We often hear stories in which mothers-in-law are depicted as evil. Sadly, they sometimes really are and the reason behind it might be that they feel like their daughters-in-law ‘steal’ their sons from them.
A woman named Janisse shared the story of how her MIL plotted against her in order to turn her husband against her.
It was Janisse’s husband’s birthday and she was looking forward to the party she was preparing for him. She planned to invite all of Carl’s friends and family and wanted everything to go according to plan.
But just as she was getting ready to start preparing the food, Carl’s mother, Sally, called her and told her she wanted to help her with the preparations.
As Janisse always got along with her husband’s family, or at least she thought so, she told her MIL that she was more than welcome to lend her a helping hand.
When Sally arrived, she did help with the food, but in the afternoon, she started acting weird. As she was digging around the fridge and sighed every few minutes, she accused Janisse of not purchasing certain ingredient she needed for some special cookies.
“I can’t find any ingredients for the cookies I wanted to make. I told you that I would make the cookies I’ve made every year for Carl,” Sally said.
“We have so many desserts and the cake as well. So, I think it’s okay. We can do it another day for him,” Janisse told her.
“Janisse,” Sally sighed. “It’s really important to me, okay? It’s a tradition I started when Carl was only three years old. Can you go out and get the ingredients?”
As there was not much time left until the guests were about to arrive, Janisse decided to go to the store, which wasn’t that far, and grab the ingredients her MIL needed.
On her way home, Janisse felt like a superhero because she knew the party would be a great one, but her joy was short lived.
The moment Janisse opened the car’s door, Carl burst out of the house like she’d committed a crime and he wanted to catch her in the act. He accused her of leaving his mother all alone to prepare everything for the party. When she explained that wasn’t the case and it wasn’t as it looked like, he told her she wasn’t telling the truth.
Janisse tried to tell him that she was the one who prepared most of the food and that she only took a short trip to the store to grab the ingredients for the traditional cookies his mom made for him, but he said there were no such cookies and that she was childish to believe that ‘cookie tradition.’
Still unaware what was going on, Janisse went to her room. She had a quick shower and shortly after the guests started to arrive.
Carl avoided Janisse all evening, and when the time came for the cake to be served it was Sally who brought it to the table and started singing “Happy Birthday.”
Sally acted as though she was host and it looked like she was the one who was throwing the party for her son, not Janisse.
When the guests left and Janisse and Carl were alone, she tried to explain what really happened and that his mom plotted against her, but he didn’t want to listen because he was certain his mom would never do such a thing.
The following morning, Carl woke Janisse up and apologized for not trusting her. Janisse was puzzled and asked him what made him change his mind about the entire situation. He then explained that his mother was bragging to someone about her master plan, but she accidentally sent the message to Carl.
Carl then went to the other room, in which his mom spent the night, and tried to talk to her in order to learn why she would do such a horrible thing. It turned out that contrary to what Janisse believed, her MIL didn’t really like her because of her political and religious beliefs. Janisse was shocked because her MIL never mentioned anything about it before.
However, no matter what Sally did, Carl and Janisse decided to forgive her eventually.
“We’re going to Bali to celebrate your birthday next year,” I told him. “No friends, no family, and absolutely no drama!” Janisse told her husband.
Women spends 5 hours a day in her kitchen – says it’s her job to make husband’s life easier
Over the past century, millions of women have entered the labor. In the modern society, rigid gender norms are out of date. Husbands and wives divide up responsibilities significantly more equally.
Of course, some women, especially those from his generation, are adamant about upholding gender stereotypes and will stop at nothing to do so.
twenty-five Estee Williams and 23-year-old Connor are married. The way Estee portrayed a “tradwife” infuriated some on the internet. She would prefer to be a traditional wife, sometimes referred to as a housewife, and handle all domestic responsibilities. She happily fulfills her gender role as a wife.
When Estee first met her future husband in 2020, she was a student studying meteorology. The Virginia couple immediately fell in love with one other after realizing they had a lot in common. Her spouse is a full-time electrician. Estee also expressed how much she detests it when he comes home and goes to work. She rarely relies on his assistance.
She helps him with more than just cleaning and cooking. That being said, she lets him organize her schedule, so she doesn’t go to the gym alone. and never buys anything without his permission, not even groceries. She also does her makeup and hair in an attempt to get ready for his return.
The couple does not currently have children, but they expect that everything will remain the same because Estee will take care of the family at home when they do. They also want to have greater control over what their children are “consuming academically” by homeschooling them.
Estee was raised in a broken home and saw her mother suffer after her divorce. The 25-year-old doesn’t believe that women can have it all. And despite the fact that some social media users are quick to call her “lazy” for not contributing financially, she enjoys not having to worry about her job or paying her bills.
Estee is free to choose as an adult what she wants to achieve in life. What are your thoughts on her choices? Leave a comment below to let us know.
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