After losing his wife, Jim finally finds a woman who makes him believe that happiness can be found once again. As Jim navigates the fine line between his daughter and welcoming Emily into his life, he realizes that blending a family isn’t as easy as he thought it would be.
I met Emily three years after my wife’s death. Losing Karen had shattered me. She was the person that I thought I would grow old with, and more importantly, Karen was the mother of our precious daughter, Amy.
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There were days when I thought that I’d never heal from the loss of my wife, but as time went on, I knew that hope would come.
“It’s okay to feel your feelings, Jim,” my mother would say. “But it’s also okay to dream of a new start. Nobody will ever replace Karen. Not for you, nor for Amy. But it’s okay to want joy.”
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And meeting Emily made me feel like it was a fresh start. After a few months of dating, I decided to introduce her to my daughter, who was nine at the time.
“Are you sure, Jim?” Emily asked me, her eyes wide, when we were at dinner.
“Yes,” I reassured her. “Don’t get me wrong, Em. I think we’re great together, but I can only continue this relationship if you get along with my daughter.”
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“No,” Emily said, sipping on a cocktail. “It’s understandable, and I absolutely agree with that. Your daughter comes first.”
To my relief, they hit it off immediately. Amy, always so perceptive, even at her young age, was thrilled to have another woman in her life.
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“I think Emily is pretty cool, Dad,” Amy told me when we went out on a little father-daughter ice cream date.
“So, you like her?” I asked, trying to navigate the situation from my daughter’s point of view.
“I do, Dad,” she said, picking the cherry off her sundae.
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Two years later, I proposed to Emily.
Of course, by this time Emily had woven herself seamlessly into our family, and even Karen’s parents seemed to think that her influence was good on Amy.
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“Amy loves her,” Karen’s mom, Lily, told me one day when I was picking my daughter up from her home. “You have our blessing, Jim. Not that you needed it, but you have it.”
I was thrilled. I had never wanted my in-laws to think that I was replacing Karen or hiding away her memory. I just wanted a sense of happiness.
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But as Emily and I threw ourselves into wedding preparations, lines started to get blurred.
“I can’t wait to be a flower girl, Dad,” Amy said, twirling around the living room, pretending that she was wearing a fancy dress.
“I can’t wait for that either,” I replied.
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But, during a conversation about the ceremony, Emily suggested that her nephew take that role instead.
“What changed? I thought Amy was going to be the flower girl,” I asked, puzzled.
“Oh, she can still be involved. I just think it might be cute to have little Joey as the flower boy,” Emily replied, her smile not quite reaching her eyes.
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“No, Emily. Amy is my daughter and she’ll be the flower girl. They can do it together, but Amy will have her moment.”
Emily didn’t argue further, but I noticed a flicker of annoyance cross her face. I brushed it off, thinking it was just pre-wedding stress.
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The night before the wedding, I found myself sitting in Amy’s room, tucking her into bed. She looked up at me with Karen’s eyes. The same warm, loving eyes that had captivated me from the moment we met.
“Are you excited about tomorrow?” she asked.
“I am, sweetheart,” I replied, smoothing her hair. “But it’s also a little scary, you know? Big changes.”
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“Do you think Mom will be happy?” she asked.
Her question pierced my heart. I thought about Karen, about how she would have wanted me to find happiness again.
“I think she would be, Amy.”
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The day of the wedding arrived, and everything seemed perfect. The venue was stunning, all shades of pink woven together. I was walking down the hallway, waiting to head to the altar when I heard Emily’s bridesmaids talking behind a door.
“Em was clear. We need to accidentally lock Amy in the dressing room before the ceremony,” a voice said.
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“Is she insane? The kid is her future stepdaughter. Why should we do it?” another voice replied, incredulous.
“Emily said that she cannot stand seeing Amy right now. She found photos of Jim’s wife and Amy looks identical to her,” someone explained.
“And so what? Emily can’t stand the fact that a child looks like her mother? I want nothing to do with this.”
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My blood ran cold.
Anger surged through me. How dare they plan to exclude my daughter? I took a deep breath and composed myself.
I had to find my daughter.
“Dad!” Amy said when I opened the door to the dressing room that I knew my mother and Amy were in.
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“Stay with me,” I said, pulling her close. “You don’t have to walk down as a flower girl. You can walk down the aisle with me.”
My daughter beamed and threw her arms around my neck.
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As the ceremony began, Emily walked down the aisle, radiant in her wedding dress, a smile plastered on her face. But when she saw Amy, her expression shifted from joy to shock.
There was my daughter, standing right beside me.
Emily reached me, her eyes wide with fury.
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“What is she doing here?” she hissed.
I kept my voice low but steady.
“What? Are you surprised to see Amy?”
“Jim, she was supposed to be… I mean….” Emily stammered, trying to recover.
“Supposed to be in a locked room? Is that what you mean, Emily?” my voice rose, and the guests started to murmur, sensing something was wrong.
“Jim, I…” she began.
I turned to the audience.
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“Ladies and gentlemen,” I said loudly, addressing the audience. “I have something to share with all of you. It appears that Emily and her bridesmaids had planned to lock my daughter, Amy, in a dressing room to prevent her from being a part of this wedding. They did this because Emily couldn’t stand Amy reminding her of my late wife.”
Gasps and murmurs of shock rippled through the crowd. Emily looked mortified.
“Jim, please, I can explain,” Emily pleaded, her voice desperate.
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“Explain how you thought it was okay to hurt my daughter!To exclude her from this important day in our lives!” I demanded, my voice shaking with emotion.
Amy stood at my elbow, looking confused but brave.
“Emily, I thought you loved Amy as much as you claimed to love me. But your actions show otherwise.”
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“Jim, I was just… I didn’t want to be reminded of your wife,” Emily’s voice trailed off.
“Of my past? Emily, my past is part of who I am. Amy is a part of who I am. And if you cannot accept that, then you don’t belong in our future,” I declared, my decision made.
The room fell silent.
Emily’s bridesmaids exchanged uneasy glances, unsure of what to do.
“What now, Jim?” Emily asked me, her shoulders slouched.
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“This wedding is off,” I announced. “I will not marry someone who would go to such lengths to hurt my child. We’re done here.”
Tears filled Emily’s eyes, but she knew there was no arguing with me. Not when it came to my daughter.
Emily turned and walked out, her bridesmaids trailing behind her.
I knelt down to Amy’s level, hugging her tightly.
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“No one will ever come between us, sweetheart,” I whispered.
The guests, still in shock, began to applaud. I stood up, took Amy’s hand, and led her down the aisle, not as a bridegroom but as a proud father who stood up for his daughter and his family.
The following day, I took my daughter out for breakfast. I needed to have a moment alone with her, ready to answer any questions she may have.
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“Are you sure it was a good idea not to marry Emily?” Amy asked, pouring syrup onto her waffles.
“Yes, sweetheart,” I declared clearly. “Do you think it would have been right to marry Emily after she locked you in a room during the ceremony?”
Amy shook her head slowly and picked up a strawberry.
“No,” she replied. “But she did make you happy, didn’t she?”
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“For a moment,” I said truthfully. “But when I thought about what lengths she would go through, just to make herself happy… No, darling, then she did not make me happy.”
“So, you don’t blame me?” she asked me solemnly.
“Not at all,” I replied, reassuring her as much as I could.
I knew that my daughter would struggle with this. I knew that she would think about this from all angles. She embodied everything my late wife did.
“I’m glad, Dad,” she said, smiling at me.
And in that moment, I knew that I had done right by my daughter.
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This famous teen heartthrob is now 79 – try not to smile when you see him today.
One of the major musical stars of the 1960s and 1970s was Bobby Sherman. When I think back on it, I can hardly think of a single friend who didn’t at some point develop feelings for him.
Sherman sold millions of records, performed in front of thousands of people, put out several albums, and gained recognition as an actor. But eventually, at the height of his popularity, he made the decision to permanently leave the entertainment industry.
This, however, wasn’t because the 79-year-old thought his abilities had declined in any kind. No, he was fighting for something far more important: the preservation of life.
Everything you need to know about the renowned artist Bobby Sherman is provided here!
Bobby Sherman was raised in Van Nuys, a community next to Los Angeles, after being born in Santa Monica, California, on July 22, 1943.
Bobby Sherman’s childhood
He was reported to have mastered the trumpet by the age of 11, and subsequently the piano, trombone, piano, and of course, the guitar. Sherman went to Birmingham High School. He joined a band there and had a keen interest in singing. He apparently picked up the incredible skill of playing sixteen instruments throughout the years.
Following his high school graduation in 1961, Sherman enrolled in Woodland Hill, California’s Pierce College. A romance there would permanently alter the path of his life.
Sherman met his first lover while pursuing his studies in child psychology at Pierce College. She made the decision to bring him along to the cast party of The Greatest Story Ever Told one evening.
That was when Sherman had began to play music. Many folks in the San Fernando Valley knew he had a good voice because he sang with several bands there. Sherman so seized the chance to showcase his skills when he got to the party.
He subsequently recalled it, saying, “I was always the guy who had the guts to get up and sing in front of people.”
It probably helped a little bit because Bobby had party pals who were on stage with the band. Either way, he stood up in front of the group and sang What I’d Say by Ray Charles.
found during a party in Hollywood
As it was a Hollywood party, a number of entertainment celebrities were present. Sal Mineo, Natalie Wood, and Jane Fonda were a few of them.
They saw his talent after the show, and Mineo made the decision to mentor him.
“It was said by others, ‘Who’s handling you?’” Sherman remarked, “I had no idea what that meant.”
“Well, you know, I was a Van Nuys kid, and I was like, ‘What do they mean, handling me?’” I understood then that they intended representation.
He quickly became acquainted with Hollywood. Bobby Sherman was sent to an audition just three days later by an agent who had been tipped off by a partygoer. Bobby was cast as a featured character in Shindig, a new television series.
Even though Bobby was only in that capacity for two years, it was all he needed to leave his impact. At that point, he had become the national darling, and jobs were popping up out of every nook and cranny.
Sherman had guest appearances on a number of television programs after Shindig was canceled in 1966, including The FBI, Honey West, and The Monkees. Even though he had begun to gain attention in Hollywood, his major break came in 1968.
Bobby Sherman: acting, albums, songs, and music
Sherman spent two full years as the stuttering Jason Bolt in the television series Here Comes the Bridges. At the end of his run, his character stopped having stutters, and the show was eventually canceled.
Sherman discovered how well-liked Jason Bolt was by the public when he made an appearance at a Buffalo telethon. Suddenly, he was more than simply a rising star. Instead, he was now a celebrity.
Sherman told Tulsa World, “The show had just gone on the air, and we didn’t even have any records out yet.”
“Robert Brown, myself, and Greg Morris from Mission: Impossible from Here Come The Brides were requested to participate in the telethon, and things were going great until the fire marshal entered the room and announced, “We have a problem.” You must greet some individuals, so you’d better make your way to the second floor.
“They unlocked this window, and I peered outside, and the exit of this TV station was a sea of faces,” he continued. It was simply amazing. And that’s when I realized something was going on.
For Bobby, the ensuing year was “kind of limbo.” But that’s when he started getting interested in songwriting and experimented with his eight-track recording apparatus.
Bobby went on to become a professional singer, even if his voice wasn’t completely recognized at the time.
Bobby Sherman’s spouse, kids, and family
Sherman’s youthful fan base purchased millions of records between 1969 and 1971, during which time he released hits including Julie, Do Ya Love Me, Easy Come, Easy Go, and Little Woman.
One million copies of four distinct recorded albums and one million copies of six different single recordings were sold by him.
In 1971, he stated, “A song begins with an idea – one line.”I develop that into a full lyric. I then arranged the music to fit it.
Sherman starred in a number of guest roles after his 1970 and 1971 stint on the television show Getting Together, which was a spinoff of The Partridge Family and followed the lives of two songwriters.
Sherman initially married Patti Carnel in 1971, which also happened to coincide with his ascent to stardom. Christopher and Tyler, the couple’s two boys, were born.
Sherman made the decision to construct a scale replica of Disneyland’s Main Street in his garden because he wanted his children to grow up in an amazing environment. It took him almost two and a half years to finish the project, and it apparently cost him about fifteen thousand dollars to create.
The initiative wasn’t well received by everyone; his wife reportedly found the incessant hammering to be bothersome.
“I had no idea what home was,” Sherman said in a People interview. “She even threatened to kill me if I didn’t finish it.”
Bobby’s children served as the model for his new career in addition to inspiring him to construct his own portion of Disneyland.
Bobby rose to prominence on television before celebrities like Shaun Cassidy and even David Cassidy. Eventually, people like Donny Osmond “replaced” him.
But at the height of his popularity, millions of people loved Sherman, who was starring in popular TV shows and putting out hit tunes at the same time. Tiger Beat and Sixteen turned into two of his favorite records.
Sherman clarified that despite living the life of luxury that very few people get to experience, he would typically film five days a week and even have nighttime programs on the weekends. It’s safe to say that the hectic schedule had its effects.
“I didn’t know what home was for three years because it was so hectic,” he said to the Washington Post.
“I had no idea where I was, and I was lost.” I needed constant reminders. To be really honest, though, I had the best experience ever because of the fantastic concerts and amazing fans. Even though it was the classic love-in, I felt like I was totally taken advantage of.
Bobby Sherman gave up music to save people’s lives.
Then, in the middle of his enormous notoriety, Bobby made the abrupt decision to change careers to something completely different but equally significant.
In the end, he made the decision to turn around and give up his career in music and television in an effort to save lives.
Sherman’s former wife Patti was terrified of blood, and he was deeply involved in his children’s upbringing. Accidents happen frequently, as anyone who has reared children will attest, and Christopher and Tyler frequently fell and hurt themselves.
These falls occasionally resulted in minor cuts and scrapes as well as bleeding knees. Sherman made the decision to enroll in certain classes in order to better manage these kinds of circumstances. After taking an introductory course on first aid and CPR, he moved on to volunteer as an emergency medical technician.
“I rescued the life of a small 5-year-old girl on the very first call. Indeed, that is the most amazing feeling, I thought to myself. In an interview from 1994, Bobby recounted.
Sherman completed more training and went on to work for the Los Angeles Police Department as a first aid instructor for officers.
Emergency medical technician Bobby Sherman
Bobby was sworn in as a police officer in 1992 and appointed chief medical training officer for the Los Angeles Police Department. In the field, he gave birth to five children, and in 1994, he bravely faced hardship.
Sherman was awakened by an earthquake at his Encino, California, home on January 17, 1994. Rather than taking cover, he made the decision to hop in his truck and drive directly to the epicenter.
While some needed first aid, others there needed advise. Either way, Bobby’s expertise and presence were required.
Even though Bobby’s profession choice put him in danger and exposed him to many challenging circumstances, at his core he was still an entertainer and had many of the endearing traits from his days in the business. In fact, he ran across a few of his former admirers on the field.
He used to tell a tale about how, as a teen idol, his celebrity followed him around when he went on fire department paramedic rescue calls.
signed letters to patients
Bobby told The Times, “We were working on a bleeding woman who had passed out on one call in Northridge.”
Her spouse was staring at me nonstop. He exclaimed, “Look, honey, it’s Bobby Sherman!” at the end. The woman started as she came to. “Oh great, I must look like a mess,” she exclaimed. She appeared fine, so I reassured her not to worry.
Bobby kept using his improvised studio to record music for movies and TV series over the years. In 1997, he made his final appearance on television when he starred in an episode of Fraiser.
He participated in the “Teen Idol Tour” in the late 1990s with Peter Noone, Davy Jones, and Micky Dolenz from the Monkees. But he then made the decision to officially leave the entertainment industry.
Sherman thanked his supporters for everything and said it was difficult to maintain the success.
“My life’s work and accomplishments can be attributed to the blessings bestowed upon me by my fans.” The celebrity told Tulsa World, “It’s stayed with me, so I can have the opportunity to do things that I really love doing.”
Bobby Sherman’s current net worth is as follows.
Sherman said, “I don’t think there’s anything I would change, other than maybe being a little bit more aware of [the success], because I probably could’ve enjoyed the fun of it a little more.” It required a lot of labor. There were many tears, sweats, and bloodsheds. But the best of times was had by all.
In 2011, Bobby Sherman married Brigette, his second wife, and the two of them are still together today. They established The Brigitte and Bobby Sherman Children’s Foundation, a youth facility in Ghana devoted to fusing education and music, the same year they got married.
Bobby is 79 years old today. Still, I think you’ll all agree that he looks a much like himself because he still has a lot of his signature style!
Bobby Sherman was a fantastic actor and performer, and those wonderful years will always be missed!
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