Being a parent to a cocky, disrespectful teenager is far from easy, and different parents have different approaches to get their children to behave.
One mom, Heidi Johnson, wrote a handwritten letter to her son, Aaron, and shared it on Facebook. She didn’t intend for the post to go viral. She didn’t even intend to make the post public. It was supposed to just be for friends to see, but she does not regret her post or the fact that it’s public.
In the letter to her 13-year-old son, Johnson reprimanded her son treating her like a “roommate.” She went on to give him an itemized bill for rent, food, etc that totaled over $700. If he was going to treat her like a roommate instead of his mom, she would do the same.
Johnson signed the note, “Love Mom,” and she truly does love her son. She followed up the post with another post explaining some backstory to the situation. She also reassured parents who were criticizing her that “I am not going to put my 13 year old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything. I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have.”
She added that she never intended for Aaron to pay the bill. Instead, she wanted him to “gain an appreciation of what things cost.” The reason Johnson wrote the note was to make sure her son understood “what life would look like if I was not his ‘parent,’ but rather a ‘roommate.’ It was a lesson about gratitude and respect from the very beginning.”
Johnson also explained that before she wrote the note, her son had lied about doing his homework, and when she told him she was going to restrict his internet access, he responded, “Well, I am making money now.” She explained that the money he was referring to was a little bit of income he was making from his YouTube channel, but not nearly enough to pay for food and rent.
The public note has not hurt Johnson’s relationship with her son. She explained, “He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times.”
Johnson has also had parents turning to her for advice since she posted the note to her son. She explains, “My post seems to have opened a door, and people feel safe coming to me and asking for advice, venting, or even just have someone bear witness to their experience by listening and opening up and sharing a piece of myself in return.”
A woman turned a 1966 bus into a comfortable and cozy home on wheels
Over the course of three years, a dilapidated bus underwent a remarkable metamorphosis, evolving into a stylish and comfortable mobile home known as the Greyhound.
While some individuals meticulously select or inherit their dream homes, there are those like Jessie Lipskin who opt to craft their distinctive abode from scratch. This spirited American woman embarked on a journey where she purchased an old bus, equipped it with essentials for a nomadic lifestyle, and embarked on a delightful makeover.
The inspiration for the transformation of the outdated bus into a sophisticated Greyhound RV struck Jessie after watching the documentary “Trash Warrior”. Captivated by eco-architect Michael Reynolds’ creative endeavors in building homes from recyclable materials, she envisioned an environmentally friendly dwelling.
Embracing the principles of minimalism, Jessie purged unnecessary possessions, condensing her life into a single suitcase. The quest for a suitable vehicular platform marked the commencement of her mission to construct a compact yet eco-friendly home.
Not possessing expertise in construction, carpentry, or plumbing posed challenges for Jessie. Undeterred, she sought assistance from friends, acquaintances, and occasional professionals to bring her vision to life.
The interior of this unique mobile home features an exclusive use of natural materials, in line with Jessie’s love for the outdoors. To uphold environmental sustainability, energy-efficient systems, recycled materials, and wood were employed for insulation, coatings, and various components.
The living space boasts a harmonious blend of functionality and aesthetics. A spacious living area, a well-appointed kitchen, a luxurious bathroom, and a cozy bedroom with abundant storage were meticulously designed to create Jessie’s dream home.
Utilizing only natural wood and recycled materials, the interior exudes an eco-friendly charm. Strategic design choices, such as white walls and parquet flooring, enhance the brightness and appeal of the space. Original bus windows were preserved to invite natural light, while a thoughtfully crafted LED system illuminates the space at night.
In the well-equipped kitchen, gas tanks, an oven, an energy-efficient washing machine, a refrigerator, and a wooden countertop cater to both practicality and style. Thoughtfully arranged shelves and cupboards optimize storage and movement in this compact yet functional space.
The mobile home’s rear serves as the bedroom, featuring a streamlined design, large windows adorned with heavy velvet curtains, and a delightful surprise, a small library replacing a conventional wall. A comfortable double bed with storage beneath completes the cozy retreat.
Addressing the challenge of waste disposal on the road, Jessie ingeniously implemented a self-contained sewage system. Waste and used water are directed into a large under-floor tank, allowing for convenient discharge at designated locations.
With a separate water supply tank equipped with a water heater, the mobile home offers fully functional showers, sinks, and toilets.
Jessie Lipskin’s Greyhound stands as a testament to the fusion of creativity, sustainability, and resourcefulness, showcasing the possibilities of crafting a unique, eco-friendly home on wheels.
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