The life story of Patrick Hardison from Mississippi is nothing less than a mind-blowing one. This man is the first American who has received a face transplant back in 2015 after his face and neck were left completely disfigured during a house fire.
Patrick’s life was a great one up until the day the tragedy struck in 2001.
He worked as a volunteer firefighter earlier in his life, so when he got called to help with a house fire, he didn’t hesitate. Sadly, once he entered the burning place, it collapsed on top of him and trapped him. He couldn’t move and his torso and face were severely burnt.
“[My mask] was melting to my face,” Patrick recalled. “My hose [was] already melted.”
“For somebody who does what we do for a living, I’ve never seen anybody burned that bad that was still alive,” friend and first responder Jimmy Neal told CBS News of seeing Patrick after the accident.
Patrick suffered third degree burns on his face and scalp. He also sustained burns to his head, neck, and upper torso. The fire also claimed his ears, lips, most of his nose, and even most of his eyelid tissue.
“I didn’t actually see myself until probably November. I got injured in September,” Patrick told Fox News. “They had cut a little pinhole in one of my eyelids because they had everything covered, skin graft. I looked in the mirror and all I could do, I said, ‘this is it? I can’t do this,’” he recalled.
Over the years, this man was forced to undergo over 70 surgeries, as well as other procedures. He couldn’t close his eyes and doctors were able to put together flaps of skin to protect his vision, but he was still facing the risk of going blind.
Patrick couldn’t eat without feeling excruciating pain. He just couldn’t get used to this life because he couldn’t look at himself in the mirror. Wherever he went, everyone starred at him, and he could barely stand being around people, even his children.
In order to hide and protect himself, Patrick wore sunglasses and a baseball cap all the time. He also had ear prosthetic.
“I had kids. It was just a tough time. I never got a day off from the injury. When you walk out in public, it was daily. And, you know, it’s just so — there’s no way to explain everything,” he told Yahoo! Sports.
“You go to the ball field, you have to prepare yourself for the kid that goes running off screaming.”
Years went by and Patrick lost hope of ever having a normal life. But then, French woman named Isabelle Dinoire received a partial face transplant after her face was severely disfigured by her pet dog. This procedure was revolutionary. It was the first ever of that kind. Surely, it gave a glimpse of hope to Patrick who at that point was truly struggling.
Patrick met doctor Eduardo D. Rodriguez from the NYU Langone Medical Center in New York who told him he would do the transplant surgery if they find a matching donor. It wasn’t easy, but one day, out of the blue, a donor appeared. LiveOnNY, a nonprofit that coordinates organ donations in the New York area, had found a match. The face Patrick was about to get belonged to 26-year-old David Rodebaugh who had sustained a massive head injury in a bike accident and had been declared brain dead.
This young man’s mother, Nancy Millar, decided to donate her son’s organs, including his face. “I said, ‘You better save his face. He has the face of a porcelain doll.’ And he’s a donor — we had talked about it,” Millar told People.
The thought of someone receiving her son’s face meant that David would continue to live on through the people whose lives he was about to save, including Patrick’s.
“When I met Patrick, I saw this strength, this strong, manly, burly kind of energy in him — that David had,” Nancy recalled.
“David wanted to be a firefighter, an I knew if this guy was a firefighter — he was willing to walk into a fire to save people and risk his own life — then he had the strength that David had.”
Finally, the day of the transplant surgery had arrived. The procedure lasted for 26 long hours and was performed by a team of 100 professionals.
The risk was enormous and Patrick was given a 50/50 percent chance of survival. Luckily, it was a huge success. Patrick received a new face, scalp, ears, and ear canals. He also received eyelids which allowed him to blink naturally and save his vision.
“Everything in life has a risk,” Patrick told Time Magazine.
“When it’s your time to go, you’ll go—whether you’re walking down the street and get hit by a car or you’re lying on the operating table.”
After he recovered from the swelling and he learned how to talk and swallow again, Patrick met his donor’s mother. Nancy only had one request, to kiss Patrick on the forehead.
“I said, ‘Can I kiss your forehead?’” Nancy said. “That’s the one thing I wanted to do because every night before David went to bed when he was little, I kissed his forehead.”
“I’ve been waiting a year to meet her. I’m just very grateful,” Patrick added. “Without her, it wouldn’t have been possible. It’s like she’s family. We connected that easily.”
Ever since the surgery, Patrick is taking anti-rejection drugs that prevent his immune system from rejecting the face, but he’s thriving. He didn’t only receive a new face but a new life too.
Today, he is divorced and is working on a book which he hopes would serve as an inspiration to anyone who believes there is no way out from the situation they have found themselves in. “Because I want to show the world that you can have hope. I wouldn’t want people that were like me years ago to think that’s it, I have to live like this. You don’t. You can accomplish anything,” Patrick says.
His survival and his recovery are dubbed miraculous. Thanks to Nancy, Dr. Rodriguez and his team, and Patrick’s strong will, today, he is a happy man.
I Saw My Child-Free Ex-husband Buying a Cart Full of Toys – When I Found Out Who They Were For, I Broke Down in Tears
I sat in my car for a moment, letting the memories wash over me. My name is Giselle, and my life has taken turns that I never saw coming.
Tanner and I met in college, and our connection was immediate and undeniable.
A young loving couple | Source: Midjourney
We got married young, filled with dreams of a future that seemed to stretch endlessly before us. But life has a way of twisting those dreams, and ours was shattered over a fundamental disagreement: children.
I had always wanted to be a mom. Tanner, on the contrary, was adamant about not having kids. Our arguments became more frequent, and our love strained under the weight of unmet expectations.
One night, it all came to a head. “Tanner, I can’t keep pretending this doesn’t matter to me,” I said, tears streaming down my face. “I want children. I need to be a mother.”
A woman cries during an argument with her husband | Source: Midjourney
Tanner’s face was a mask of frustration and pain. “Giselle, I told you from the beginning that I didn’t want kids. I can’t change who I am.”
“But we’ve built a life together,” I pleaded. “We can find a way to make it work.”
He shook his head, his voice breaking. “It’s not just about finding a way. It’s about fundamentally wanting different things. I don’t want to bring a child into this world when I know I can’t give them the love and attention they deserve.”
The silence that followed was deafening. We both knew what had to happen.
A couple sitting apart after an argument | Source: Midjourney
Eventually, we divorced. The pain was excruciating, but I believed it was the only way for both of us to find the happiness we deserved.
Several years went by. I rebuilt my life, found a good job, and surrounded myself with friends who became like family. But there was always an ache in my heart, a reminder of the life I once imagined.
Tanner and I kept in touch sporadically, mostly through brief text messages. We lived in the same town, but our paths rarely crossed, until a few days ago.
A woman lost in her thoughts while holding a cell phone | Source: Midjourney
I was at the local store, mindlessly wandering the aisles, when I saw him. Tanner was standing at the checkout, his cart overflowing with kids’ toys.
My heart stopped. I felt a rush of emotions: confusion, anger, and a deep, aching sadness. Why would he be buying toys? The man who didn’t want children was now a father? It felt like a cruel twist of fate.
Unable to quell my curiosity, I followed him. He loaded the toys into his car, and I trailed behind, feeling like a detective in one of those crime dramas.
A shopping cart filled with kids’ toys | Source: Midjourney
Instead of heading to a family home, he drove to a storage unit. I watched as he unloaded the toys, spending a long time inside. My mind raced with possibilities. Was he hiding a family? Keeping a secret from everyone?
When he finally left, I continued to follow him, my heart pounding in my chest. Tanner drove to the house we used to live in, the one we filled with dreams of a future together. There were no signs of a new partner or children.
A woman sitting in a car looking at something | Source: Midjourney
It looked exactly as I remembered, almost frozen in time. I felt a wave of exhaustion and embarrassment, but I couldn’t turn back now.
I took a deep breath and got out of the car, walking up to the door. My hand shook as I knocked. Tanner opened the door, his expression shifting from surprise to confusion.
“Giselle? What are you doing here?”
I hesitated, the words tumbling out in a rush. “I saw you at the store with all those toys. I thought… I thought you had a new family.”
A man in a store standing with a cart full of kids’ toys | Source: Midjourney
Tanner sighed, stepping aside to let me in. “It’s not what you think. Let me explain.”
The house was eerily familiar, every corner filled with memories. We sat down in the living room, the silence heavy between us. Finally, Tanner spoke.
“I know this must be confusing for you, Giselle. But it’s not what it looks like.” He took a deep breath, his eyes filled with sincerity. “I’ll tell you everything.”
A man talking to a woman while sitting in a living room | Source: Midjourney
I sat in stunned silence as Tanner began his story, and his voice was soft but full of emotion.
“Every Christmas, I dress up in a Santa outfit and go around to unfortunate neighborhoods, giving out presents to poor kids,” he said, his eyes misty with memories.
“Why?” I asked, still grappling with the shock of what he was telling me.
A woman looks shocked while talking to a man | Source: Midjourney
He took a deep breath, his gaze distant as if he were looking back through the years.
“When I was a child, my family was really poor. One Christmas, a stranger dressed as Santa showed up at our door with gifts. It was the highlight of my childhood. That moment, that kindness… it stuck with me. Ever since then, I’ve made it my mission to do the same for others.”
A little boy receives a present from Santa Claus on Christmas | Source: Pexels
I was speechless, the weight of my misconceptions pressing down on me. All this time, I had misunderstood his intentions and motives. He wasn’t buying toys for a new family; he was giving back to the community in the most selfless way possible.
“When I got my first job,” Tanner continued, “I decided that I would set aside part of my salary every month to buy toys and presents. I wanted to be ready for December, to make sure that no child in my old neighborhood had to feel the way I did back then.”
Assorted plush toys displayed in a shop | Source: Pexels
I could see the passion and dedication in his eyes, the way they sparkled when he talked about those kids. It was a side of him I had never seen before, and it made me realize how much I had misunderstood him.
“I just… I don’t know what to say,” I stammered, my emotions a tangled mess of admiration, regret, and a deep, aching respect. “Why didn’t you tell me?”
Tanner looked down, his voice barely above a whisper. “I didn’t want to make things more complicated than they already were. And honestly, I wasn’t sure you’d understand.”
A thoughtful man sitting in the living room | Source: Midjourney
His words stung, but I knew there was some truth in them. Our breakup had been messy, and I had been so focused on my own pain that I hadn’t considered his perspective.
“I’m so sorry,” I said, tears welling up in my eyes. “I was so angry and hurt when I saw you with those toys. I thought you had moved on and started a new family. I never imagined…”
He reached out and took my hand, his grip warm and reassuring. “You don’t need to apologize, Giselle. We both made mistakes. But I’m glad you know the truth now.”
Two people holding hands for support | Source: Freepik
We sat in silence for a moment, the weight of our shared past hanging in the air. Finally, Tanner stood up. “Come with me,” he said, a small smile playing on his lips. “I want to show you something.”
I followed him to the storage unit, my heart pounding with curiosity and anticipation. He unlocked the door and flicked on the light, revealing rows upon rows of neatly stacked boxes, each one filled with toys and gifts.
“This is incredible,” I said, my voice barely above a whisper. “You’ve done all this by yourself?”
A storage unit containing gift boxes | Source: Midjourney
Tanner nodded. “It’s taken years to build up, but it’s worth it. Seeing the smiles on those kids’ faces… It’s the best feeling in the world.”
As I looked around the storage unit, I felt a deep sense of admiration for Tanner. Our painful past had led to something beautiful and meaningful. I realized that sometimes people have reasons for their actions that we can’t see on the surface.
“Do you need any help?” I asked, surprising even myself with the question.
A couple standing in a storage unit and talking | Source: Midjourney
Tanner looked at me, his eyes wide with surprise and gratitude. “Really? You’d want to help?”
I nodded, a smile spreading across my face. “Yeah. I think it’s time I started giving back too.”
Over the next few weeks, Tanner and I spent hours together, preparing for Christmas. We sorted toys, wrapped presents, and made plans for the big day. It was hard work, but it was also incredibly rewarding. And as we worked side by side, we began to heal the wounds of our past.
A stack of wrapped Christmas presents | Source: Pexels
On Christmas Eve, we dressed up as Santa and his helper, loading up his car with gifts. As we drove to the first neighborhood, my heart raced with excitement and a little bit of nervousness. When we arrived, children gathered around us, their eyes wide with wonder and joy.
“Ho, ho, ho!” Tanner bellowed, handing out gifts with a twinkle in his eye. The children’s laughter and smiles were infectious, and I felt a warmth spread through me that I hadn’t felt in years.
Santa Claus holding a present beside a Christmas tree | Source: Pexels
We spent the night visiting different neighborhoods, bringing joy to dozens of kids. It was a magical experience, and it brought Tanner and me closer than we had been in a long time. By the time we returned to his house, we were exhausted but happy.
“Thank you, Giselle,” Tanner said as we unloaded the car. “I couldn’t have done this without you.”
I smiled, feeling a sense of fulfillment I hadn’t felt in years. “No, Tanner. Thank you. For showing me that there’s still good in the world, and for helping me find my way back to it.”
A woman talking to a man dressed as Santa Claus | Source: Midjourney
As I drove away, I felt a weight lift off my shoulders. Our story had taken an unexpected turn, but it brought healing and hope to both of us.
The next morning, Christmas Day, I woke up with a sense of peace. I knew that our story was far from over, but for the first time in a long time, I felt hopeful about the future.
As I sipped my coffee and looked out the window at the snow-covered ground, I smiled, thinking about the children who had woken up to find presents from Santa.
A woman drinking coffee and looking out the window on Christmas Day | Source: Midjourney
Tanner and I had found a way to turn our pain into something beautiful. And in doing so, we had found a way back to each other, not as husband and wife, but as friends and partners in a mission to bring joy to the world. It was a new beginning, one filled with hope, understanding, and a renewed sense of purpose.
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