He was the first man in the world to give birth – 16 years later, he looks like this

In a groundbreaking moment 16 years ago, Thomas Beatie etched his name in history as the world’s first man to undergo pregnancy.
Born female, Thomas underwent a gender transition, now identifying as a transgender man. The global spotlight shone on him when news broke of his remarkable journey to parenthood with the birth of his first daughter, Susan
In a surprising turn of events in 2006, he halted his testosterone treatment with the aspiration of conceiving. Facing fertility challenges with his then-wife Nancy, Thomas made the courageous decision to carry the child himself.

The iconic image of Thomas Beatie sporting a heavily pregnant belly first circulated in 2008, creating ripples across the world. Media dubbed Beatie “the pregnant man” and news of his story quickly spread worldwide.
Yet, the journey was far from smooth, with hate emails and death threats pouring in from numerous quarters, including established media outlets.
”Doctors have discriminated against us, turning us away due to their religious beliefs. Health care professionals have refused to call me by a male pronoun or recognize Nancy as my wife. Receptionists have laughed at us. Friends and family have been unsupportive; most of Nancy’s family doesn’t even know I’m transgender,” Thomas later said.
During an extensive 48-hour labor, Susan, the first child of Thomas and Nancy, was born into the world healthy and happy. Thomas, determined to opt for a natural birth, defied expectations. His case marked the first documented instance where a legally recognized male gave birth within a marital union with a woman.
Thomas Thomas Trace Beatie
Posted by Thomas Trace Beatie on Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Over the course of five years without testosterone, Thomas experienced four more pregnancies (one of which resulted in an ectopic pregnancy). Together with his first wife, Nancy, he raised Susan and sons Austin and Jensen, presenting themselves as a traditional family with strong values.

In a significant television debut, Thomas Beatie took center stage with an exclusive hour-long interview on the Oprah Winfrey Show in April 2008. Addressing a global audience, he openly discussed his belief in the reproductive right to bear a child, irrespective of his male gender identity.
During the interview, Beatie emphasized: “It’s not a male or female desire to want to have a child; it’s a human desire. I’m a person, and I have the right to have my own biological child.”
His words echoed a powerful assertion of his personal autonomy and challenged conventional perceptions surrounding gender and parenthood.
In 2016, Thomas entered a new chapter, marrying a new partner, Amber. Despite having known each other since 2012, a tumultuous divorce with Nancy delayed Thomas and Amber’s nuptials.
The couple moved to Oregon with their blended family, consisting of Susan, Austin, Jensen, and Amber’s grandchild Lily.
Reflecting on their bustling household, Thomas shared: “It can get pretty loud with four kids aged 3, 5, 6, and 7, but we love it,” in an interview with Daily Mail.

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Quel rôle est plus convaincant: flic ou maçon? ??? Which look is more convincing?
Posted by Thomas Trace Beatie on Sunday, March 10, 2019
Sixteen years have elapsed since Thomas became a public figure, yet he continues to make occasional appearances on social media and in people’s feeds.

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In a recent interview with USA Today, he shared insights into his current endeavors, revealing that he now works as a stockbroker in Phoenix. He continues to live with his wife Amber, whom he met at the daycare where his children were enrolled.

His older children divide their time between his residence and their mother’s home, located approximately ten miles away.
According to Thomas, he lives a relatively quiet life but once in a while, he does public-speaking jobs and takes on modest acting opportunities.
Looking back on the whirlwind of attention that surrounded him 16 years ago when he graced the front pages, Thomas acknowledged the lasting impact of those significant moments in his life.
à quel métier/rôle j’ai l’air? ?️ What profession or role do I look like?
Posted by Thomas Trace Beatie on Tuesday, May 30, 2023
Reflecting on the past, Thomas, now in his 50s, remarked: “When my story came out, there wasn’t a single person in the public eye as a transgender man — most people had never heard of it.”
”This was pre-Chaz Bono. This was pre-Caitlyn Jenner. This was before anyone knew anything. It was a first exposure for a lot of people. And then on top of that, they can give birth! I think exposing the importance of fertility for trans people was a huge eye-opener.”
”Everything was a whirlwind,” he said. ”But I still don’t regret it,” Thomas shared.

My Stepmom Made Me Sleep in a Shed and Gave My Room to Her Kids — My Mom Immediately Brought Her Back Down to Earth

When my father’s new wife kicked me out of my room and into the shed, I thought I’d hit rock bottom. But Mom’s surprise visit and shocking revelation about the house turned everything upside down, leaving me to wonder if I’d ever feel at home with Dad again.

I arrived at Dad’s house with a knot in my stomach. Something felt off. Kim, my stepmom, opened the door with a fake smile.

“Michelle, honey, come in,” she said, her voice sickeningly sweet.

I stepped inside, dragging my suitcase. Sam and Leo, my college-age step brothers, lounged on the couch, barely acknowledging me. They were both glued to their shiny new laptops – the same ones Dad said he couldn’t afford to buy for me.

“Where’s Dad?” I asked, trying to keep the bitterness out of my voice.

“Working late,” Kim replied. She fidgeted with her necklace. “Listen, Michelle, we need to talk about sleeping arrangements.”

My heart sank. “What about them?”

Kim glanced at her sons. “Well, with Sam and Leo home for the holidays, we’re a bit short on space.”

“Short on space?” I echoed. “But I have my room.”

“Had,” Sam muttered under his breath, not looking up from his laptop.

I whirled to face him. “What’s that supposed to mean?”

Kim cleared her throat. “Michelle, dear, we had to give your room to the boys. They need a proper place to sleep and study.”

“And where am I supposed to sleep?” I demanded, my voice rising.

Kim avoided my eyes. “We’ve set up a nice space for you in the shed.”

“The shed?” I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. “You’re kidding, right?”

“It’s only temporary,” Kim said quickly. “Just until the boys go back to university.”

I looked around, hoping to see some sign that this was all a cruel joke. But Sam and Leo just smirked, and Kim stood there, lips pressed into a thin line.

“Where’s Dad?” I asked again, my voice cracking. “I want to talk to him.”

“He’ll be home late,” Kim repeated. “Why don’t you get settled in? I’m sure you’re tired from the trip.”

Defeated, I trudged out to the shed, lugging my suitcase behind me. The inside was musty and cramped, with a rickety cot squeezed between boxes of junk. A single bare bulb hung from the ceiling, casting harsh shadows.

I sat on the cot, trying not to cry. How had it come to this? Dad used to dote on me, but ever since he married Kim, everything changed.

A disconsolate teenage girl sitting on a cot in a garden shed | Source: Midjourney

He’d promised to buy me a laptop for school, then said he couldn’t afford it. But he bought new ones for Sam and Leo without hesitation. I remembered the excitement in his voice when he told them about the “surprise” he had for them.

“You boys need good computers for your studies,” he’d said, beaming with pride.

When I’d reminded him about his promise to me, he’d just shrugged. “Times are tough, Michelle. Maybe next year.”

Then there was the lake trip. Dad had planned a father-daughter weekend, just the two of us. I’d been looking forward to it for weeks.

“Sorry, kiddo,” he’d said, not meeting my eyes. “Something came up at work. We’ll do it another time.”

A week later, I saw photos on social media of him, Sam, and Leo at the lake, fishing and laughing. When I confronted him about it, he brushed it off.

“The boys were only home for a short time,” he’d explained. “I wanted to do something special with them.”

And now this. Kicked out of my own room, and banished to the shed like some unwanted pet.

I tossed and turned all night, the cot creaking with every movement. In the morning, my phone buzzed with an incoming video call. It was my mom.

“Hi, sweetie,” she said when I answered. “How’s everything at your dad’s?”

I tried to sound upbeat. “Oh, you know. Same old.”

A girl looking at her cell phone, sitting on a cot in a shed | Source: Midjourney

Mom frowned. “Michelle, where are you? Is that… is that the shed?”

I nodded, unable to speak past the lump in my throat.

Mom’s face darkened. “Why on earth are you in the shed?”

“Kim said there’s no room in the house,” I mumbled. “Sam and Leo are using my room.”

“They are WHAT?” Mom exploded. “Oh, hell no. I’m coming over right now.”

“Mom, no, it’s fine,” I protested weakly. But she’d already hung up.

An hour later, I heard tires screeching in the driveway. Mom burst into the shed, her face like thunder.

“Get your things,” she ordered. “We’re going to have a little chat with your father and his wife.”

I trailed after Mom as she stormed into the house. “John!” she yelled. “Get out here right now!”

Dad appeared from the kitchen, looking startled. “Helen? What are you doing here?”

“Why is our daughter sleeping in a shed?” Mom demanded.

Kim rushed in. “Helen, this isn’t your house. You have no right to barge in here making demands.”

Mom turned on her, eyes blazing. “Oh, I have every right. Didn’t John tell you? This house belongs to Michelle.”

The room went dead silent. I stared at Mom, then at Dad, who’d gone pale.

“What are you talking about?” Kim sputtered.

Mom smiled coldly. “When we divorced, we put the house in Michelle’s name. In a year, she’ll own it outright.”

Kim whirled on Dad. “Is this true? You knew about this?”

Dad nodded miserably. “I… I didn’t think it was important.”

“Not important?” Mom scoffed. “You let your daughter sleep in a shed in her own house!”

Sam and Leo appeared in the doorway, looking confused.

“What’s going on?” Leo asked, still clutching his new laptop.

Mom addressed them all. “Listen up. From now on, Michelle sleeps in her room. In her house. End of discussion.”

“But…” Kim started to protest.

A woman reacts in surprise, while a teenager stands in the background | Source: Midjourney

“But nothing,” Mom cut her off. “Unless you want Michelle to kick you all out when she turns eighteen, I suggest you show her some respect.”

She turned to me, her voice softening. “Come on, honey. Let’s get your things. You’re coming home with me.”

As we packed up my stuff, I could hear Dad and Kim arguing in the other room.

“Why didn’t you tell me about the house?” Kim demanded.

“I didn’t want to complicate things,” Dad replied weakly.

“Complicate things? You let me treat your daughter like garbage!”

Their voices faded as Mom and I walked out to her car. As we drove away, I felt a mix of emotions: relief, vindication, and a little sadness.

“You okay, sweetie?” Mom asked, glancing over at me.

I nodded. “Yeah. Thanks for coming to get me.”

“Always,” she said firmly. “I’ll always have your back.”

We rode in silence for a while. Then I asked, “What happens now?”

A woman drives, talking to the girl seated beside her | Source: Midjourney

Mom sighed. “That’s up to you, honey. If you want to keep visiting your dad, we’ll make sure things change. If you don’t, that’s okay too.”

I thought about it. “I think… I think I want to try. But only if things are different.”

“They will be,” Mom assured me. “Your father may be an idiot sometimes, but he loves you. He just needed a wake-up call.”

Over the next week, I stayed with Mom. Dad called every day, apologizing profusely. He promised things would be different, that he’d make it up to me.

Finally, I agreed to go back for a visit. As we pulled up to the house, I saw Dad waiting on the porch.

“Ready?” Mom asked, squeezing my hand.

He nodded, looking chastened. “I know. Come inside, please?”

We followed him in. The house was quiet – no sign of Kim or the boys.

“Where is everyone?” I asked.

A teenage girl addressing an older man | Source: Midjourney

“I asked them to give us some space,” Dad explained. “We need to talk.”

We sat in the living room, the tension palpable.

Dad cleared his throat. “Michelle, I messed up. Big time. I got so caught up in trying to make Kim and her boys happy that I forgot what was really important.”

“Me,” I said quietly.

He nodded, his eyes glistening. “You. My daughter. The most important person in my life.”

“Doesn’t feel like it lately,” I muttered.

Dad winced. “I know. I’ve been a terrible father. But I want to make it right. If you’ll let me.”

I glanced at Mom, who nodded encouragingly.

“What about Kim and the boys?” I asked.

“They know things have to change,” Dad said firmly. “Your room is yours, always. And I’ve made it clear that you’re my priority.”

“And the laptop?” I couldn’t help asking.

Dad smiled sheepishly. “It’s in your room. Along with an apology letter from Sam and Leo.”

I felt a glimmer of hope. “Really?”

“Really,” Dad confirmed. “And I was hoping… maybe we could still do that lake trip? Just the two of us?”

I hesitated, then nodded. “I’d like that.”

Dad’s face lit up. He opened his arms, and after a moment, I stepped into his embrace.

It wasn’t perfect. There was still a lot to work through. But it was a start.

As we hugged, I caught Mom’s eye over Dad’s shoulder. She smiled, giving me a thumbs up. I knew then that no matter what happened, I had people in my corner. And I’d never sleep in a shed again.

A man hugging a teenager girl in a living room | Source: Midjourney

What would you have done? If you enjoyed this story, here’s another one for you about a stepmother and her daughters who kicked a girl out of the house after hearing her father fell into a coma.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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