Grandma just wanted a quiet dinner to celebrate her birthday, but our family insisted on going all out. But they didn’t just hijack her birthday, they abandoned her at the table when the bill arrived! Nobody messes with my Grandma, not even family!
My grandma always has fresh-baked cookies ready, never forgets a birthday, and somehow makes every family gathering feel like home. If anyone deserved the perfect birthday dinner, it was her.
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So when she mentioned she’d love to have “just a small dinner out this year,” I was all in.
She’s 85 this year, and it’s a big deal. A quiet evening with good food and her favorite people? Done. But of course, the rest of the family had other plans.
“Grandma deserves something spectacular,” Aunt Linda had announced on our family group chat. “Not some boring little dinner.”
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The rest of the family insisted on taking Grandma to the nicest restaurant in town, which might’ve seemed like a nice gesture if they hadn’t made it all about themselves.
Our weekly Sunday was a circus. I stepped outside to escape for a while, and that’s when I overheard my cousin Katie scheming with her brother, Mark.
“Seriously, Jade won’t say no,” Katie whispered. “She works at a bank! She’s loaded. Lives alone. No kids. What else is she spending money on?”
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Mark snorted. “Exactly. We just gotta keep it chill until the bill comes. Then we’ll play dumb, and she’ll pick it up.”
I froze in place. Oh, so that was the plan. Blow up Grandma’s birthday dinner into a huge event and let me foot the bill while they sat there acting clueless.
“What about Grandma?” Mark asked. “Should we tell her to bring her wallet too? You know, as backup?”
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Katie laughed. “Please. She’ll insist on paying anyway. She always does. But cousin dearest will jump in to save the day because she’s such a hero.”
I felt my face flush hot with anger. Using Grandma like that? On her birthday?
I would’ve happily paid to give Grandma the night of her dreams. But getting played like some open wallet? Absolutely not.
Fine. Let’s see how that plays out, I thought as I retreated inside.
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I picked Grandma up on the night, and we drove to the nicest steakhouse in town. Grandma clutched her little purse and smiled like it was the best day of her year.
Meanwhile, the rest of them acted like we were at a celebrity afterparty. Katie took nonstop photos “for the aesthetic,” posing with every drink and appetizer.
Mark sampled every overpriced whiskey on the menu, loudly proclaiming himself a “connoisseur” to our server Miguel, who deserved a medal for his patience.
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Aunt Linda kept loudly recommending the most premium options to anyone who’d listen. Through it all, Grandma beamed.
“This is lovely,” she whispered to me. “I never expected all this fuss.”
“I’m glad you’re having a good time, Grandma.” I smiled and gave her hand a brief squeeze. I hoped the joy she felt now might somehow make up for the betrayal I knew was coming.
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Meanwhile, I watched as my family ordered wine bottles, not glasses, the most expensive cuts of meat, and every side dish on the menu.
I watched the bill climbing with each order, mentally calculating their scheme. I ordered modestly, a simple filet and a glass of house wine. Grandma did the same.
“Are you sure that’s all you want?” Uncle Joe pressed. “It’s a special occasion! Live a little!”
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I smiled tightly. “This is perfect for me.”
Then the check came.
Grandma had just gone to the restroom, and right on cue, the act began.
“Ohhhh wow,” Aunt Linda said, staring at the bill like it was written in a foreign language. “Look at that total… I’d help, but you know, we’re still paying off that time-share from two summers ago.”
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Katie shook her head, suddenly fascinated by her manicure. “I spent all my savings on concert tickets. You know how important live music is for my mental health.”
Mark sighed dramatically, like he was auditioning for a soap opera. “My dog has been having stomach issues and the vet bills have been insane. I’m practically broke.”
Uncle Joe stretched his arms out and grinned, his gold watch catching the light as he did so.
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“We all just figured you’d cover this one, Jade. You’re almost done paying off your house, right? And you’ve got the best job out of all of us. You know how to make things happen. We’ll support you… emotionally.”
And then Aunt Linda had the audacity to throw in a guilt trip.
“And come on… it’s for Grandma. It’s her big day. We might not have many more of these left, you know.”
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I looked around the table. All that confidence. All those assumptions. The total came to over $800, and their share was easily $650 of that.
My blood boiled, but Grandma returned from the restroom then. I wasn’t going to ruin her dinner by fighting over the bill in front of her.
I said, “Let me take care of something real quick and we’ll get back to this discussion.”
And I walked off, making a beeline for the manager’s office.
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I exited about 15 minutes later and returned to the table.
Grandma was sitting there all alone, clutching her purse and looking around the room with wide, scared eyes. The rest of my family was nowhere to be seen.
I’d known they planned to avoid paying the bill, but to stoop so low as to abandon Grandma on her birthday! That was just cruel.
“Grandma, are you okay?” I asked as I slipped back into my seat.
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“There you are!” Grandma said, relief washing over her face as I joined her. “Everyone just got up and left. They said something about getting the car ready, but it’s been ten minutes.”
She leaned over and spoke in an earnest whisper. “Are we okay, Jade? Is everything paid for? I can cover some if I need to, sweetheart… I don’t have much with me, but I’ve been saving up…”
I wrapped my arm around her shoulders, fury rising in my chest at how they’d left her confused and worried on her special night.
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“Don’t you worry, Grandma. Everything’s under control.”
We took our time finishing up while the staff handled the rest. Miguel brought over a complimentary dessert for Grandma, a beautiful chocolate cake with a single candle. The entire waitstaff sang for her.
Grandma still looked a little worried, but I promised her it was all taken care of.
“But what about the others?” she asked as I drove her home, the stars twinkling above us.
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“They had somewhere else to be, I guess,” I said, keeping my tone light. “It’s a pity, but I must admit I’m glad I got to have you all to myself for the best part of the evening, Grandma. You still had a good birthday dinner, right?”
She nodded, but I could tell she was hurt. That made me even angrier.
By the time the angry phone calls started the next morning, I was more than ready to gloat over my selfish, thoughtless family for thinking they could get away with hurting Grandma.
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The first call I answered was from Aunt Linda. She shrieked that the restaurant was “harassing” them over the bill.
“They’ve called three times! How dare they! This is your fault somehow, isn’t it?”
Katie left me a three-minute voice memo accusing me of “ruining the vibe” of Grandma’s birthday. “We were just going to get the car! We were coming right back! You’re so dramatic!”
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Mark texted that I was a traitor for snitching on family. His follow-up texts grew increasingly panicked as the day went on.
Uncle Joe wanted to know if this was some kind of joke because now the restaurant was threatening legal action. “Fix this! Now!”
Oh, right. I forgot to mention.
Turns out the manager of that steakhouse just happened to be my old college buddy Eric.
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While they were off making their dramatic exit through the kitchen door (caught clearly on security cameras), I’d made sure Eric had all their contact info. Full names, phone numbers, addresses.
He only charged me for my and Grandma’s share of the meal. The rest? Oh yeah. He’s collecting directly from them — with interest if they keep dodging him.
Grandma called later to thank me again for the night out.
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“I just wish your cousins hadn’t disappeared like that,” she said. “It was such a nice dinner until… well…”
I just smiled, picturing Katie’s face when she received the formal demand for payment.
“Don’t give it another thought, Grandma. They won’t be pulling anything like that again.”
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And next year? Me and Grandma are celebrating her birthday somewhere very nice and quiet. Just the two of us.
And I’m leaving my phone on silent.
She Was a 1980s Bombshell, But Heather Thomas Faced Demons—Her Transformation at 66 Is Unbelievable!
Heather Thomas, known for her role alongside Lee Majors in *The Fall Guy*, turned 66 on September 8. She was on track for a very successful Hollywood career.
However, after the show’s finale, her mother appeared on set, and Thomas rushed to the hospital, thinking her father had an emergency. But when she arrived at the Santa Monica hospital, her family and friends told her that her father, Leon, was fine—it was her they were worried about.
This marked the start of a new chapter in the 28-year-old’s life, which would change both her personal life and career.
Read on to find out what happened to the famous 1980s pinup girl!
Heather Thomas had talent and natural beauty that compared to stars like Farrah Fawcett and Heather Locklear. She was born to be in the spotlight.
At just 14, she hosted an NBC show called *Talking with a Giant*, where she and other teens interviewed celebrities.
Wanting more, Thomas studied film and theater at UCLA, aiming to be an actor, director, and writer. Before she graduated, she appeared in a short-lived comedy series called *Co-Ed Fever* in 1979.
In 1980, Thomas, who was born in Connecticut, landed her first major role in *The Fall Guy*. She played Jody Banks, a stuntwoman and bounty hunter, alongside Lee Majors, who was famous for his role in *The Six Million Dollar Man*.
Her role made her popular, especially among male viewers, who saw her as a sex symbol. Thomas had mixed feelings about this label.
“There’s a kind of condescension that comes with it,” she told *People*. “You fit the stereotype of the blonde bimbo. But at the time, I was just having fun.”
Unfortunately, Thomas’s fun also involved drugs, a habit that began before her role as Jody Banks.
She revealed that her drug use started in sixth grade to help keep her grades up. “I was taking acid and getting straight A’s. I thought it was mind-expanding,” Thomas said.
As Heather Thomas grew older, the drugs she used also changed.
While studying at UCLA, Thomas started using cocaine. By 1981, just one year into her role on *The Fall Guy*, her drug problems got worse.
Feeling pressure to live up to her image as a sex symbol, the 5-foot-7 actress became obsessed with her weight. She began taking Lasix, a diuretic that can cause extreme tiredness.
To fight the tiredness, she used more cocaine to stay energized.
“At first, I loved the drug. I felt like I was getting a lot out of it. It kept me awake all night, and I could still work the next day,” she said, but claimed she never used it on set. “Cocaine isn’t accepted on sets. It’s no longer cool. It’s just a personal nightmare.”
However, a source close to Thomas told *People* that her drug use was hurting her career. “People knew Heather had a problem,” the source said.
Thomas’s weight dropped from 125 to 105 pounds, and she began falling asleep between scenes. She admitted, “Sometimes, I was in a mini coma.”
One day, she passed out in front of her co-star, Lee Majors. He contacted her manager, who then called her mother.
After the final episode of *The Fall Guy* was filmed, Thomas’s mother, Gladdy Ryder, showed up on set and told her that her father was in the hospital.
Thomas rushed to St. John’s Hospital, but when she arrived, she was met by her family and friends. They were there to admit her into a three-week drug rehabilitation program.
“That day was a big relief for me,” Thomas said. When she checked into detox, she had pneumonia, scarred lungs, and inflamed kidneys. “I’d been on a roller coaster, and I wanted to get off. If my family hadn’t stepped in, I probably would have kept going until I lost my job or died.”
She also said, “The doctors told me I should have been dead three years ago.”
Determined to recover, Thomas surrounded herself with people who supported her goal of staying drug-free. That’s when she met Allan Rosenthal, co-founder of Cocaine Anonymous, and married him when she was 28. They divorced in September 1986.
That same month, Thomas was hit by a car while crossing the street, leaving her with serious injuries to both legs.
After detox, divorce, and surgery to repair major damage in one of her legs, Heather Thomas returned to acting with smaller roles in TV series. She also appeared in movies like *Cyclone* in 1987 and the 1990 Canadian film *Red Blooded American Girl* with Christopher Plummer.
With her struggles behind her, Thomas started fresh in the 1990s. While working to revive her career, she married entertainment lawyer Skip Brittenham in 1992. She became a stepmother to his two daughters, Kristina and Shauna, and gave birth to her only biological child, daughter India Rose, in June 2000.
Talking about her decision to step away from acting, Thomas said, “I had about 45 restraining orders, and I was on everything from a toilet seat cover to an ashtray. Then I fell in love, had two little girls, and decided to give up acting to write for a while.”
In 2017, Thomas made a brief comeback in the movie *Girltrash: All Night Long*, one of her 26 acting credits.
However, Thomas has focused mostly on writing. She said it wasn’t a lack of roles that drove her away from acting but the constant threat of stalkers invading her privacy. “One guy climbed over the fence with a knife. I had two little girls who needed raising, so that was that. Now, I think I’m old enough that people won’t bother me as much.”
Today, Thomas is also involved in activism. She has served on the boards of the Rape Foundation and the Amazon Conservation Team.
Identifying as a feminist, which some find surprising for a former sex symbol, Thomas explained how she embraced both roles.
“When I was younger, I did what people told me. But as I got older, I didn’t compromise myself. I wanted power and freedom, and my career gave me that. I don’t think being a feminist means you should be ashamed of your body,” she said.
It’s unfortunate that Heather Thomas wasn’t able to fully revive her acting career, but we’re glad she got the help she needed and is now on a lifelong journey of recovery.
The 1980s had so many great shows, and we loved watching her as Jody Banks in *The Fall Guy* alongside Lee Majors, the Six Million Dollar Man!
We’d love to hear your thoughts about Heather Thomas and her journey to recovery!
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