a heavy heart, I decided on a plan that would expose the truth of his loyalty and truthfulness.
Mary formulating her plan | Source: Midjourney
I returned the original ultrasound to where Emma had found it, ensuring it lay amidst Jack’s belongings, a silent sentinel waiting for its moment. Then, with a resolve that felt both empowering and devastating, I crafted a counterfeit scene, one that would mirror the revelation Emma stumbled upon, but with a twist. I printed a fake ultrasound image, mimicking the one Emma found, but with my initial, crafting a narrative that would force Jack into the open.
Mary thinking about her daughter | Source: Midjourney
The evening was set, the table adorned with candles and the aroma of a carefully prepared meal wafting through the air, creating an ambiance of deceptive normalcy. As Jack walked in, his face lit up with a smile, anticipating a romantic reunion, oblivious to the storm brewing beneath the surface.
Mary setting the table | Source: Midjourney
The tension in my chest mounted as dinner progressed, each course a step closer to the impending climax. Finally, with a feigned tenderness, I presented the fake ultrasound, mirroring the words, “Dear, soon there will be four of us.” The air thickened as the words hung between us, a baited trap awaiting its prey.
Mary preparing to reveal the news | Source: Midjourney
Jack’s initial expression of joy and surprise morphed into one of utter confusion and then horror as the reality of the situation dawned on him. His face crumbled, tears welling up in his eyes as he stammered, “Dear, you know everything, it was a mistake. I don’t love her. I’ll stay with you and we’ll raise our newborn together.”
Stunned Jack | Source: Midjourney
His words, steeped in desperation and guilt, were meant to be an appeal for mercy, but they only served to cement the painful truth of his infidelity and the fragility of our shared past.
As Jack’s confession spilled out, a bitter symphony of words that sought absolution, my world was irrevocably altered. His tears, once a symbol of our shared joys and sorrows, now flowed from a well of deceit.
Jack with tears in his eyes | Source: Midjourney
My heart, once a haven of love and trust, was now a fortress of betrayal and anger. His pleas for forgiveness, his claims of a solitary mistake, echoed hollowly in the chasm between us.
“I didn’t mean for this to happen, it was just a moment of weakness,” Jack implored, his voice breaking under the weight of his own words.
Jack trying to convince Mary | Source: Midjourney
“A moment of weakness?” I countered, my voice steady despite the storm raging inside. “Is that what you call it? A moment that shatters years of trust, that disregards the very foundation of our family?”
He reached out, seeking the comfort of a touch that had once soothed and united us, but I recoiled, the distance between us now more than just physical. “I thought we were past the hurdles, Jack. That we were strong enough to face anything together. But this?” I gestured to the fake ultrasound still clutched in his trembling hands, “This is a hurdle too high, a breach too deep.”
Mary angry with Jack | Source: Midjourney
His attempts to justify his actions, to paint them as fleeting lapses, only served to deepen my resolve. The man before me, wreathed in remorse and desperation, was a stranger, his once-familiar features marred by the shadows of lies and irresponsibility.
As the reality of his betrayal fully settled in, the finality of my decision took root. “I can’t forgive this, Jack,” I stated, the clarity of my conviction piercing the fog of emotional turmoil. “Our marriage, our family, was built on trust and respect, and you’ve shattered both.”
Mary breaking up with Jack | Source: Midjourney
The room was heavy with the unspoken, with the remnants of a life we would no longer share. I stood, gathering the fragments of my dignity and resolve, preparing to navigate the ruins of our shared past and the uncertainty of my future with Emma.
In the silence that followed, I packed the essentials, each item a piece of the life I was leaving behind, a life marred by betrayal but not defined by it. Emma, still untouched by the harsh realities of adult complexities, remained my beacon of hope, her innocence a reminder of the pure love that still resided within me.
Mary leaving the house with Emma | Source: Midjourney
As I closed the door behind me, the finality of the act was a solemn testament to the end of our marital bond. Ahead lay a path of healing and rediscovery, for both myself and Emma, a journey towards a future built on the solid ground of integrity and responsibility.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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