While my mom battled cancer, I was her caregiver, nursing her until her final days. But when she passed away, my mom split her money between my money-hungry brother and aunts. But it turns out that there was more to the story.
It turns out that inheritance, loss, and family are the ultimate recipes for drama. Let me tell you all about what happened after my mom passed away.
My mom battled with cancer for the longest time. When I look back now, it was something that had been around throughout my early life and then carried on when I enrolled at the community college close to home. Mom was always my best friend, so naturally, I was going to be there every step of the way while she battled this illness.
I just remember the days bleeding into nights when she was sick — something that was in a constant loop. But I also remember that the spoon-feeding and the hand-holding gave her as much comfort as they gave me. And then, on the other side of this story, my brother and aunts only showed up when they needed something. Usually, to have their bills paid.
Cancer patient at home. | Source: Pexels
Or, like the one aunt (while my mom was on a steady decline), she wanted mom’s “contacts” to sort out a new house for her. Because my mom owned a real estate agency. The audacity was unbelievable.
Anyway, Mom tried her hardest, but the illness took over in the end. Now, fast forward to the day of the will reading. All the relatives, the lawyer, and I were sitting in a room like something straight out of a Hallmark movie — think of wood everywhere and a chipped tea set on the scratched surface of an impossibly old coffee table.
I was sipping a cup of weak tea from one of the chipped teacups when the lawyer dropped the bomb. Mom’s savings, about all $5 million of it, was to be split between my brother and my aunts. I choked back the tea, thinking what was happening in the name of heaven. Because I got nothing. Zip. Nada.
Now, I’m sitting there, with tears streaming down my face and onto the white skirt I was wearing — mascara drops staining my clothing. And this greedy bunch did not even bother to hide their smirks.
I was baffled.
Pink and White Tea Set. | Source: Pexels
How on earth could my mom have done this to me? I thought, wiping my nose with the face of my hand. And then, as a classic overthinker, I began to wonder whether I cared enough for her during those final months.
But then, the lawyer stood up and handed me an envelope.
“Your Mom,” he said, “loved you more than anyone.”
Of course, the room gets quiet, and the greedy bunch all look hungrily at the letter. Dearest Lily, it said on the front.
I opened the letter, and an address and a key were written on a single piece of paper.
Now, I’m sitting there and thinking, What the heck, Mom?
But I decided to check it out. Maybe she wanted me to clear out a storage room or something. The lawyer decided to tag along, tight-lipped about everything. So, we got to the address, which turned out to be this hidden gem of a house. A beautiful home with even my favorite flowers planted along the walkway.
Beautiful House | Source: Pexels
Mom had left me a fully paid-for home! And it was clear that she had left her imprint on the place because there were photos of us inside. And another letter on the glass table in the entrance hall — this letter was to spill the beans.
It turns out my mom knew all about how my brother and aunts were the biggest money drains. But she wanted me to have a place to build a future and a family. To make new memories in a place that clearly has her spirit.
As for the money? Well, the letter said that she handed it to them, fully aware that they would blow through it. She wanted to teach them the value of things and focus on family ties. Which was bound to happen when the money was long gone.
But now, I’m standing in my new kitchen, drinking coffee from the coffee machine I always wanted, and I realize that mom’s love was never in the money — no. It was in this home, and I knew that this gift would be more valuable to me than anything else.
Hey, Mom? You still know the best.
Person using a coffee machine | Source: Pexels
What “mom knows best” stories do you have?
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Inside Tom Selleck’s ‘retreat’ home, where he has been living a private life since 1988 with his family
Tom Selleck is probably one of Hollywood’s most beloved actors. He has taken on a number of roles throughout the years and been well-liked by many Americans.
The actor lives a full life, residing in his permanent home for the most part of it.
Continue reading to learn more about Tom Selleck.
Tom Selleck has lived the ranch lifestyle in California for almost thirty years. Living on a ranch, according to him and his spouse, keeps him relatively calm.
The actor, who was born in Detroit in January 1945, began his career in entertainment in the 1960s when he began to appear in small roles on television and in films. It wasn’t until Magnum, PI debuted that the actor actually became well-known and wealthy.
For eight years, Selleck played detective Thomas Magnum, located in Hawaii. For the role, he even received a Primetime Emmy for outstanding lead actor.
Subsequently, the actor starred in popular TV shows like The Closer and Friends. In addition, he stars in “Blue Bloods.” Alongside Donnie Wahlberg and Bridget Moynahan, he co-stars in the show. The show has 13 seasons under its belt and is incredibly popular with viewers.
Selleck has achieved a great deal of fame, yet his career could have achieved even greater success. On the other hand, the actor values balance in his life and gives equal weight to his personal and professional relationships. For this reason, the actor moved out of Magnum, PI in 1987.
The actor had no idea how much fame the series had brought him. Although he took pleasure in his profession, he wasn’t always happy with the attention he received. “I knew intellectually what it would mean in terms of being a public person, but there’s no way to understand it until you’ve lived it,” he once stated.
The actor claimed that he left Magnum, PI in search of a more fulfilling existence since he was “from it.” When he quit the show in 1987, he married Jillie Joan Mack, his second wife. He talked about how his second wife could “light up a room” and had a “effervescent quality.”
Mack was a former dancer turned actress from England. A year after their marriage, the couple purchased a ranch in Ventura, California. The ranch was originally owned by Dean Martin. There are reportedly more than 1,500 native trees on the property.
After ten years of filming Blue Bloods in New York, Selleck leaves the ranch, leaving his wife Mack in charge. Despite giving up her job, one of the couple’s acquaintances saw that she was still quite happy because she spent most of her time on the ranch with her animals, who gave her immense delight.
Selleck and Mack love the ranch. Before he bought the property, Selleck decided he wanted to make amends and get some privacy back. The actor hardly finished any work during the year, which worried people about his career. But he made it clear that the primary cause was that he was uninterested in the tasks that were being assigned to him.
As press reports said that the actor’s career was all but ended, the actor took advantage of the peace and quiet to reinvent himself. “I quit Magnum to have a family,” he declared. Although getting off the train took a while, this property has really aided in my efforts to maintain equilibrium.
Hannah, Mack and Selleck’s daughter, was born in 1988. The couple has been married for almost thirty years. They believed that raising their daughter on the ranch would be enjoyable as well.
To sustain his personal life, the actor prioritized his marriage. He admitted that spending some time away from Hollywood to focus on his family has improved his marriage.
Even while living in a laid-back manner at the ranch has enhanced his personal life, the couple finds it difficult to maintain. All of the maintenance on the property is done by Selleck alone, including plant pruning and road repairs.
This California drought hurt his avocado plants. In 2007, the actor acknowledged that selling avocados had proven to be quite profitable for him, but only a few years before, he had acknowledged that it was getting harder for him to make a living from his avocados.
Selleck is accused by the Calleguas Municipal Water District of stealing truckloads of water. It was said that he would use a large truck similar to a water tender to drive to the hydrant and deliver the water back to his house. There were twelve documented journeys in around two years. Because it was uncertain whether any more visits were made that were overlooked, it was also unclear how much water was taken.
Two cease-and-desist notices from the authorities in late 2013 are said to have been disregarded by the performers, who kept taking water.
The actor was made to pay $21,000 to cover the cost of the private investigation that was done against him in addition to additional money to cover the cost of damages. He was also prohibited from using the Calleguas Municipal Water District for personal purposes any longer.
The actor gave off the impression that he was content with his life and California ranches. We are ecstatic that the performer now has a space to “retreat” and be authentic.
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