Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried for years to have a baby, using every method they could think of. They eventually accepted that they might only ever be an aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they got a text that changed their lives completely.
The couple had been trying to get pregnant since they got married in January 2018, but when it didn’t happen on its own, they tried everything else.
“We used ovulation tests, took prenatal vitamins, tracked cycles with apps, and used fertility monitors,” the Houston mom told Love What Matters.
“We even tried advice from friends, family, and strangers. For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, it was always a negative pregnancy test. It seemed like we might need help to conceive, so we even talked to doctors about it.”
Doctors didn’t offer much help to the couple. They mostly told Sadie to lose weight to improve her chances of getting pregnant. With no other advice, she had gastric surgery and lost 28 pounds.
Sadie’s OBGYN was excited about the weight loss and praised her for it.
“She told me that if I wasn’t pregnant within six months, she would refer me to a fertility specialist because she couldn’t prescribe fertility medication herself,” Sadie said. “I was thrilled! We finally got a positive step forward, even if it wasn’t immediate. We were excited about the progress.”
Unfortunately, the couple didn’t get pregnant after Sadie lost the weight, and they felt like they were back where they started.
“I always felt like I was meant to be a mother,” Sadie said. “Even though my surgeon warned me that I’d be very fertile after the surgery, I still wasn’t getting pregnant. So, we gave up and accepted that we might just be aunt and uncle to our nieces and godparents to our goddaughters.”
Just when the couple had decided to stop trying to have a baby, Sadie got a text from a friend asking if they would think about fostering a baby from a couple she knew.
At first, the couple was hesitant because they were told by a caseworker to take care of the baby while the birth mom was getting treatment. They worried they might get too attached. But then, the situation changed.
“The birth mom has decided she wants you to adopt the baby instead,” the caseworker said.
Sadie remembered saying, “‘Holy crap!!’ out loud when she found out she was going to be a mom.
“We went from having no kids to possibly fostering one, to suddenly being told, ‘You’re going to be parents!’ I was still in shock as I listened to the caseworker. I hung up and called my husband, shouting, ‘Babe!! They want us to adopt the baby! We’re going to be parents!’ He said, ‘Wait! REALLY?! I thought they just wanted us to foster him!’ I told him, ‘Nope! They want us to be his mom and dad.’”
The couple spent the weekend trying to take in the shocking news and getting ready, just in case the birth mom changed her mind.
By Monday, they were not only told that the birth mom still wanted them to adopt the baby, but she also wanted to do an independent adoption and was ready to sign the papers that day.
Their baby boy was born at just 33 weeks, which is seven weeks early. He weighed 4 lbs. 5 oz. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie wrote.
“He was wrapped in a white blanket with pink and blue stripes,” Sadie said. “He had a small tube coming out of his nose because he couldn’t eat on his own since he was born early. But he was so cute!!!”
The couple shared their news on social media and were encouraged to create a registry. They listed 72 items, and within just three days, 55 of them were already bought for them.
Ezra Lee’s adoption was finalized in October 2020, and the couple had adorable family photos taken, all wearing t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. True to their family motto, “Families don’t have to match,” the Black couple now has three white children – a boy and two girls.
For anyone who might judge their beautiful family, they have just one response: their family is built on the strongest foundation ever – love.
One Look at My Niece’s Birthmark Exposed My Husband’s Shocking Betrayal
I was shocked when I saw a birthmark on my niece that looked just like my husband’s. But instead of jumping to conclusions, I secretly decided to get a DNA test to uncover the truth.
Sitting under a tree, I was enjoying the breeze with baby Sofia in my arms. She wasn’t my child but my sister-in-law Fiona’s, though I loved her like she was my own.
My husband, David, always said his family was distant, so it was a surprise when Fiona and Sofia moved nearby. However, their presence made me happier than I expected.
During our picnic, Fiona wanted to take Sofia back, but I playfully refused and said, “No, you clean up first. We’re fine here.” As I changed Sofia’s diaper, I noticed the birthmark on her back. It looked exactly like the one on David’s back. I couldn’t believe it. For a moment, I just stared at Sofia, wondering about the connection between David and Fiona.
I didn’t say anything and tried to act normal, even though my mind was racing with questions.
Later that night, as I helped David after his shower, I kept thinking about his birthmark. It matched Sofia’s perfectly. I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was wrong. The next day, I collected DNA samples from Sofia and David. I had to know the truth.
When the test results arrived, I was on edge. Fiona’s visits only made me more anxious, and I avoided her as much as possible. One day, David made a comment about Sofia’s first words, and it pushed me over the edge. I stood up and accused them both of hiding the truth. “Sofia is your child!” I yelled. The birthmark was proof, I thought.
Their shocked faces told me everything I needed to know. I ran out of the house, and as I drove away, I felt sick to my stomach, wondering if I might be pregnant. The thought terrified me.
The next day, I took a pregnancy test, and it confirmed my fear. I was pregnant with David’s baby, but I was filled with doubt about our relationship.
I returned home to get my things, ready to leave for good. David tried to explain that Fiona was his sister, but I wasn’t sure I could believe him. When I mentioned the DNA test, David suggested we look at the results together.
At the doctor’s office, the first test mistakenly said David was Sofia’s father. We were all shocked, but the doctor quickly corrected the mistake. The final results proved that David was not Sofia’s father.
Back at home, I apologized to David and Fiona for doubting them. David admitted he should have introduced me to his family earlier, and Fiona explained that Sofia’s father had passed away. We hugged, relieved that everything was finally clear.
Months later, I gave birth to a baby boy named Zack. Our family was stronger than ever, and we were surrounded by love. It was a happy ending to a very difficult time.
Holding him in my arms, I realized how much I had let my suspicions cloud my judgment. Life had thrown me a curveball, but here we were, stronger and more united as a family than ever before.
When I brought Zack home from the hospital, I was greeted with a sight that took my breath away. There were cars lined up outside our house, and family members—both from David’s side and mine—had gathered to celebrate the arrival of our son. I didn’t expect such a warm welcome. I turned to David with surprise in my eyes, whispering, “I didn’t know your family was this excited about a new baby.”
David smiled, wrapping his arm around my waist as he looked down at Zack, who was peacefully asleep in my arms. “I guess they were just waiting for the right moment to show up,” he joked, kissing me on the forehead. Behind us, Fiona stood holding Sofia, her face beaming with happiness. The tension that had once existed between us had vanished entirely.
As we stepped inside, I saw faces I hadn’t seen before, and it struck me that David’s estranged family wasn’t as distant as I had thought. They had simply needed time, and maybe a little encouragement, to come together. Fiona had been the first bridge, and now, with Zack’s arrival, they had all come to embrace our growing family.
One by one, relatives came up to greet us, offering gifts and words of congratulations. It was overwhelming, but in the best way possible. I felt a deep sense of belonging, a warmth that filled the house as laughter and chatter echoed through the rooms. This was the family I had always dreamed of—full of love, support, and understanding.
Later that evening, after everyone had gone home and the house was finally quiet, I sat in the nursery with Zack cradled in my arms. David joined me, pulling a chair close to mine as we both stared down at our son, marveling at how perfect he was.
“You know,” I said softly, “I almost lost everything because I didn’t trust you.”
David took my hand and squeezed it gently. “We’ve been through a lot, but that’s behind us now. What matters is that we came through it together. And now, we have Zack, and our family is stronger than ever.”
I nodded, tears welling up in my eyes, but this time they were tears of happiness. “I’m sorry for doubting you. For not believing in us when things got hard.”
David wiped a tear from my cheek and smiled. “You don’t need to apologize anymore. We’ve both learned from this. And I promise, from now on, I’ll be better about making sure you never feel left in the dark again.”
His words filled me with hope and comfort. I knew that our journey wasn’t going to be perfect. There would still be challenges, misunderstandings, and moments of doubt. But I also knew that we had built a foundation strong enough to weather those storms. We were in this together, and nothing would break us apart.
As I rocked Zack in my arms, I glanced over at David and smiled. “I can’t believe how far we’ve come,” I whispered. “There was a time I thought I was going to lose everything—our marriage, our family—and now look at us. We’ve grown, we’ve learned, and we’ve made it through something that could have destroyed us.”
David leaned over and kissed the top of my head. “That’s what love does,” he said softly. “It endures. It heals. And it makes us stronger.”
As Zack stirred in my arms, I knew deep down that the road ahead, though uncertain, was one we would walk together. And this time, there would be no more doubts. No more secrets. Only love, trust, and the promise of a future where our family would thrive.
In the weeks that followed, life returned to a peaceful rhythm. David and I were busy adjusting to life as parents of a newborn, and Sofia, as always, was a joy to have around. Fiona visited regularly, and our bond grew stronger with each passing day. There was no more awkwardness, no more unspoken tension between us. We had confronted the past and come out on the other side, closer than I ever thought possible.
Zack’s birth had not only brought new life into our home, but it had also brought healing. The arrival of our son had erased the scars of mistrust, and his presence reminded me every day of the power of love and forgiveness. I no longer carried the burden of doubt. Instead, I felt gratitude—gratitude for my family, for the love that had survived even the toughest trials, and for the future that now stretched out before us, filled with hope and promise.
As I stood at the window one evening, looking out at the sunset while holding Zack close, I smiled to myself, thinking about how life can sometimes throw unexpected challenges our way. But through those challenges, we grow, we learn, and in the end, we find ourselves stronger, more connected, and more in love than ever before.
With David by my side, Sofia laughing in the background, and Zack sleeping peacefully in my arms, I knew that no matter what lay ahead, we would face it together as a family—unbreakable and filled with love.
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