Reddit is the place where people share stories of their life and ask fellow redditors for advice and opinion on the decision they make.
A teenage girl recently shared that her dad and his wife-to-be excluded her from their wedding and she explained the reasons behind that heartbreaking decision.
“I (f18) was always pretty close to my dad. Closer to my mom but I often visited my dad (about 3-4 times a week). A few years ago he started dating “Anna”. Anna and I always got along when my dad proposed I was happy Anna seemed like she would be a great stepmom,” she started her post.
OP said that she was overly excited and was looking forward to the wedding. She bought a dress and shoes, but then her dad told her that he and his fiancée needed to talk to her about something important.
“Well a few weeks before the wedding after I had bought everything (dress, shoes, etc) my dad and Anna said they needed to “talk to me” Anna and my dad decided to have a child free wedding which I get especially for young kids.
“Well turns out child-free means no one under 18. On the day of the wedding, I was still going to be 17 so, therefore, I’m not allowed to be at the wedding because Anna wants to stay true to the child-free rule even for the daughter of the groom and her about-to-be stepdaughter.”
Devastated, OP told her mom what her dad and Anna said to her. The mom was as heartbroken as her daughter and decided to take her on vacation so that she cheer up. At the same time, the mom told the rest of the family what her ex-husband did to their daughter. Understandably, most of them were shocked and angry.
Later, OP posted birthday pictures on Facebook and wrote, “I’m so glad my dad and Anna didn’t allow me at their wedding since I was under 18; I feel more mature since yesterday.”
“The family was freaking out asking if that was true and bashing my dad and Anna. I later got a bunch of texts from my dad and Anna calling me immature and a selfish brat and that’s why I was too immature to be at a wedding. I was talking to some friends and they said I was kinda an AH for doing that and I should have just let it go.”
Fellow redditors shared their opinions and agreed that OP wasn’t an AH for telling the family what her dad did to her.
“NTA. What kind of man doesn’t have his own child at his wedding? Anyway, they made the choice, if they believe it was the right choice they should have no issue about it being publicly known. Plus, people might well assume you weren’t there because you disapproved of his new wife or chose a vacation instead. Ensuring people know WHY you weren’t there saves your own reputation,” one person commented.
“The no children was made for you. I’m sorry but let that sink in. She made that rule to keep you out. You now know where you stand in their marriage…you don’t. I’m so sorry. NTA. I personally think it was EPIC. Harsh but epic. They deserved more than that. I would even update it with pictures of their texts,” another added.
A third wrote, “I can’t help but wonder if she purposefully pick a date before OP birthday just so she couldn’t go. If the dad & step-mom wanted to make it child free but make sure OP was there they could have made sure the date was AFTER OP birthday but to make it just 2 days before….. nah they didn’t want her there & was just trying to use that as an excuse.”
We believe the dad was not right for excluding his own daughter from the wedding.
What are your thoughts on this?
City Woman Tried to Ruin My Life, but Losing Her Memory Changed Everything — Story of the Day
A wealthy stranger showed up uninvited, demanding my farm as if it were hers to take. He dismissed my family’s legacy as worthless. I refused, but his entitled smirk told me this fight was far from over.
The morning air was carrying the faint scent of tilled soil and wildflowers. The farm stretched before me, rolling fields kissed by the rising sun. Every corner whispered a memory: Dad hammering the first fencepost, Mom planting lilacs by the barn.
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Suddenly, a low hum broke the silence. I frowned, tilting my head. The sound grew louder. A car engine. Not a truck or the familiar rattle of my brother Steven’s old sedan. Squinting, I saw a sleek, black car gliding down the dirt road.
“Great,” I muttered under my breath.
Then, the woman appeared. She was tall, elegant, and looked like she’d been dropped off from another planet. Her suit screamed money, and not a single strand of her perfectly styled hair dared move in the breeze.
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“Are you the owner of this farm?” Her voice was the kind that didn’t waste time with pleasantries.
“Yes. Why?”
“I am Sophia. I own the surrounding properties. I’m here to buy yours.”
“It’s not for sale.”
“Not for sale? Once my resort opens, this… farm will be worthless.”
“It’s my family’s land.”
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She scoffed. “Sentimental and stubborn. What a combination. We’re not finished here.”
Her car door slammed, and she drove off, leaving behind a cloud of dust. I stood on the porch, gripping my coffee mug tighter. I felt something coming.
***
The next day, I stepped outside, expecting the quiet start of my usual chores. Instead, chaos greeted me like an unwelcome guest. Chickens darted across the yard, squawking in panic. Goats were hopping over fences like it was some sort of barnyard Olympics.
Who let the animals out?
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Then I saw her. Sophia.
She was perched precariously on a ladder by the barn, her hands busy with one of the old shutters. But her outfit… A sleek black dress and designer heels that had no business being anywhere near a farm.
“What are you doing up there?” I marched closer.
“Improving the aesthetic!” she shot back, not even turning her head.
Suddenly, the ladder wobbled.
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“Sophia…”
Her arms flailed, and for a brief, ridiculous moment, she looked like a very glamorous windmill. Then gravity won. She tumbled to the ground in a heap of expensive fabric.
I rushed over, kneeling beside her. “Are you okay?”
Her eyes fluttered open, but the vacant, confused look in them made my stomach drop.
“Who… are you?” she whispered.
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***
At the hospital, the doctor adjusted his glasses. Sophia sat on the exam table, staring blankly at me. She looked… lost.
The doctor turned to me. “Are you a relative?”
“Oh, no, I’m not…” I started, but then I stopped.
Relative…
I looked at Sophia again, her confusion evident in her distant stare. The doctor was still watching me, waiting for an answer, but my thoughts raced ahead.
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What if I say yes? What if I tell him we are family?
A voice in my head immediately protested. It wasn’t true. It wasn’t right. But then another thought slid in. Maybe that is fate’s way of teaching her something.
The silence stretched, and the doctor raised an eyebrow. “Miss?”
“Yes,” I said. “She’s my sister.”
The words sounded strange, leaving my mouth, but once they were out, I couldn’t take them back.
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Sophia turned to me. “Sister?”
“Yes,” I said quickly, stepping closer. “You’ve been staying with me at the farm with me and Steven.”
She blinked. “I… I don’t remember.”
On the drive back to the farm, I couldn’t help but smile faintly to myself. That was a mess of my own making, no doubt about it. But it was going to be one heck of a ride.
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***
The first morning with Sophia on the farm started with cautious optimism—and spiraled into chaos faster than I could have predicted.
“Okay, Sophia,” I said, handing her a small wooden stool and a pail. “Milking a cow is simple. You just have to…”
“Simple?” she cut in, her voice teetering between disbelief and dread. “Do you see these hands? These nails?”
What followed was a symphony of frustrated groans and a bucket that stayed empty. Sophia finally stood, tossing her hands in the air.
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“This cow hates me. She’s mocking me with her… her smug mooing!”
“Move on to the chickens,” I suggested, hiding a smirk.
She stormed toward the chicken coop, muttering under her breath. Moments later, a screech pierced the air. I ran over to find her flailing her arms as chickens scattered, their wings flapping wildly.
“They’re attacking me!” she shouted, diving behind a bale of hay.
“They’re chickens, not velociraptors. Just grab the eggs and get out.”
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The goats, sensing fresh prey, were next. They circled her like tiny, mischievous sharks, tugging at her scarf and nibbling the hem of her jacket.
By midday, Sophia looked like she’d survived a barnyard apocalypse. Her once-perfect outfit was smeared with dirt, and her hands scratched.
“I can’t do this,” she said, collapsing onto the porch. I saw tears welling up in her eyes. “I’m not made for… whatever this is.”
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“This is your life.”
She shook her head, disbelief etched into her face. Watching her sit there, exhausted and defeated, I felt a twinge of pity, but not for long.
You think you can waltz in, tear this place apart, and reshape it into your vision without understanding it? No.
You’re going to feel what life here is like. You’re going to understand why it’s worth protecting.
***
Steven arrived later that afternoon and quickly jumped in to help.
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“Come on,” he said to Sophia, handing her a pitchfork. “You’ll feel better once you accomplish something. Let’s start with the chicken coop.”
To my surprise, she followed him, earning a reluctant smile from Sophia.
Over the next few days, Steven stuck around, teaching her how to carry hay bales, clean stalls, and wrangle the goats without losing her mind or her scarf.
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By the end of the week, there were small victories. Sophia even cooked breakfast for us one morning. Granted, her pancakes looked more like hockey pucks, but we ate them anyway, laughing until tears streamed down our faces.
***
At the end of the week, I decided Sophia needed a break. Life on the farm had been hard on her, and I figured a little fun might do her some good. We hosted a barbecue, inviting neighbors to join us.
To my surprise, Sophia joined in.
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“This is amazing!” she said, biting into a piece of corn on the cob. “I didn’t know food could taste this fresh.”
I laughed. “Welcome to the real deal.”
A group of kids called out to her as they ran toward the lake. “Sophia, come swim with us!”
“Oh no,” she said, backing away, hands raised. “Swimming is not my thing.”
Steven, carrying a plate of burgers, chimed in. “What’s the matter? Afraid you’ll ruin your makeup?”
“I’m not wearing any!” she shot back, tossing her hair dramatically.
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“Then you’ve got no excuse. Go on, they won’t bite.”
The kids tugged at her hands, and with a resigned laugh, she let them drag her to the water. Minutes later, I saw her wading in, splashing around with the kind of carefree energy I’d never imagined from her.
“Never thought I’d see the day,” Sreven said, shaking his head.
As the evening wore on, Sophia drifted back toward the fire.
“You’ve adjusted pretty well,” Steven said, glancing at her. “I didn’t think you’d last a day out here, to be honest.”
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“Wait..” Sophia said, pulling the blanket tighter around her. “But… I’ve been living here all the time.”
He chuckled. “Oh, yes, I almost forgot that you are… um, my sister.”
As I stood by the fire, listening to their exchange, Steven’s words hit me like a jolt.
A pang of doubt wormed its way into my thoughts. I couldn’t ignore the way Steven looked at her. They had a connection that was undeniably growing, but my lie…
What have I done? How long before the messy truth catches up with me?
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Suddenly, a black car pulled up, and as the woman stepped out, her piercing gaze fixed on Sophia. Whoever she was, she hadn’t driven all the way for nothing.
I felt the tension crackle through the air like an approaching storm. The woman was overdressed as though she were attending a red carpet event instead of stepping onto a farm. Her stiletto heels sank into the dirt with each step, and she paused to examine the ground, wrinkling her nose in open disdain.
“Sophia, we are going home,” she said.
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Sofia looked up from her plate of grilled chicken, her face smudged with dirt.
“What are you wearing? And… what is that on your face?”
I stepped forward. “Ma’am, I think we need to talk.”
Her eyes snapped to me. “I am Sophia’s mother. And who, exactly, are you?”
“I’m the owner of this farm. Sofia’s been staying with me. She lost her memory after an accident…”
“You what?! You’ve been keeping my daughter here?”
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Her shrill accusations echoed across the yard, silencing the neighbors. All eyes turned to us.
“It wasn’t like that. I told her she was family. I thought…”
“You thought?” she spat. “You thought you had the right to lie to my daughter? To keep her here, away from her life, her family? Do you have any idea who she is? This farm is nothing compared to the world she belongs in!”
As if triggered by those words, Sofia stiffened. The warmth in her eyes disappeared, replaced by a cold, distant look.
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She turned to me. “I’ve remembered everything now. You’ve been lying to me.”
By the time she left with her mother that night, it was as if the Sofia we had known on the farm had never existed.
***
The days that followed were unbearably quiet. Her absence filled the house like a heavy shadow. I missed her clumsy attempts at chores, her dry humor, and even her dramatic outbursts. For the first time, the farm felt… empty.
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I found her business card while packing up the belongings she’d left behind. An address in the city stared back at me, daring me to do something.
In a few hours, I arrived at her office and braced myself for rejection. The receptionist informed Sofia of my arrival. Within minutes, she appeared.
To my shock, she hugged me tightly, tears slipping down her cheeks.
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“I’m sorry. For everything. For who I was.”
I pulled back slightly, searching her face. “Why now?”
She smiled faintly. “Because I miss it. The simplicity, the honesty. And most of all, I miss Steven.”
We returned to the farm together. That time, Sofia wasn’t just a visitor. She was family. She and Steven built a life here, one full of love, laughter, and the kind of grounding no luxury resort could ever provide.
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