Em novembro de 2021, uma mulher anônima compartilhou uma história comovente no fórum “AITA” do Reddit. A mulher, de 24 anos, contou a história da irmã, de 32, e do marido, de 38, que era o epítome da incompetência familiar.
Apesar de ter um trabalho de tempo integral de mais de 40 horas semanais, administrando toda a casa e cuidando dos quatro filhos – 10F, 8M, 5M e 3F – enquanto estava grávida, o marido da irmã não colaborou em nada.
Uma criança ao lado da mãe na cozinha | Foto de : Pexels
A mulher achou incrível que a irmã acordasse às 4 da manhã, cuidasse do café da manhã e das tarefas domésticas e preparasse os filhos para a escola, enquanto o marido ficava em casa, trabalhava e se divertia com videogame depois de pegar as crianças. Em particular, a mulher mencionou que a sua irmã ganhava mais que o seu marido.
O que aconteceu quando eles ficaram com a irmã?
Enquanto reformavam a casa dela, o Redditor teve que ficar seis semanas na casa da irmã, com o noivo de 26 anos. Como o casal trabalhava em casa, puderam oferecer ajuda, e o apoio extra deixou a irmã da mulher feliz e aliviada.
Ele alegou que o incidente o tornou motivo de chacota em sua família.
Uma mulher lê um livro para suas filhas | Foto: Shutterstock
A mulher ajudou a irmã com os filhos, e o noivo até a levou às consultas médicas. Por outro lado, o marido só reconhecia o seu papel paterno quando a família estava presente, apresentando-se como um pai de cinco filhos, temente a Deus e trabalhador.
Embora a irmã da mulher quisesse parar de ter filhos depois do último filho, o marido insistiu em ter mais meninos. A autora original estava preocupada não só com a irmã, mas também com os filhos, principalmente quando o mais velho começou a reconhecer a situação e tentou ajudá-la. No entanto, a irmã recusou-se terminantemente a deixar o filho assumir a responsabilidade.
Uma menina assustada ouve seus pais discutindo ao fundo | Foto: Shutterstock
O Redditor admitiu que ela nunca se deu bem com o cunhado e que o comportamento dele persistiu desde o nascimento de seu filho de oito anos. Apesar das tentativas de discutir a opção de partir, a sua irmã resistiu e temeu que os seus filhos crescessem num lar desfeito.
Um casal feliz com seus três filhos | Foto: Shutterstock
Sua perspectiva sobre o divórcio era diferente da do Redditor, pois sua própria experiência com o divórcio dos pais era muito diferente. Ela acreditava que os seus filhos precisavam da mãe e do pai juntos e estava relutante em considerar os possíveis benefícios do divórcio, dada a sua situação.
Jantar de Ação de Graças
No fim de semana antes de ela contar sua história, sua irmã e seu cunhado ofereceram um jantar pré-Ação de Graças, ao qual ambas as famílias compareceram. Antecipando a falta de colaboração do cunhado, o Redditor havia ficado com a irmã alguns dias antes para ajudá-la.
Reunião de família para jantar de Ação de Graças | Foto: Flickr.com/s_mestdagh (CC BY-SA 2.0)
Durante o jantar, ela disse que ela e o noivo estavam tentando constituir família. Naquele momento, o cunhado fez um comentário estranho ao namorado sobre os desafios da paternidade. O que ele disse irritou a mulher, que respondeu: “Como se você soubesse”.
Surpreso, ele perguntou o que ela queria dizer, e ela deu vazão à frustração reprimida por ser o homem que deixou sua irmã grávida de 8 meses cuidar de tudo na família. A Redditor expressou apaixonadamente seus sentimentos por quase dez minutos, deixando seu cunhado visivelmente desconfortável em sua cadeira. Depois disso, ele saiu do local.
Uma mulher abraça outra para confortá-la | Foto: Shutterstock
Naquela mesma noite, a autora original recebeu um telefonema de sua irmã; Ela agradeceu por defendê-la e expressou sua gratidão por seu apoio. Mas no dia seguinte ela recebeu uma mensagem desagradável do cunhado, acusando-a de ser uma pessoa terrível. Segundo ele, sua suposta mentira diante da família irritou sua mãe, que, em resposta, decidiu morar com eles para ajudar a nora.
Um homem descontente sentado à beira do rio | Foto de : Pexels
Ele alegou que o incidente o tornou motivo de chacota em sua família. Ele acreditava firmemente que ela era a culpada pelas consequências. Depois de tudo o que aconteceu, o Redditor não pôde deixar de se perguntar se ela estava errada ao criticar o cunhado por seu comportamento questionável.
Suporte on-line
“Acho que foi o momento perfeito. Ambas as famílias conseguiram ouvir exatamente o que o autor da postagem dizia, então ele não poderia mentir para sua família e fazer com que eles a atacassem! Algumas pessoas merecem ser expostas à explosão, especialmente pela maneira como ele age como se fosse algo tão importante haha.”
Sua mãe fica brava com ele e vai morar com eles para ajudá-la.
E tudo fica claro…! Não é sua culpa.
“Não sei, quero dar o benefício da dúvida à mãe e pensar que ela está se mudando pelo bem da irmã, não para ajudar o filho.
Ou melhor ainda, para garantir que seu filho não relaxe e realmente ajude.”
“Não é sua culpa. Retorne a mensagem com “A verdade dói, né, grandalhão?”
Diga-nos o que você pensa nos comentários do Facebook e compartilhe essa história com seus amigos. Isso poderia iluminar o dia deles e inspirá-los.
My 7-Year-Old Drew a Picture of My Husband with Another Woman and Wrote, ‘I Can’t Wait for You to Be My Mom’
When Amber, a hardworking mom and corporate attorney, discovers a drawing by her 7-year-old daughter, Mia, her world is shaken. The picture shows Mia’s teacher in Amber’s place with a heartbreaking caption. Suspecting betrayal, Amber confronts her husband, Jack, only to uncover something deeper… Mia’s feelings of abandonment amidst Amber’s busy life.
I didn’t think I’d be here… but this has been life lately.
A woman looking out the window | Source: Midjourney
I’m Livia, I’m thirty-four, married to my husband Jack for ten years, and I’m a mom to my bundle of joy, Mia, a seven-year-old little girl. Recently, I’ve been busier than I’ve ever been in my entire life, which is truly saying something because I’m a corporate attorney.
My mom’s health has been declining over the past year, and we’ve been throwing ourselves into her hospital stays, therapy sessions, and medication that costs way more than I care to admit.
To cover everything, I’ve been working insane hours because I’d do anything for my mother.
A woman sitting in a hospital bed | Source: Midjourney
Anything.
Jack has been the best partner and rock I could have ever asked for. He has stepped up at home in ways I never imagined or expected. Jack has taken on the cooking, cleaning, helping Mia with her schoolwork, and managing all the little things I used to handle.
He made it possible for me to keep everything afloat, even when it felt like I was drowning.
A father and daughter duo sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney
But last night, everything changed before I could even catch my breath.
I came home late, exhausted, starving, and ready to collapse. After hurriedly eating a bowl of salmon and rice while Mia took her bath, I put my little girl to bed. As she dozed off, Mia mumbled something about puppets.
“I didn’t know that you could put your hand in a socket and it would be a puppet,” she said.
A green sock puppet | Source: Midjourney
“A sock, my darling,” I said. “Not a socket! Don’t you ever put your hand in a socket, Mia.”
She giggled.
“Okay, Momma,” she said, yawning.
A yawning little girl | Source: Midjourney
I started tidying up her dolls, which were scattered all over the carpet in her room, and then made my way to the coffee table in the living room. Crayons, white paper, and coloring books were scattered all over.
That’s when I found it. A drawing.
At first glance, it seemed innocent enough. A kid’s sketch of a happy family. A man, a woman, and a little girl holding hands. But when I looked closer, my stomach twisted.
A woman gathering crayons | Source: Midjourney
The man was unmistakably Jack. The little girl was clearly Mia. But the woman? Definitely not me.
She had long brown hair and wore a flowing bridal gown. Beneath the drawing, in Mia’s little handwriting, were the words that broke my heart:
I can’t wait for you to be my mom!
It felt like the ground beneath me had given way.
A child’s drawing | Source: Midjourney
I took the picture to Mia’s bed and sat on the edge, trying to wake her up enough to get answers.
“Darling girl, can you tell me about this drawing?” I asked her calmly.
“What drawing, Momma?” she asked, rubbing the sleep from her eyes.
When Mia took a look at the drawing, her face turned red, and she snatched the paper out of my hand, clutching it to her chest.
An upset little girl | Source: Midjourney
“You weren’t supposed to find that! Daddy said to hide it better!” she blurted out.
Hide it better? Jack? Hide what better?
My heart started pounding. What was going on? Was Jack cheating? And what was worse… was Mia already imagining this other woman as her mom?
An upset woman sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney
I barely slept that night. My mind was running miles per hour. I thought about my mother, I thought about the work I still needed to do before heading to the office the next day, and I thought about my marriage…
By the morning, I had gone through a storm of worst-case scenarios. I sat in the kitchen, waiting for Jack to get ready for work. Mia had already left for school.
“What is this?” I demanded, thrusting the drawing into his hands.
An upset woman standing in a kitchen | Source: Midjourney
His eyes widened, and his face turned pale.
“You told her to hide it?” I asked. “You actually told Mia to hide it?”
“Wait, wait,” he stammered, holding up his hands defensively. “It’s not what you think, Amber. Let me explain it all to you.”
A worried man standing in a kitchen | Source: Midjourney
“You have exactly five seconds, Jack. I’ve been going crazy the entire night.”
My husband ran a hand through his hair, clearly distressed.
“Come with me,” he said.
“What? Where are we going? What about work?” I asked.
A man standing in a kitchen with his head bowed down | Source: Midjourney
“We’re going to Mia’s school. I need to show you something,” he said.
I wanted to scream at him, but something in his voice, an urgency that didn’t feel like guilt, made me agree.
The drive to the school was tense and silent, my mind still racing. What would Jack show me at Mia’s school that would change anything? Was there an imaginary friend or imaginary step-in mother waiting for us?
An upset woman sitting in a car | Source: Midjourney
When we arrived at the school, Jack squeezed my knee. As we walked to the reception area, he squeezed my hand and asked to see Mia’s teacher, Clara.
As soon as Clara walked in, I felt like I’d been punched in the gut. She was stunning, and for the life of me, I couldn’t remember why I hadn’t met her before. She had long brown hair, a bright smile, and an effortlessly bubbly demeanor.
She had to be the woman from Mia’s drawing, it was unmistakable.
A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney
She smiled at Jack, and I wanted to scream.
“Clara,” Jack said. “Can you explain to my wife what’s been happening with Mia?”
Clara’s expression shifted to confusion but then softened as she glanced at me.
“Oh, of course,” she said.
A stressed woman | Source: Midjourney
She gestured for us to sit in the little room adjacent to the reception.
“Look, Mia’s been having a tough time lately,” she began. “She’s mentioned feeling like her mom doesn’t have time for her anymore. I’ve tried to reassure her, but she’s… well, look, she’s seven. And she’s been drawing a lot of pictures to process her feelings.”
Clara handed me a stack of drawings, and my heart sank as I flipped through them.
A stack of children’s drawings and coloring books | Source: Midjourney
Most were variations of the same theme. A happy family with Clara in my place. On the back of one of the drawings, there were more words I hadn’t noticed the first time:
Daddy and Clara.
“So, you’ve been spending time with my daughter?” I asked, unable to hide the edge in my voice.
An upset woman | Source: Midjourney
“Yes, of course,” she said. “But only in class, and I’m her teacher, after all. She stays after class sometimes to help me tidy up. She told me she feels like she’s losing her mom because you’re always busy. I’m so sorry if I overstepped. I’d never want to interfere…”
I turned to Jack, my chest tight.
“And you? What did you say to her about this?”
A stressed man | Source: Midjourney
Jack looked miserable.
“I found that picture last week,” he admitted. “I told Mia it wasn’t true, that you love her more than anything. But I didn’t know how to handle it. I didn’t want to make it worse by bringing it up when you were already so stressed out. I told her to put the drawing away because I knew it would hurt you.”
“You should have told me, Jack,” I said softly.
A woman holding her head | Source: Midjourney
I honestly didn’t know what to think.
Jack nodded, guilt in his eyes.
“I know, love,” he said. “I thought I was protecting you, but I see now that I just made it worse.”
An upset man | Source: Midjourney
My anger began to deflate, replaced by a wave of guilt so heavy it nearly knocked me off my seat. This wasn’t about Jack cheating or Clara overstepping. It was about my daughter, her sadness, her confusion, and her way of coping with my absence.
That night, I sat down with Mia at the kitchen table. I had dished us bowls of ice cream with all the toppings, hoping for a bonding moment between us.
Bowls of ice cream | Source: Midjourney
“Sweetheart,” I said softly. “I need to tell you something. I know I haven’t been around as much lately, and I’m so, so sorry. Grandma needs a lot of help right now, but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to be with you. You’re my everything, sweet girl.”
Mia’s eyes filled with tears, and she threw her arms around me.
“I thought maybe you didn’t like me anymore,” she whispered.
A little girl sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney
My heart shattered.
“I love you more than anything,” I said, holding her tightly. “Nothing will ever change that.”
In the weeks that followed, I made several lifestyle changes.
I cut back on work hours and asked my siblings to take on more of our mom’s care. Jack and I started a “Mom and Mia” night every week, just the two of us, doing whatever she wanted.
A little girl decorating cookies | Source: Midjourney
Sometimes it was baking cookies, other times it was a movie night, or building a fort, or sometimes it was just us dressing up and going on a date together.
I also had a heartfelt talk with Clara to thank her for being a wonderful teacher and being there for Mia when I couldn’t be.
She apologized again for any boundaries she might have crossed, but I reassured her that Mia’s drawings weren’t her fault.
A blanket fort in a living room | Source: Midjourney
“I just feel bad, Amber,” she said as she cleaned up paintbrushes.
“I know, but you really shouldn’t, Clara,” I said. “You became a safe space for Mia, and you reminded her of how loved and cared for she is. That’s something I’ll always appreciate.”
Life isn’t perfect, but it’s a lot better. I’m learning to ask for help and to show Mia that she comes first. And now, every time she picks up her crayons, I make sure I’m sitting right next to her.
A smiling mother and daughter duo | Source: Midjourney
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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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