I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
Bear Refuses To Let Baby Go – Ranger Bursts Into Tears When He Discovers Why
In a stunning turn of events, local ranger Peter, recently suspended from duty, has emerged as a hero after a daring encounter with a black bear carrying a baby. The incident, initially dismissed by fellow rangers and law enforcement, has taken a surprising twist, revealing a heartwarming and tragic story.
Reports initially surfaced when Peter observed the bear in the distance, sparking concern due to recent predator sightings in the area. Approaching cautiously, Peter was shocked to witness the bear carrying a baby. Despite his best efforts to alert his fellow rangers and police, his claims were met with skepticism and ultimately resulted in his suspension.
Undeterred, Peter enlisted the help of his best friend and fellow ranger, Jacob, to investigate the matter further. Against all odds, the two found black bear tracks, convincing even the skeptical Jacob that there might be some truth to Peter’s claims.
As they followed the tracks, the situation escalated dramatically. A tense encounter with the bear unfolded, leaving Jacob in a perilous situation. With the bear charging, Jacob narrowly escaped by climbing a tree, leaving Peter alone in pursuit of the cave where the bear had taken the baby.
Peter’s determination led him to the dark depths of the cave, where, miraculously, he discovered the missing baby unharmed. However, a face-off with the bear ensued, and it was only through the intervention of other rangers armed with sedation darts that Peter and the baby were saved.
The mystery deepened as it was revealed that the bear had been caring for the baby after a fatal car crash had claimed the lives of the child’s parents. Strikingly, no missing baby had been reported to the police.
In a heartrending turn of events, Peter and his wife, deeply moved by the circumstances, decided to adopt the child. The baby, now identified as healthy through medical checks, found a new home with the couple.
The local police captain confirmed the details, expressing gratitude for Peter’s courageous actions and acknowledging the bittersweet outcome. Peter, reinstated as a ranger, expressed profound joy at the unexpected turn his life had taken.
This extraordinary tale serves as a reminder of the complexities of wildlife encounters and the resilience of the human spirit in the face of adversity.
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