We all have different traditions when it comes to commemorating and paying tribute to our loved ones who have passed away.
In today’s world, honoring the customs of others while commemorating the lives of the departed ought to come as standard practice. Some may choose to follow traditions or practices that the rest of us are not familiar with, but it doesn’t make them any less legitimate.
The same is true with gravestones and the ornamentation certain families choose to place over their loved ones’ last resting places. Coins being placed on headstones is one custom that is widely practiced and that you have probably witnessed at some point. However, why is this even a thing? And from whence did it originate? Continue reading to learn more.
Coins are traditionally placed on gravestones in cemeteries around the United States and other countries. When I was a little child, I first observed it when I was at my grandfather’s tomb, and even then, I started to wonder what it was all about.
Luckily, finding the beginnings online doesn’t need much research. Although it was previously thought that the practice originated with Roman military troops, a number of sources have disproved that theory in recent years.
Still, there’s a military connection to leaving pennies on gravestones. The American Legion Website states on one of its pages that it can be linked to the Vietnam War.
“Leaving a coin was considered a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the soldier’s grave than contacting the soldier’s family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war, due to the political divide in the country over the war.”
There are other reasons why veterans leave pennies on gravestones in memory of their fallen friends; occasionally, they do so in order to purchase a beer for them. Each coin represents a different meaning, according to reports.
For instance, a nickel is left by someone who served in boot camp with the deceased, whereas a penny just indicates that someone was present.
On the other hand, a dime represents a combined period of military service. Next are quarters, which inform the family of the presence of whoever left the coin at the moment of the loved one’s passing.
Ever notice a penny left on a gravestone? Were you aware of its meaning? Tell us in the comments below.
Sister Seized Familys Entire Inheritance and Only Left a Tattered Blanket for Brother with Disability
This story highlights how valuing people over possessions can bring unexpected rewards, even in the face of selfishness. Edward’s journey shows that kindness, resilience, and appreciation for life’s simple things have a way of paying off, often in ways we don’t anticipate.
While Sarah’s greed led her to claim everything of monetary value, Edward’s attachment to a seemingly ordinary blanket from his childhood reflects how sentimental items often carry hidden worth. In Edward’s case, the blanket held not only cherished memories but also a historical significance that he could never have foreseen.
This story also serves as a reminder about the destructive nature of greed. Sarah’s relentless attempts to take more from Edward ultimately backfired, leading to estrangement from her family. In the end, her actions led her down a path of isolation, while Edward’s love for his family brought him security, fulfillment, and a new beginning.
This tale encourages us to cherish relationships over material wealth, appreciate simple joys, and understand that even the most unexpected things can have profound value.
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