During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
76-year-old Susan Sarandon criticized for her clothing – has the perfect response for haters
Susan Sarandon is a trailblazer and celebrity who has never shied away from speaking her mind in front of and behind the camera. She has captured audiences’ attention with her talent and won hearts with her unwavering genuineness throughout the course of her decades-long career.
Sarandon’s iconic role in “The Rocky Horror Picture Show” and her Oscar-winning performance in “Dead Man Walking” have had a lasting impression on the film industry. Despite this, she is unique for reasons beyond only her acting prowess: she embraces self-expression fearlessly.
In a field where strict beauty and conformity standards are often the norm, Sarandon defies expectations. Sarandon recently answered detractors who branded her outfit selections “inappropriate” with a characteristic nonverbal response.
Instead of slinging insults at other people, Sarandon let his image speak for him. By sharing a photo of herself flaunting her body in only her underwear and asserting her right to define her own boundaries for what is appropriate, she effectively silenced her critics.
But Sarandon’s disobedience extends beyond the realm of fashion. She aged sensibly and gracefully at seventy-six, understanding the value of time and the pointlessness of conventional norms. How does she manage to look so youthful? a nutritious diet, regular exercise, lots of laughing, and, of course, a fantastic team of hair and makeup artists.
Beneath the glamour and attention, though, is a woman who isn’t afraid to take the route she wants to go. Sarandon surrounds herself with people who share her bravery, curiosity, and vitality and refuses to waste energy on life’s small pleasures.
Susan Sarandon is a real-life illustration of the power of tenacity and self-assurance in a culture that frequently seeks to marginalize and restrict individuals. She personifies the spirit of rebellion, and she encourages us all to embrace our true selves and carve our own paths despite the doubters.
Let’s follow Sarandon’s example by daring to be really ourselves and putting authenticity above conformity, in addition to paying tribute to her unwavering spirit. In a culture that often attempts to stifle originality, Susan Sarandon’s message is unmistakably clear: be strong, fearless, and most importantly, stay true to who you are.
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