You could say Lorenzo Lamas was always destined to become an actor. His parents worked in the industry, and it didn’t take long before he entered it himself.
Lamas has starred in classics such as the television series Falcon Crest and the legendary film Grease. Still to this day, the California native is working as an actor – and at 65, he looks terrific!
However, Lamas’s life has had its ups and downs, and he’s gone through some rather tough times. Here’s all you need to know about Lorenzo and the many struggles he’s overcome.
One was getting over the fact that his son had an affair with his ex-wife.
Even as a young kid, Lorenzo Lamas’s stars had aligned where acting was concerned.
Born Lorenzo Fernando Lamas on January 20, 1958, in Santa Monica, California, he was raised by his mother Arlene Dahl, an American actress of Norwegian descent, and his father Fernando Lamas, an Argentinian who worked as an actor and director.
Lorenzo Lamas – early life
Lorenzo grew up in the fashionable area of Pacific Palisades, California. At age two, his parents divorced, and eight years later, he moved to New York with his father.
Lorenzo has often drawn upon the fact that his family comes from different parts of the world. He once starred as Dracula in a Halloween production of the famous Bram Stoker novel and had no problem at all adopting a different accent.
“I grew up with a man who had a voice like Dracula and every other bigger-than-life character you could ever think of in my father,” he told the New York Times in 2007. “I take a little bit from him to do the accent. I’ve also done four movies in Bulgaria.”
While Lorenzo was transitioning from a kid into a young man, his father had a pretty wild lifestyle. According to Lorenzo, his father had “been with every woman.” Yet as a child, he adored him.
“I idolized my father, especially as a young boy. He was bigger than life. He commanded the room. He’d done everything, seen everything,” he told Fox. “It’s pretty heady stuff to grow up with.”
“He was Latin, he was very judgmental, he thought a woman’s place was in the kitchen. He just happened to marry a woman who was a top ten box office star of the ’50s, and she retired to serve him!”
First work in acting
Lorenzo’s father married actress Esther Williams in 1969, a year after their move to “The Big Apple,” and life for Lorenzo got tough at times. For example, when Esther’s children visited, Lorenzo wasn’t even allowed to sleep in the house!
“He was many things, but he was also fair, so if he wasn’t going to allow another man’s children in his house, then he couldn’t allow me in the house,” he recalled.
“So my roommate was a Rolls Royce. I had a key that let me in the backdoor where there was a guest bathroom. But I came from military school, so living in a garage in Beverly Hills was plush to me. I had shared a urinal with 30 guys for the last four years. Looking back, I know that’s not normal. I know that I would never do that to my kids. I run my three teenage daughters around like a chauffeur.”
Lorenzo Lamas attended private school and graduated from the Admiral Farragut Academy in 1975. Instead of staying on the East Coast, he decided to leave for his home state of California.
Though his father could be a strict man, he always encouraged his son to follow his dreams and backed him wholeheartedly in pursuing his dreams of becoming an actor. Lorenzo enrolled at Tony Barr’s Film Actors Workshop. In 1977, he got his first minor role in television, starring in two episodes of the show Switch.
While cultivating his acting talent, Lorenzo also found that he had a tremendous interest in martial arts. He got in shape – and later on, earned black belts in both taekwondo and karate.
Lorenzo Lamas in ‘Grease’
Now, getting roles in bigger productions often takes time for most actors. Some have to try out at hundreds of auditions to get one part; others have to wait years, maybe even decades, to land their first role in a more significant Hollywood production.
For Lorenzo Lamas, however, this wasn’t the case. In 1978, he was cast as the good-looking stud “Tom Chisum” in the legendary film Grease, featuring John Travolta and Olivia Newton-John. He played the boyfriend of Olivia Newton-John’s character, “Sandy”. That said, he initially wasn’t chosen for the part.
Steven Ford – son of former President Gerald Ford – was considered for the role, but was reportedly too nervous to play “Tom”. The part had no dialogue, but that didn’t bother Lorenzo when he got the gig.
People probably knew that the film had potential at the time, but even so, it’s safe to say that Lamas secured himself an extraordinary place in film history with his relatively small credit in Grease.
“I’m amazed by the longevity. It keeps finding new generations of people,” he told Studio 10.
Lorenzo had dark hair at the time, but the producers thought he looked too much like a “T-Bird” to star as Sandy’s boyfriend. As a result, they dyed his hair lighter – something that he didn’t mind at all.
“I would have dyed it green, fuchsia, anything,” he told People.
At the time, John Travolta and Olivia Newton-John were already stars. For Lorenzo Lamas, it was a dream come true just to meet them. What made the whole thing even better, was that Olivia Newton-Jon had been Lorenzo’s childhood crush.
Became a star on ‘Falcon Crest’
“I was 19. It was only the third thing I’ve ever done. And I was at the Paramount lot, meeting my childhood crush, Olivia Newton-John, and Mr. Saturday Night Fever, John Travolta. So I was kind of in a complete zombie state, to begin with,” Lorenzo recalled.
He explained that he had all her albums, and in high school, he and his friends even had routines dancing to her albums. When they finally met, Lorenzo was almost knocked off his heels.
“I couldn’t take my eyes off her,” he told Studio 10.
Grease was, of course, a big deal for Lorenzo and a fantastic opportunity when looking back. Naturally, though, it wasn’t quite a breakthrough since he only appeared in a few scenes.
In 1981, he got the role of Lance Cumson on Falcon Crest. The nighttime soap became a huge success, with Lamas starring alongside Oscar-winning actress Jane Wyman for 228 episodes.
Wyman portrayed Lamas’ grandmother on the show – at that time, she was a massive Hollywood star. Lamas had problems with illegal substances at this point in his career, until one day on set, Wyman had enough of his behavior
Became a star on ‘Falcon Crest’
“I was 19. It was only the third thing I’ve ever done. And I was at the Paramount lot, meeting my childhood crush, Olivia Newton-John, and Mr. Saturday Night Fever, John Travolta. So I was kind of in a complete zombie state, to begin with,” Lorenzo recalled.
He explained that he had all her albums, and in high school, he and his friends even had routines dancing to her albums. When they finally met, Lorenzo was almost knocked off his heels.
“I couldn’t take my eyes off her,” he told Studio 10.
Grease was, of course, a big deal for Lorenzo and a fantastic opportunity when looking back. Naturally, though, it wasn’t quite a breakthrough since he only appeared in a few scenes.
In 1981, he got the role of Lance Cumson on Falcon Crest. The nighttime soap became a huge success, with Lamas starring alongside Oscar-winning actress Jane Wyman for 228 episodes.
Wyman portrayed Lamas’ grandmother on the show – at that time, she was a massive Hollywood star. Lamas had problems with illegal substances at this point in his career, until one day on set, Wyman had enough of his behavior
My 13-Year-Old Son Started Staying Late after School – I Went to Check Why and Saw Him Getting into a Convoy of Black SUVs
I worried when my spirited son Kyle started coming home later each day with vague excuses. When I checked up on him, I was shocked to see Kyle getting picked up by a convoy of black SUVs. I followed them to an imposing mansion, where I uncovered a shattering truth.
I knew something was wrong. All the signs were there: the late nights, the whisper of secrets Kyle kept locked behind a wary smile.
My thirteen-year-old son was my light and my purpose. No matter what life threw our way, we always had each other. We’d always been thick as thieves, taking on the world together. I guess that’s why his sudden distance cut so deep.
A worried woman | Source: Midjourney
Kyle’s always been an energetic boy. If he wasn’t out playing sports or building things with his friends, he was practicing on his guitar.
But lately, he’s been staying away from home more frequently and whenever I ask where he’s been, I get a vague excuse and a “Stop being so clingy, Mom!”
We’d been through so much: his father leaving, the endless bills, my job that barely covered our modest life. But watching as the boy who’d once told me everything started shutting me out was killing me.
A tense woman | Source: Midjourney
But even worse than the distance were the items I uncovered while doing one of my marathon cleans, scrubbing every corner of our tiny apartment to drive away the anxiety.
Wedged in a hidden corner under Kyle’s bed, I found a collection of brand-new gadgets and a thick stack of cash wrapped in rubber bands.
My heart beat so loud it echoed in my ears.
A shocked woman under a bed | Source: Midjourney
Kyle was a smart and resourceful kid, but there was no way he’d saved up this kind of money from lawn mowing or doing odd jobs for the neighbors.
But what could I do about it? I couldn’t confront him directly, not with the way things had been between us lately. He’d just get defensive and lie about it.
No, I’d have to be cunning instead.
A calculating woman | Source: Midjourney
I put everything back exactly as I found it and when Kyle turned up for dinner that evening; I acted like everything was normal.
“What were you up to all afternoon?” I asked as casually as possible.
Kyle shrugged. “Played soccer.”
I nodded and watched him dig his fork into the pot roast I’d prepared. I couldn’t help but think that whatever he was hiding from me was dangerous.
A woman sitting at a kitchen table | Source: Midjourney
The next day, I couldn’t help myself. I parked down the street from his school, watching the kids pour out of the doors, laughing, shouting, and carefree. Then my breath hitched.
A convoy of sleek black SUVs pulled up, their tinted windows gleaming in the sunlight. Kyle strode through the school entrance as though he’d been waiting and marched over to the SUVs.
He slid into the middle car like he’d done it a hundred times before.
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I gripped the steering wheel, my heart pounding. Before I could think it through, I started following them, carefully keeping my distance.
We drove out past the town’s edge, where the small homes turned into estates and wealth dripped off every marble pillar. The SUVs turned into the entrance gates of a sprawling mansion, the kind you see in magazines, the kind that felt like an entirely different world from ours.
I stepped on the gas and managed to race through behind them, mere seconds before the gates shut.
Ostentatious entrance gates | Source: Pexels
I wasn’t sure what I’d do now, but I knew I hadn’t come this far to leave without answers.
So, I marched up to the front door and pressed the intercom button. Moments later, a woman appeared. She was elegant and impeccably dressed, with a sharp gaze that sliced right through me.
“Yes?” she said, her voice cold. “What are you doing here, and how did you get in?”
“All you need to know is that I’m here for my son, Kyle,” I said.
A woman standing outside a mansion | Source: Midjourney
She looked me up and down, and I felt like a smudge in her perfect world. “You’re Kyle’s… mother?”
“That’s right. Now, where is he?”
She gave a thin, mocking smile. “Kyle is otherwise engaged. This isn’t a place for people like you. You need to leave.”
My cheeks flushed with anger. “Look, lady, I don’t care what you think. I’m not leaving until I see my son.”
A woman speaking sternly to someone | Source: Midjourney
Just then, Kyle appeared in the doorway, his face a mixture of guilt and surprise.
“Mom?” he asked, glancing between us. “Ms. Anderson, please let her in.”
The woman sighed, clearly annoyed. “Fine. Come in if you must.”
Inside, everything was cold and vast. There were marble floors that echoed with every step and all the rooms I passed seemed designed for display, not comfort.
The interior of a luxury home | Source: Pexels
My heart was pounding. And then I saw the man standing by the fireplace, watching me with a casual, calculating gaze that sent a chill down my spine.
I stopped dead, staring at him. He was older, but there was no mistaking the line of his jaw, and the way he held himself.
It was Kyle’s father. The man who’d walked out of my life before Kyle was even born, leaving me to scrape together a life for us on my own.
A man standing in front of an ornate fireplace | Source: Midjourney
He gave me a small nod. “Miranda,” he said as if he were greeting an old friend.
“What… What is this?” My voice cracked, but I wouldn’t let him see the weakness.
He looked at Kyle, his expression softening slightly. “I’ve been looking for him since I started making serious money, and only recently found you both. Now, I want to make things right.”
“Right?” I spat, barely containing the rage simmering inside me.
A woman gesturing angrily | Source: Midjourney
“After thirteen years of nothing, you think you can waltz back in and fix everything with a few gifts?”
He raised a brow, unbothered. “You’ve done your best, I’m sure. But look around, Miranda.” His gesture took in the grandeur, the wealth. “I can offer him a life of stability, filled with opportunities. Not… whatever you have.”
I felt the ground tilt beneath me. He couldn’t be serious. “You… you want to take my son from me?”
A woman arguing with a man | Source: Midjourney
He shrugged, a smirk tugging at his lips. “I’m pretty sure I’ll win the custody battle, too. After all, I have the means and the resources to do right by the boy now. I’m sure they’ll recognize the fact that Kyle would be better off with me.”
The room spun, and I clutched the edge of a nearby table, my nails digging into the polished wood. I couldn’t lose Kyle — not to this man who saw him as nothing more than an extension of his wealth, a trophy to parade around.
But before I could find the words, Kyle stepped forward.
A boy standing in a luxury home | Source: Midjourney
His voice was low but filled with defiance. “You think I want to live here? With you?” His face was pale, eyes blazing. “I went along with this arrangement because you kept throwing cash and stuff at me. Phones, money — anything I could get my hands on.”
He pointed at his father, his words sharp. “But I was always planning to sell it all. Every last gift and bribe. I just hadn’t figured out how to get the money to Mom without making her suspicious. I took those things so I could help Mom with her bills and make things a little easier for her.”
His father’s face froze, his confident expression faltering.
An uncertain man | Source: Midjourney
Kyle looked him dead in the eyes, his voice unwavering. “You’re nothing to me. All the money in the world won’t make me forget that you left us. You’re a stranger, and if you’re going to try to take me away from Mom, then I don’t want anything to do with you.”
Pride swelled in my chest, mixing with a fierce relief. I reached out, pulling Kyle to me, feeling his steady heartbeat against mine. I looked at his father, not bothering to hide the anger in my eyes. “Stay away from us.”
I didn’t wait for a response. I led Kyle out, each step feeling like a victory.
A woman and her son walking down a hallway | Source: Midjourney
The next morning, we tried to settle back into the quiet of our life, but the events of the previous day still weighed heavily on us.
When a knock sounded at our door, it startled us both. I opened it to find a man in a crisp suit, holding a bag. He handed it over without a word, disappearing before I could ask any questions.
Inside the bag was a staggering amount of crisp hundred-dollar bills, the kind of money I’d only ever seen in movies.
Dollars | Source: Pexels
There was a note tucked in among the cash, scrawled in a familiar, rushed hand: “Forgive me. I just wanted to make things right.”
Kyle looked at the money, then at me, his face hardening. “We don’t need his money, Mom. We have each other.”
I reached for his hand, squeezing it. “I know, sweetheart. But maybe we could use this to finally catch our breath. To have a real chance at a fresh start.”
A woman smiling at her son | Source: Midjourney
We sat there, side by side, letting the weight of that decision settle. Whatever we chose, we’d do it together. Because in the end, it wasn’t the money or the mansion or even his father’s shadow that defined our life. It was us, standing together, no matter what came next.
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