The conversation around diversity has been intensifying lately, making everyone think about its importance in all areas of life. One recent topic of discussion? The iconic 90s sitcom Friends.
Quinta Brunson, known for her role in Abbott Elementary, recently pointed out Friends for its lack of diversity. While hosting Saturday Night Live, Brunson used her monologue to highlight the absence of Black characters in the beloved show.
Brunson contrasted the diversity on Abbott Elementary, which features the lives of teachers in a predominantly Black, state-funded elementary school in Philadelphia, with the noticeable lack of diversity on Friends. The difference was strikingly evident.
With her well-known wit, she joked: “I wanted to be on SNL back in the day, but the audition process seemed long – so instead, I just created my own TV show, made sure it became really popular, won a bunch of Emmys, and then got asked to host. So much easier, so much easier.”
While the audience chuckled, the underlying point was clear. Brunson continued, “It’s a network sitcom like, say, Friends. Except, instead of being about a group of friends, it’s about a group of teachers. Instead of New York, it’s in Philadelphia, and instead of not having Black people, it does.”
Her playful commentary sparked serious reflection, even from Friends co-creator Marta Kauffman. Kauffman has publicly expressed embarrassment over the show’s lack of diversity and pledged $4 million to support African and African-American studies at a university.
“I’ve learned a lot in the last 20 years,” Kauffman admitted. “Admitting and accepting guilt is not easy. It’s painful looking at yourself in the mirror. I’m embarrassed that I didn’t know better 25 years ago.”
She added, “It took me a long time to begin to understand how I internalized systemic racism. I’ve been working really hard to become an ally, an anti-racist. And this seemed to me to be a way that I could participate in the conversation from a white woman’s perspective.”
The discussion around diversity is far from over, but it’s clear that the conversation has advanced—even for a cherished sitcom like Friends.
My Brother Kicked Our Grandma out Because She Had No Money Left – She Taught Him a Lesson He Will Never Forget
When my brother Paul kicked Grandma Eleanor out for not contributing financially, I took her in, driven by love and loyalty. As she rebuilt her life and found unexpected success, Paul’s regret surfaced, but I wondered if it would be enough to mend our broken bonds.
“Rachel, I can’t keep doing this,” Paul said, slamming his cup down on the table. “She’s costing too much.”
“Paul, she’s our grandmother. She raised us, remember?” I replied, trying to keep my voice steady. I could see the tension in his jaw, the frustration in his eyes.
“That was then. Things are different now,” he said, crossing his arms. “She doesn’t bring anything to the table anymore. She just sits there, painting and wasting time.”
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“Those paintings mean something to her,” I said. “And they could mean something to us if we let them.”
Paul scoffed. “Sentimental nonsense. I need to think about the future, Rachel. We can’t afford dead weight.”
I felt a lump form in my throat. “Paul, it’s not about what she can give us now. It’s about what she’s already given.”
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He stood up, running a hand through his hair. “Look, I’ve got a family to think about. Expenses are through the roof. If she can’t contribute, I don’t see why we should carry the load.”
“Because she’s family. She’s more than family; this is Grandma Eleanor we’re talking about,” I said, my voice barely above a whisper.
Weeks passed, and Paul’s demeanor only grew colder. Grandma Eleanor tried to hide the hurt, but I could see it in her eyes, the way she clutched her paintbrushes like lifelines.
My kids adored her, always sitting by her side as she painted, their laughter filling the house with a warmth Paul’s home had long since lost.
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One evening, Paul called me. “Rachel, it’s time she moves out. I can’t do this anymore.”
I felt my heart sink. “Where will she go?”
“She can stay with you,” he said bluntly. “You seem to care so much.”
I agreed, but the conversation left a bitter taste in my mouth. I couldn’t understand how Paul had become so heartless. I prepared the spare room, knowing Grandma would need a space that felt like home, a place where she could paint without feeling like a burden.
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When I broke the news to Eleanor, she smiled softly, though I saw the tears glistening in her eyes. “Thank you, Rachel. You’ve always had a kind heart.”
“Grandma, you don’t need to thank me. This is your home too,” I said, hugging her tightly.
The move was quick. Paul didn’t even help. He watched from the doorway as we packed up her few belongings. “You’re doing the right thing,” he said, almost to convince himself.
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I drove her to my house, the silence heavy between us. As we pulled into the driveway, she reached over and squeezed my hand. “I’ll be okay, Rachel.”
Inside, my kids greeted her with open arms. “Great-Grandma, show us how to paint like you!” they exclaimed, pulling her into the living room where her easel was already set up.
Eleanor smiled, the first genuine smile I’d seen in weeks. “Of course, darlings. Let’s create something beautiful.”
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The days passed, and Eleanor began to rediscover her passion for painting. My kids were her biggest fans, always eager to see her latest work. “You’ve got a real gift, Grandma,” I told her one afternoon, admiring a vibrant landscape she’d just finished.
“Thank you, Rachel. I’d almost forgotten how much I loved this,” she replied, her eyes shining with a renewed sense of purpose.
With the kids’ encouragement, she started sharing her artwork online. I helped her set up a social media account, and soon, her unique style and heartfelt stories behind each piece began to attract attention. Comments poured in, praising her talent and resilience.
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One evening, she received a message from a local art gallery. “Rachel, look at this,” she said, her hands trembling with excitement. “They want to give me a solo exhibition!”
I hugged her tightly. “That’s amazing, Grandma! You deserve this.”
The weeks leading up to the exhibition were a flurry of activity. Eleanor worked tirelessly, creating new pieces and preparing for the big day. My kids helped with everything, from selecting frames to writing descriptions for each painting.
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The night of the exhibition arrived, and the gallery buzzed with excitement. People admired her work, and almost every painting sold. She even received several commissions, securing her financial independence.
Eleanor stood before the crowd, her voice steady and strong. “Thank you all for believing in me,” she said, tears of joy streaming down her face.
Word of her success reached Paul, and a few days later, he showed up at my doorstep. “Rachel, can we talk?” he asked, his tone uncharacteristically soft.
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“Paul, what do you want?” I asked, crossing my arms.
“I made a mistake,” he admitted, looking down. “I shouldn’t have kicked her out. I see that now.”
Eleanor stepped forward, her eyes piercing through him. “It’s a little late for that, Paul,” she said, her voice firm. “You showed your true colors when you turned your back on family.”
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He shifted uncomfortably. “I want to make it right, Grandma. Please.”
She shook her head, eyes narrowing. “No, Paul. You only want to make things right because you see my success now. Where was this concern when I needed a home, when all I had was my art and my memories?”
“I was wrong,” he said, his voice breaking. “I see that now. I’ve lost so much because of my actions.”
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“You lost our respect,” she said. “And that’s something you can’t buy back with apologies or money. Family is about love and support, not about what you can get from them.”
Paul looked devastated. “Please, give me a chance to make amends,” he pleaded.
Eleanor stood firm, her renewed strength evident in her posture. “You need to learn what it means to truly value someone for who they are, not what they can provide financially. Until then, I have nothing more to say to you.”
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Paul hung his head, realizing the full weight of his actions. “I understand,” he whispered before turning away, a broken man.
As Paul left, Eleanor turned to me, her eyes filled with resolve. “Rachel, I’m grateful for you and the kids. You’ve shown me what true family means.”
We hugged, and I felt a sense of peace knowing she was finally where she belonged, surrounded by love and support.
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Eleanor’s art continued to flourish. Her story of resilience and dignity spread through the community, inspiring many. People came to her exhibitions not just to see her paintings, but to hear her story, and to learn about the woman who found strength in the face of adversity.
One evening, as we sat in the living room, the kids at her feet, eagerly painting, I reflected on everything that had happened. “Grandma, your strength has changed us all,” I said. “You’ve taught us what it means to stand up for yourself and to cherish the people who truly matter.”
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She smiled, her eyes twinkling with pride. “It’s never too late to find your strength, Rachel. And it’s never too late to teach others the true essence of family.”
Paul, meanwhile, was left to grapple with his own failings. He watched from afar as Eleanor’s life blossomed without him. It was a harsh lesson, but one he needed to learn. His materialism had cost him dearly, a reminder that true wealth is found in the love and respect of those who matter most.
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