I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
“Amazing Grace” performed by 200 bagpipes brings audience to tears
This rendition of “Amazing Grace” demonstrates the wide spectrum of emotions that music may arouse. People can see the light that does exist in this world and find hope again with the assistance of the video we’re sharing below.
A lone singer is the focal point of the opening scene, which features over 200 bagpipers. The quiet passages gradually give way to his solo performance of Amazing Grace, a soft, baritone song. As he sings each song into the reverberating arena, his voice is mesmerizing. Many more said that his last note chilled them to the bone and brought them to tears.
The song was resumed by a lone bagpiper after the singing finished. playing “Amazing Grace” on the bagpipes at the same leisurely tempo as the singer had adopted. Everyone’s attention moved from the vocal performance to this musical interpretation of the well-known hymn, and the spotlight beamed down.
After an enthralling bagpipe version of the song, more than two hundred bagpipers joined in for the song’s second stanza. Viewers were able to observe the pride and stoicism on each performer’s face as the camera panned between several angles of them. The song’s impact was increased by the bagpipes’ incredible volume.
And the show wasn’t finished even after all of this. The baritone voice began to accompany the bagpipes as another verse began, lending vocal accompaniment to the song’s final sections. Performers surrounded each other with brightly lighted torches as they slowly made their way inside. Amazing visual effect as the camera gave an overhanging view of the performers.
Following the performers’ performance, the audience applauded and clapped. With the same grace as when they had entered, the people holding the fiery torches turned around and left the stage. To allow the audience time to process the powerful performance they had just seen, the mood stayed solemn.
With over 1.5 million views and an abundance of positive comments in the comment box, this beloved hymn gives many people courage and faith each time it is sung. It serves as a reminder that despite our differences, solidarity is essential to navigating these unsettling times.
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