Calling someone “fat” can be a hurtful insult. But why is that?
This question came up when a mother named Allison shared her story about a recent swimming trip with her children. When her daughter called her fat, 30-year-old Allison had a clever response, and her message is now spreading quickly online.
Allison Kimmey began dieting when she was just 14 years old. She managed to stay at a size two to four through graduate school, but it was tough, and she wasn’t happy. Three years ago, at age 27, Allison reached a size eight and realized she would be much happier if she stopped fighting against her weight gain.
To motivate herself, Allison started an Instagram account, @allisonkimmey, where she shares pictures and inspirational messages. Her body positivity spreads joy and encourages her followers, but her important message doesn’t always reach everyone.
**Me:** “Actually, everyone, every single person in the world has fat. But each of us has different amounts.”
**Her brother:** “Oh right! I have some to protect my big muscles! But you have more than me.”
**Me:** “Yes, that’s true. Some people have a lot, and others don’t have much. But that doesn’t mean one person is better than the other. Do you both understand?”
**Both:** “Yes, mama.”
**Me:** “So can you repeat what I said?”
**Them:** “Yes! I shouldn’t say someone is fat because you can’t just be fat, but everyone HAS fat, and it’s okay to have different fat.”
**Me:** “Exactly right!”
Not only did Allison want to teach her children how to talk to others, but she also felt it was important to spread the message that everyone is equal, no matter their body shape. Now, her post on Instagram has gone viral.
“If I shame my children for saying it, then I’m proving that it’s an insulting word and continuing the stigma that being fat is unworthy, gross, comical, and undesirable,” writes Allison.
Watch Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman sing along to “The Fighter” in a car
Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman made for an unforgettable moment with their impromptu car performance of “The Fighter”, showcasing their couple’s undeniable chemistry and charm. The video, which quickly racked up millions of views on Urban’s YouTube channel, illustrates #CoupleGoals in every frame.
Her rendition of the song, originally a duet with Carrie Underwood from Urban’s album “Ripcord”, comes to life in this intimate setting. Despite a minor glitch with the car stereo, Urban smoothly transitions into the heartfelt chorus, while Kidman adds her own playful yet soulful touch to the performance.
In the video, Kidman channels a Disney princess expressing her love for her, complementing Urban’s charismatic presence. Their duet not only highlights their musical talent, but also cements their status as one of Australia’s most popular celebrity couples.
“The Fighter” was a fitting choice for their duet, as the lyrics about unwavering support in a relationship reflect a deep sense of Urban and Kidman’s own bond. Urban previously shared that the song was inspired by their relationship, adding a personal dimension to her heartfelt rendition.
Kidman’s vocals, while soft, are absolutely perfect, reflecting her musical prowess that she has shown in films like “Moulin Rouge!” and at live performances alongside Urban. Together they create a magical moment that captivates viewers and underlines why they are celebrated not only for their individual talents, but also for their beautiful partnership.
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