My Dad Left Me When I Was 13 — Ten Years Later, I Saw Him on the Side of the Road Hitchhiking with a Little Girl

The man Mom and I loved to the core tore our hearts apart and abandoned us when I was 13. Ten years later, I pulled over for a hitchhiker, only to see my dad with a little girl by his side. The scars never faded. Will this new encounter heal them or deepen the wound?

The day my dad left, the world lost its color. I remember standing in our driveway, watching his car disappear around the corner. The rubber of his tires on the asphalt made a sound I’ll never forget, like hope being slowly crushed…

Silhouette of a sad girl | Source: Midjourney

Silhouette of a sad girl | Source: Midjourney

“Dad!” I screamed, running after him. “Dad, come back!”

But he didn’t. He just… left. No explanation, no goodbye. Just gone.

I turned to look at my mom, Crystal. She stood in the doorway, her face brimming with shock and disbelief. “Mom?” I whispered, my voice small and scared.

She blinked, seeming to remember I was there. “Oh, Ellie, come here, baby.”

Distressed mother hugging her daughter | Source: Midjourney

Distressed mother hugging her daughter | Source: Midjourney

I ran into her arms, burying my face in her shirt. It smelled like home, like safety. But even as she held me, I could feel her shaking.

“Why did he go, Mom?” I had asked, my words muffled against her. “Why did Dad leave us?”

She stroked my hair, her touch gentle but unsteady. “I don’t know, sweetie. I just don’t know.”

An upset girl with her eyes downcast | Source: Midjourney

An upset girl with her eyes downcast | Source: Midjourney

As we stood there, clinging to each other, I made a silent promise to be strong for her. I had to be.

“We’ll be okay, Mom,” I said, trying to sound braver than I felt. “We’ve got each other.”

She squeezed me tighter, and I felt a tear drop onto my head. “Yes, we do, Ellie. We always will.”

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A desperate young girl crying | Source: Pixabay

Ten years passed in a blur of struggle and slow healing. Mom and I became a team, facing the world together. We had our rough patches. Times when the absence of my dad felt like a physical ache.

But we made it through. We had each other. It was enough. And then, in an instant, everything changed.

I was driving home from work on a busy highway one evening, the setting sun painting the sky in shades of orange and pink.

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A woman driving a car | Source: Unsplash

The radio played softly, some pop song about lost love that I barely registered. My mind was on dinner plans and the pile of laundry waiting for me at home.

That’s when I saw them.

A man and a little girl, standing on the side of the highway, thumbs out. Something about the man’s posture, the way he stood protectively next to the girl, made my heart skip a beat. I slowed down, squinting through the windshield.

No. It couldn’t be.

A man standing with a little girl on the roadside | Source: Midjourney

A man standing with a little girl on the roadside | Source: Midjourney

I pulled over, my hands shaking as I put the car in park.

In the rearview mirror, I watched them approach. The little girl skipped along, holding the man’s hand and chattering away. AND THE MAN…?

My blood ran cold. It was HIM… my DAD.

A shocked young woman's eyes | Source: Midjourney

A shocked young woman’s eyes | Source: Midjourney

He looked older, of course. His hair was grayer, his face more lined and exhausted. But there was no mistaking those eyes, the same eyes I saw every time I looked in the mirror.

I got out of the car on unsteady legs, my mouth dry. “Need a ride?” I called out, my voice sounding strange to my own ears.

A startled young woman | Source: Midjourney

A startled young woman | Source: Midjourney

He turned, a grateful smile starting to form on his face. Then he saw me, and the smile vanished, replaced by shock and something that looked a lot like shame.

“Ellie?” he gasped, his eyes wide.

The little girl looked between us, confusion clear on her face. “Do you know her, Bill?” she asked.

Bill. Not Dad. Just… Bill. I swallowed hard, forcing myself to stay calm.

“Yeah,” he said. “Yeah, I know her.”

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A smiling girl looking up | Source: Pexels

The car ride was tense, filled with an awkward silence that seemed to suck all the air out of the vehicle.

I gripped the steering wheel so tightly that my knuckles turned white. I focused on the road ahead to avoid looking at the man in my passenger seat, the man who was supposed to be my father.

The man who had so easily abandoned his family. The man who had so heartlessly moved on, breaking our hearts while building a sand castle of his own.

The little girl hummed quietly in the backseat, oblivious to the emotional storm brewing in the front.

A young woman sitting in a car | Source: Midjourney

A young woman sitting in a car | Source: Midjourney

Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore. “Tell me that’s not my sister,” I said, breaking the silence.

My dad flinched as if I’d struck him with an axe. He stared straight ahead, his hands clasped tightly in his lap.

“Her name’s Sarah. She’s… she’s not your sister, Ellie. Not by blood.”

I let out a breath I didn’t realize I’d been holding. But that didn’t make it any easier for me.

“Then who is she?”

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Portrait of a sad senior man | Source: Midjourney

Dad sighed, his shoulders slumping as though he was carrying the whole world’s burden.

“She’s the daughter of someone I’ve been with for a few years,” he admitted. “Her mom… she left us a few months back. I’ve been doing my best to take care of Sarah. Moved here last month.”

The irony of his situation wasn’t lost on me. I let out a bitter laugh.

“Wow. So you know what it feels like now? To be left behind? To be abandoned by someone you love? Ever heard of the infamous saying, ‘What goes around comes around?!’”

A sad man's eyes | Source: Midjourney

A sad man’s eyes | Source: Midjourney

Dad’s jaw tightened, but he didn’t argue. “I’ve made mistakes, Ellie. A lot of them. But I’m trying to make up for it, even if it’s too late for you and your mom.”

I shook my head, tears stinging my eyes. “Do you have any idea what you did to us? How hard it was for us? For me? Can you imagine how kids at school teased and bullied me? How Mom struggled alone to raise me and play both Dad and Mom for me?”

In the rearview mirror, I saw Sarah’s confused face. She didn’t deserve to be caught in the middle of this. I took a deep breath, trying to calm myself.

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A woman sitting in a car turning to her side | Source: Midjourney

“I’m sorry,” Dad whispered. “I know it doesn’t change anything, but I am so, so sorry.”

“Sorry? You don’t stab a person in the heart and say sorry!”

“Ellie, please forgive me… I’m sorry. Really.”

I didn’t respond. What could I say? Sorry won’t erase ten years of absence, of wondering why I wasn’t enough to make him stay. Sorry won’t magically bring back the happiness that was once stolen from Mom and me.

A teary-eyed woman in a car | Source: Midjourney

A teary-eyed woman in a car | Source: Midjourney

As we neared the address he’d given me, Sarah spoke up from the backseat. “Are you Bill’s friend?”

I met her eyes in the mirror, seeing the curiosity there. For a moment, I considered telling her the truth. But looking at her hopeful face, I couldn’t bring myself to shatter her little world.

“Something like that,” I said softly, forcing a smile. “A forgotten friend.”

I pulled up to the curb, my hands shaking. The silence that had haunted me during the ride now felt suffocating.

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A car outside a house | Source: Midjourney

My dad unbuckled his seatbelt, his movements slow and hesitant. He turned to face me, his eyes red-rimmed and filled with regret.

“Thank you for the ride, Ellie. I… I don’t expect you to forgive me, but I want you to know how sorry I am. For everything.”

I stared straight ahead, unable to look at him. My throat felt tight, choked with all the words I wanted to say but couldn’t.

A distressed senior man | Source: Midjourney

A distressed senior man | Source: Midjourney

“Take care of her,” I finally whispered, nodding towards Sarah in the backseat. “Don’t screw this up like you did with us. It’s very easy to break someone’s heart and walk away. Don’t do that to her.”

He nodded, a tear slipping down his cheek. “I will. I promise.”

As he got out of the car, Sarah leaned forward. “Thank you for the ride, Miss Ellie,” she said brightly. “It was nice to meet you!”

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A young girl smiling | Source: Pexels

I turned to her, managing a small smile. “It was nice to meet you too, Sarah. Take care of yourself, okay?”

She nodded enthusiastically. “I will! Bye!”

I watched as they walked away, Sarah’s small hand in my dad’s larger one. They looked like a normal father and daughter, heading home after a long day.

But I knew the complicated truth that lay beneath that simple illusion.

Silhouette of a man and a little girl approaching their house | Source: Midjourney

Silhouette of a man and a little girl approaching their house | Source: Midjourney

As they disappeared from view, I felt a weight lift from my shoulders. For years, I had carried the pain of my father’s abandonment, letting it shape my life and my relationships.

But seeing him now, I realized something important: I didn’t need his approval or his love to be whole.

I started the car, wiping away a stray tear. The sun had set completely now, the sky a deep, velvety blue. As I drove away, a warm, comforting feeling seeped into my heart. I had my own life to live, and I wasn’t going to let the past define me anymore.

A concerned young woman in a car | Source: Midjourney

A concerned young woman in a car | Source: Midjourney

My phone buzzed with a text from my mom, “Everything okay, honey? You’re usually home by now.”

I smiled, feeling a rush of love for the woman who had been both mother and father to me. “On my way, Mom,” I typed back. “I love you.”

As I hit send, I realized that sometimes, the family you choose is more important than the one you’re born into. And I had chosen well. I don’t need a father to shield or shower me with affection. I have the most powerful force in my universe: MY MOTHER.

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A woman driving a car at night | Source: Unsplash

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Preparing for the Impact of Hurricane Milton: Evacuation Areas & Essential Safety Measures

They have recommended that everyone in a household is familiar with the hurricane plans they’ve made. This may include catering for those at work, children’s daycare, and other frequently visited locations such as grocery stores.

Additionally, the government suggests that households should stock adequate supplies. Some recommended items are medications, disinfectants, and pet supplies that are carried in the go-bag or car trunk. Access to these supplies may be limited for days or even weeks after a hurricane.

Households also need to clear drains and gutters, secure outdoor furniture, and consider installing hurricane shutters. It is highly valuable to charge a cell phone and invest in backup charging devices for electronics when a hurricane is forecasted.

2. Stay Informed

In this step, it’s crucial for households to know if they live in an evacuation zone, listed at the end of this article, as they may need to evacuate quickly due to a hurricane. They should familiarize themselves with evacuation routes. They can also practice evacuating with their household and pets, and determine where they will stay.

Households should follow the guidance of local emergency managers, who collaborate with state, local, tribal, and territorial agencies. They will provide up-to-date recommendations based on the specific threats to your community and the necessary safety measures.

3. Check On Your Neighbors

Reach out to your neighbors, especially seniors or those who may require extra assistance, to ensure they have adequate hurricane plans in place. Offer your help in securing their preparations and provide support wherever needed.

4. Stay Out of Flood Water

Households should avoid entering floodwaters, as even six inches of fast-moving water can knock people off their feet. They should prioritize their safety and steer clear of any flooded areas.

5. Turn Around and Do Not Drown

People should be aware that just one foot of moving water can easily sweep away a vehicle. They should stay vigilant and avoid driving through flooded areas. Avoid walking, swimming, or driving through flood waters at all times. When encountering such a scenario, they should turn around.

6. Take Care of Your Mental Health

Lastly, individuals should prioritize their mental health during and after a hurricane. It’s important to acknowledge any feelings of anxiety or stress and seek support if needed. Connect with friends, family, or mental health professionals to discuss your concerns and find coping strategies.

Tampa Mayor Jane Castor has emphasized the need for households to pay attention to the evacuation zones as Hurricane Milton approaches Florida’s west coast. She warned the residents, “I can say without any dramatization whatsoever: If you choose to stay in one of those evacuation areas, you’re gonna die.”

Tampa is located in Hillsborough County. The region has listed compulsory evacuation orders for those in Zones A and B, as well as those who live in mobile homes. Tampa has urged residents of these areas to evacuate as Hurricane Milton is “literally catastrophic.”

Evacuation Zones

Charlotte County: It has issued a mandatory evacuation order for residents in Red Zone-A and Orange Zone-B, including those living in mobile and manufactured homes.

Citrus County: It has given a mandatory evacuation order that began on October 8, 2024, for all residents living in campers, tents, mobile homes, manufactured homes, or any structures unable to withstand sustained winds of up to 110 MPH.

Collier County: A voluntary precautionary evacuation is effective immediately for all residents in Collier County in Zones A and B. This includes west of Airport Pulling Road and south of US-41 Tamiami Trail E.

The order covers mobile home residents and areas with a history of storm flooding. A mandatory evacuation for all of Zones A and B began on October 8, 2024.

DeSoto County: It has issued evacuation orders for Zones A (Red) and B (Orange). These areas affect all residents living in mobile and manufactured homes, as well as those in low-lying or flood-prone areas.

Clay County: Currently, there are no mandatory evacuation orders, but residents in low-lying or flood-prone areas, especially along Black Creek or the St. Johns River, are strongly encouraged to consider relocating for safety.

Hardee County: On October 7, 2024, Hardee County Emergency Management advised residents in low-lying areas, mobile homes, recreational vehicles, and unsafe structures to evacuate as soon as possible.

Glades County: This county has implemented a voluntary evacuation for mobile homes, RV parks, and low-lying areas, which started on October 8, 2024.

Hillsborough County: This county has announced a mandatory evacuation for Evacuation Zones A and B, including all mobile homes and manufactured housing throughout the county, which started on October 7, 2024.

Hernando County: Mandatory evacuation orders for all areas west of US 19, including evacuation zones A, B, and C began on October 8, 2024. This includes all residents in coastal and low-lying areas, as well as those in manufactured homes countywide.

Levy County: A mandatory evacuation is in effect affecting all mobile homes, manufactured homes, recreational vehicle parks, coastal communities, and low-lying areas west of US 19. Hurricane risk shelters have opened at Bronson Elementary for special needs and Bronson Middle High School for general population/pet-friendly evacuations.

Lee County: It has issued mandatory evacuation orders for Zones A and B, urging residents to finalize emergency plans and evacuate as soon as possible. They should aim to be in a safe location by the evening of October 8, 2024.

Manatee County: This county has issued a mandatory evacuation for all residents in Levels A, B, and C, including visitors in RVs or mobile homes, effective October 7, 2024.

Marion County: The Marion County Sheriff’s Office Emergency Management officials have recommended evacuation for residents living in mobile homes, RVs, modular-type homes, and site-built homes constructed before 1994 due to the hurricane’s projected path.

Miami-Dade County: This county has announced a voluntary evacuation center for residents of mobile home parks, opening the E. Darwin Fuchs Pavilion on October 8, 2024, as a pet-friendly evacuation option.

Okeechobee County: A voluntary evacuation has been issued for all low-lying areas and mobile homes starting October 8, 2024.

Pasco County: This county has mandated evacuations for Zone C as the hurricane approaches. Evacuations are required for those in Zones A, B, or C, as well as residents in manufactured homes, RVs, low-lying areas, or structures prone to flooding.

Volusia County: A mandatory evacuation order took effect on October 9, 2024, for all areas east of the Intracoastal Waterway, including residents in manufactured and mobile homes, low-lying and flood-prone areas, as well as campsites and RV parks.

Sumter County: Residents in mobile homes, low-lying areas, or with special needs are strongly urged to consider evacuation or relocating to a shelter when they open.

Sarasota County: Residents in Sarasota County living in Level A or near Level A, as well as those in manufactured home communities or mobile/boat homes, are advised to implement their evacuation plans immediately, whether that involves staying with friends or leaving the area.

Pinellas County: Pinellas County has enacted a mandatory evacuation order for all residents in Zones A, B, and C, as well as all mobile homes. Special needs residents and residential healthcare facilities in these zones are also included in the evacuation order.

Putnam County: A recommended evacuation has been issued for Zones F and A due to concerns regarding high river levels.

Obeying the directives issued by local authorities and noting the evacuation zones ensures that families can evacuate safely and efficiently. This also allows emergency services to respond effectively to those in need.

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