How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
Michael Phelps’ Wife: Former Miss California and Her Stunning Support in His Struggles
The Olympic legend Michael Phelps, known for his extraordinary accomplishments, never ceases to wow fans with his combination of personal charisma and physical brilliance.
A remarkable 28 Olympic medals, including an unparalleled 23 golds, have cemented Phelps’s place among the greatest sportsmen of all time.
Phelps, who was born in Baltimore, Maryland, on June 30, 1985, began swimming at a young age and went on to become a worldwide sports superstar. His outstanding Olympic accomplishments have established him as a champion of the highest order.
Whenever someone is discussing who the best Olympian of all time is, people like Usain Bolt, Carl Lewis, and Nadia Comaneci are usually mentioned.
But Michael Phelps is unrivaled in terms of the sheer quantity of medals. His twenty-three gold medals exceed the amount of the majority of Olympians, including some accomplished swimmers.
Other than the likes of Jenny Thompson, Matt Biondi, and Mark Spitz, no swimmer has ever achieved the historic number of gold medals that Michael Phelps has.
Beyond his in-pool accomplishments, Phelps has won love and respect from people all across the world. Devoted followers have flooded his Instagram with comments, referring to him as their “idol” and “legend.” Some have even confessed to having a “crush” or being “obsessed” with him.
Even though Phelps has had a fantastic sporting career, the public is also fascinated by his personal life. Upon accepting his awards for Best Record-Breaking Performance and Best Male U.S. Olympic Athlete at the ESPY Awards, Michael Phelps conveyed his happiness in commemorating these events with his family. He has a special place in his heart for the ESPY Awards because he met his wife, Nicole Johnson, there more than ten years ago.
Nicole Johnson is not just gorgeous; she has been a staunch advocate for Michael Phelps. She has demonstrated her dedication to their shared objectives by actively participating as an Ambassador for the Michael Phelps Foundation since 2015.
Johnson has a history in modeling and beauty pageants, and VC Star lists Miss California USA as one of her accomplishments in 2010. In addition, she placed second in the Miss California National Teenager competition in 2004 and placed in the top 15 during her debut compete at Miss California USA in 2006.
Viewers have observed Johnson’s grace in the pictures Phelps posts on social media. She is regularly praised by admirers who call her “cute,” “pretty,” and “absolutely beautiful.” Fans admire the couple for their close bond and remarkable appearances; they value their bond just as much as Phelps’s sporting achievements.
Nicole Johnson is an important source of support for Michael Phelps despite his outward look. She helps him deal with his worry and melancholy. Phelps has been open about his struggles with mental health and frequently gives his wife credit for her unwavering support.
Nobody else could provide me with the kind of support that she has. In an interview with Today, Phelps said, “She’s the glue that holds all of us together.”
Phelps and Johnson are parenting Boomer, Beckett, Maverick, and Nico, their newest kid, together.
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