Identical twins are a miracle all by themselves. Births like this happen three or four times in 1000.
Savannah Combs, a first time mother, learned she was carrying twins. She and her husband were overjoyed by the thought of welcoming two babies.
Everything went well with the pregnancy and the couple learned they were expecting girls. However, they also learned that their identical twins both had Down Syndrome. The news came as a shock at first, but Savannah, 23, soon realized that the condition only meant that her girls would be super special. She didn’t mind they would be born with the syndrome. Of course, she was aware that there would be people who wouldn’t accept her bundles of joy, but that didn’t concern her a great deal.
“It’s very rare what they have, but they’ve been my little gems,” the proud mother told News4JAX.
Once the girls were born, Savannah and her husband Justin decided to share their journey on TikTok. The two tiny beauties, Kennadi Rue and Mckenli gained a number of followers on the social media where Savannah posted about each of the milestones they reached.
In one of the videos she shared on TikTok, Savannah revealed how doctors advised her to terminate her pregnancy because the chances of her girls to survive were slim, but she decided to give them a fighting chance. As it turned out, she did the right thing. ”Every [prenatal] appointment they were alive was a blessing to me,” Savannah explained.
They were born five weeks prematurely and had to spend some time at the NICU. Today, they are nine months old and thriving. In fact, they are just like any other baby out there.
“They’re called mono di twins, meaning that they had their own sacs, but they shared the same placenta, meaning that they were going to be identical,” Savannah explained.
“Mo di twins as it is, it’s like very rare. And then you throw Down syndrome on top of it, it’s like one in 2 million.”
“They have feelings. They have a beating heart. They know how to talk. They know how to do things you do. They will get there,” she added. “Like I said, it may be a step behind but they’re going to do it. I’ve learned these kids are feisty little things and happy little things.”
She loves showing the world that having Down Syndrome doesn’t necessarily mean the life of those people is in any way affected negatively.
“I’m going to let them know that they’re just like us and they’re going to get there as long as they put their minds to it.”
Of course, there are always those who post negative comments and judge Savannah for keeping her babies.
”I wouldn’t want those babies; if mine came out like that, they would be straight up for adoption,” one person wrote under one of the videos. However, this mother had just the right answer for the mean person. “I said, good thing they weren’t born to you and were born to me. God knew what he was doing by giving these babies to the right parents who would love them regardless,” Savannah replied.
These girls are truly happy for having a mom like Savannah who wants to raise awareness about Down Syndrome and teach the world that those who have it can lead a happy and fulfilling lives, just like her two beautiful angels.
For more on this family’s beautiful life story go to the video below.
4 Rеаl-Lifе Stоriеs аbоut Grаndmаs Whо Наvе tо Сhооsе bеtwееn Ваbysitting Тhеir Grаndkids & Тhеir Оwn Тimе
Grandmothers often grapple with the dilemma of balancing family responsibilities with their personal well-being. Here, we delve into four real-life scenarios showcasing the complexities they face.
1. The Overbearing Rules Dilemma: Asked to babysit, one grandmother was confronted with a long list of rules from her daughter-in-law, including dietary restrictions and limited screen time. Feeling stifled and isolated, she stood her ground, refusing to comply with demands that infringed on her personal boundaries. As she asserted, “I’m not a pushover. I have rights too.”
2. Financial vs. Familial Duties: Another grandmother was tasked with caring for her newborn grandchild while her daughter returned to work. Despite financial strain, she hesitated, feeling her parenting duties had been fulfilled. Suggesting a paid arrangement, she urged her daughter to consider alternative childcare options, balancing financial constraints with her own well-being. As she explained, “I love my grandchild, but I can’t sacrifice my own well-being.”
3. The Petty Revenge: Feeling unappreciated, one grandmother playfully disrupted her grandchild’s nap, highlighting the overlooked contributions of grandparents. As she quipped, “Sometimes you have to remind them of our value.”
4. Choosing Rest Over Responsibilities: Prioritizing self-care, a 56-year-old grandmother declined to babysit during her vacation, emphasizing the need for personal time despite her daughter’s financial struggles. As she reasoned, “I need to take care of myself too, or I won’t be any good to anyone.”
These stories unveil the intricate balance grandmothers navigate between familial duties and personal needs in intergenerational relationships.
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