There are so many things in the world that we may admire or even get inspired by, but there’s one main thing we may want to fall in love with before we start noticing the beauty of other things. It’s our own reflection in the mirror. Among all the numerous recipes for conjuring up self-love within ourselves, psychologists advise us to never compare ourselves to others and stop caring about other people’s opinions. Actress and producer Lena Dunham knows a lot about cultivating love for her own body despite all the criticism she faced, and she happily shares her journey with us all.
Lena Dunham doesn’t accept the term “body positivity,” and here’s why.
Actress and writer Lena Dunham has recently added another string to her bow and collaborated with the brand 11 Honoré to create a plus-size clothing collection. But the very term “plus size” frustrates Lena, and so is the term “body positivity.” In one of her Instagram posts, she explains that she feels more “body tolerant” than “body positive.”
In her interview, Dunham said, “The thing that’s complicated about the body-positive movement is it can be for the privileged few who have a body that looks the way people want to feel positive. We want curvy bodies that look like Kim Kardashian has been up-sized slightly. We want big beautiful butts and big beautiful breasts and no cellulite and faces that look like you could smack them onto thin women.”
Dunham has a very special relationship with her own body.
Dunhams path to self-love started with a decade-long journey with endometriosis. Since she started her own fight against it, she has been candidly sharing how it influenced both her emotional health and her relationship with her own body image. In her Instagram post, she emotionally described how she fluctuated between loving her body and the opposite.
She wrote, “Ya know when you’re home alone, and you realize you’d be happier in a hot lil’ onesie than your ketchup and cat food stained pajamas? And it’s not about a boy or a photo shoot or a weight loss before-and-after, it’s just for the feeling of glee you get from dressing your one and only corporeal form in pleasing fabrics, the unique pleasure of admiring the twists and turns of the body that loves the heck out of you even when you don’t love it.”
Dunham is powerfully addressing all people who come to her page with criticism.
In 2021, Dunham tied the knot with musician Luis Felber. It was such a darling event for her that she wore 3 wedding dresses to marry her love and shared the photos on her Instagram. However, she started getting some “gnarly” comments in her feed from people who commented on her body and appearance. The actress didn’t hesitate for a minute to address them with a powerful message.
She wrote, “One narrative I take issue with, largely because it’s a story I don’t want other women, other people, to get lodged in their heads, is that I should somehow be criticized because my body has changed since I was last on television. […] But lastly, when will we learn to stop equating thinness with health/happiness?”
Dunham’s powerful message can be echoed in the hearts of many.
For all people who have ever hesitated about embracing their body image, Dunham has some simple yet wise advice. She says, “Of course weight loss can be the result of positive change in habits, but guess what? So can weight gain. The pics I’m being compared to are from when I was with an undiagnosed illness. In the last 4 years, I’ve begun my life as someone who aspires toward health and not just achievement.
These changes have allowed me to be the kind of sister/friend/daughter that I want to be and yes — meet my husband (who, by the way, doesn’t recognize me in those old photos because he sees how dimmed my light was). I say this for any other person whose appearance has been changed with time, illness, or circumstance — it’s okay to live in your present body without treating it as transitional. I am, and I’m really enjoying it. Love you all.”
Do you find Lena Dunham’s example inspiring? What do you love the most about your appearance?
Preview photo credit Steve Granitz / WireImage / Getty Images, lenadunham / Instagram
Fans Notice Wynonna Judd, 60, ‘Lost Too Much Weight’ as She Flaunts ‘Skinny’ Look in Black Plunging Outfit
The main topic of conversation among the general public is Wynonna Judd’s physique. After seeing an online snapshot and video of the singer, many noticed a considerable change in her weight. Years have passed since she disclosed something regarding her weight.
The 60-year-old country music queen Wynonna Judd ignited Instagram on August 7th when she uploaded a picture of herself with a rockstar guitar and her fiery characteristic hair, looking stunning and lively. Even while many people acknowledged Wynonna’s attractiveness, they couldn’t help but notice something quite strange about her physique.
She was wearing an all-black outfit with a plunging neckline in the photo, offering fans a cheeky peek at her cleavage and neck. Wynonna accessorized her ensemble with an eye-catching rosary as she made a kissing face for the camera.
The singer of “I Saw The Light” wrote in her post, “THE BACK TO WY TOUR STARTS IN ONE MONTHHHH!!!!!!!!!!,” hinting at an exciting new project she’s working on for her followers.
On August 10, three days after the picture was shared, a fan uploaded a video of Wynonna performing at the Back Road Music Festival in Galva, Illinois, on TikTok. She was spotted wearing the same attire as in her Instagram picture.
The country music icon was captured on camera performing a stirring cover of one of her best-loved songs, “No One Else On Earth,” to the sound of her gifted band.
Wynonna’s long, glittering black jacket swayed as she went around the stage and swung her hands in the air, giving an intense performance for the enthusiastic audience. Occasionally, it would show off what was underneath—a black, tight-fitting top that emphasized her thin figure.
Many people used social media to comment on how much weight they thought the musician had dropped recently after viewing the photo and TikTok fan video, with some saying it was too much.”You’ve shed too much weight,” an Instagram user said.
“Someone say ozempic,” said someone else who thinks Wynonna may have taken anything to aid in her weight loss. One netizen wrote, “Love you Wy, you need some biscuits and gravy cause you a bone now baby!!!”
However, some individuals believe Wynonna looks fantastic now that she has shed some weight.”Whoa, Wy, you look amazing. Very lovely. I want to have your current slim figure. Please share the secret, gushed an admirer.
Another admirer echoed the remark and mentioned Wynonna’s late, renowned mother, saying, “Wynonna, you look just like your beautiful mama now that you’ve lost all the weight! ♥️.”
Even though Wynonna hasn’t officially acknowledged her recent weight reduction, a review of some of her older images and videos reveals a noticeable change in the star’s physical appearance. Wynonna appears somewhat fuller than she does now in a portrait of the “Give A Little Love” singer at the 2022 CMT and Sandbox Live event held in her honor.
A close-up of Wynonna’s face was seen in a video that CMT’s official account posted on Instagram during her performance at the same event. Wynonna’s face appears rounder and plumper from the perspective of the video than it does now.
Wynonna and her late mother Naomi Judd, who performed the song “Love Can Build A Bridge” as their duo group The Judds, are seen in the video.
Wynonna revealed a personal information about her weight on an earlier edition of “The Oprah Winfrey Show,” years before that performance and before her most recent Instagram photo and appearance at the Back Road Music Festival.
Ashley Judd, Wynonna’s sister, and mother joined her on the program. A 2010 excerpt from the conversation disclosed Wynonna’s history with weight issues.
She acknowledged that when she was a little child, she first struggled with her weight. The musician of “Flies On The Butter” disclosed that she had never discussed her issues with her mother or sister, which just serves to exacerbate the wound.
The country legend is still a stunning, creative force in the music business, whether or not she lost weight, despite the fact that the aforementioned facts are undoubtedly depressing.
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