
I Became a Burden to My Father after I Lost the Ability to Walk – Story of the Day
I was paralyzed and trapped in a wheelchair in an accident, and my father refused to be burdened with me. But then he gets taught an important lesson.
I was 19 when I was run over by a car on my way to work. For me, it was the end of the world: a screech of tires, darkness, and pain. And when I woke up, I heard the voices say I’d never walk again.
I kept asking for my father, but he only showed up three days later, looking the worse for the wear and I knew he’d been on a bender while I’d lain there fighting for my life.

She was injured in a horrible accident | Source: Shutterstock.com
My mother died when I was 12, a victim of breast cancer. I remember her as a sweet, weary woman, always cringing from my father’s cruel words, working to keep food on the table while he drank his paycheck away.
As soon as I turned 14, he ordered me to find a part-time job to help with the bills, and when I was 16, I dropped out of school and started working full time to support myself — and him.
But when my father finally arrived at the hospital to visit me, there was neither compassion nor gratitude in his eyes. The doctor explained that although my spine was not severed there had been severe bruising and compression.
I might — by a long shot — recover my ability to walk, but most likely, I would be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life. And that was when my father walked away. He said to the doctor, “She’s over 18, isn’t she? She’s an adult, right? So she’s not my responsibility anymore. You take her.”

My father was an alcoholic | Source: Unsplash
I remember my doctor’s horrified expression and my father’s gaze sweeping over my limp legs. “Useless! Useless like your mother!”
Those were the last words I’d hear from him for the next six years. A little while later I was transferred to a recovery center where I was lucky enough to be assigned to a therapist named Carol Hanson.
Family is built on love, not a biological bond, or shared DNA.
She was an older, motherly woman who immediately took me under her wing. Carol was as loving as she was demanding, and she was very demanding. Over the next year, she pushed me towards a recovery I’d never dreamed possible.
The day I stood on my own two feet and took my first step, I cried like a baby, and so did Carol. It was only the beginning, and the next few months I worked even harder, but finally was pronounced healthy.

I woke to discover I was paralyzed | Source: Unsplash
It was a bittersweet moment for me. I was healed from my injury and I was walking again, but I was terrified. I had nowhere to go, no family. I was all alone in the world.
Carol walked in and found me crying. She sat beside me on the bed and put her arms around me. “Jenny,” she said to me, “it’s all right to be scared. You’re starting your life again.”
“I have no one, and nowhere to go,” I whispered, remembering other patients leaving surrounded by loving family, “I’m alone.”
“No you’re not,” Carol said firmly, “I’ve been meaning to talk to you about that. Would you like to move in with me? Just until you get your life together again…”

I was stuck in a wheelchair | Source: Unsplash
So I did, and it was lovely. Carol and I got on beautifully, and she gave me my own room, a pretty room, the prettiest I’d ever seen. “It was my daughter’s,” Carol explained with tears in her eyes. “I lost her like you lost your mother.”
I started googling for jobs the next day on Carol’s computer, but when I came down to breakfast there were some informative flyers on the table from the local high school announcing night classes for adults wanting to complete their secondary education.
“I think,” said Carol firmly, “that you need to go back to school so you can go back to college.”
My mouth dropped open. “College? I can’t afford college!” I gasped. “Carol, I don’t have a cent to my name and no way to support myself if I don’t get a job, and quickly.”

The physiotherapist helped me heal | Source: Pexels
Carol shook her head: “No, Jenny, you can’t afford NOT to go to college. Listen, I will lend you the money, and when you graduate, you pay me back — just like a student loan with a bank.”
Anyway, she talked me into it, and I quickly completed the high school certification I needed and applied to the local college. I’ll admit Carol’s example inspired me to become a nurse, and four years later, I graduated summa cum laude.
I started working at a local hospital and ended up specializing in neo-natal care. One day, a TV crew came in to do a news story on a set of identical triplets and ended up interviewing me.
For a while, I was a bit of a celebrity, but the attention brought me an unwanted visitor. The doorbell rang and when I opened it, I was stunned to see my father standing there.

I became a nurse | Source: Pixabay
He looked terrible, like a bum, and he reeked of alcohol and sweat. “Jenny, my sweet baby girl!” he cried, reaching out his hands. “I’ve finally found you again.”
“Found me again?” I asked sharply, “You abandoned me in the hospital because I was useless, remember, like my mother?”
He squeezed out a few tears. “Oh my baby,” he sobbed. “Forgive me, I was frightened and in shock… You won’t turn your dad away now, would you? I haven’t been well…”
“You look fine to me,” I told him coldly, but my trained eye had already noted the yellow tinge to his skin and eyes. He had some kind of liver disorder, probably due to his drinking.

An unexpected visitor | Source: Pixabay
He shuffled forward. “I’m sick, Jenny, daddy really needs you…And…” he licked his lips thirstily. “And I’m broke, baby, no money for food…You’re not going to let your daddy go hungry, are you?”
“Like you left me to my fate? Helpless in a wheelchair? Guess what ‘DADDY,’ I am. Get out.” I slammed the door in his face and walked back into the lounge.
Carol looked up at me and smiled. “Who was that, Jenny?”
“Oh, just some man selling something!” I went to the sofa, sat down beside Carol, and hugged her fiercely. Carol hugged me back.

Carol adopted me | Source: Pexels
“Jenny,” she said, “there’s something I’ve been meaning to talk to you about. Would you allow me to adopt you? Become your mother? Because in my heart you already are my daughter.”
I started crying and I just couldn’t stop. I had been cursed with a terrible childhood, and now as an adult, I had been lucky enough to find a loving home and a parent who cherished me.
What can we learn from this story?
1. Family is built on love, not a biological bond, or shared DNA.
2. What you give is what you get, as Jenny’s father discovered.
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Nick Nolte: A Legendary Actor Celebrating 82 Years

On February 8, 2023, Nick Nolte, the remarkable actor renowned for his outstanding talent, celebrated his 82nd birthday. Nolte, a native of Omaha, Nebraska, has long captivated audiences with his amazing stage and film performances. He still exudes charm and attractiveness despite the passage of time.

With his debut performance as “Tom/Tommy Jordache” in the TV miniseries Rich Man, Poor Man (1976), Nolte’s career took off. Not only did his attractiveness catapult him to stardom in Hollywood, but so did his remarkable capacity for character development. He is without a doubt one of the most talented actors we have ever seen.
Nolte has won multiple honors during his illustrious career, including the 1991 Golden Globe for Best Actor in a Motion Picture Drama. In addition, he has been nominated for Academy Awards for his outstanding work in movies including Warriors, Affliction, and The Prince of Tides.

In the 1970s, People magazine named Nolte the Sexiest Man Alive and praised him as the embodiment of the American hero. Nolte did a fantastic job portraying the soul of a young man who weighed about 150 pounds in his part as Tommy Jordache.
In 1992, Nolte achieved a significant career turning point when he costarred with Eddie Murphy in the ground-breaking action-comedy 48 Hours. In addition to showcasing their amazing chemistry, the movie tackled significant societal concerns and featured the first-ever on-screen criticism between black and white characters. Nolte understood the film’s relevance in the aftermath of the Civil Rights Movement.
The personal life of Nick Nolte has seen its share of highs and lows. He is currently wed to Clytie Lane and has experienced three divorces. As evidenced by his widely shared mug photo from 2002, Nolte’s crazy behavior has periodically overshadowed his accomplishments throughout the years. He has experienced challenges and multiple arrests.
Nonetheless, Nolte’s path to recovery gave him courage and comfort. After getting expert assistance, he was able to maintain his sobriety for a long time. Nolte freely acknowledges that he has used alcohol as a coping method for a number of issues, including lost relationships, unfulfilled projects, and the isolation and loneliness that come with being a famous person.
Brawley Nolte and Sophia Lane Nolte, Nolte’s two daughters who have both pursued acting careers, are reasons for him to be proud father. In the movie Honey in the Head, Sophia played her father’s granddaughter and had the chance to collaborate with him. When talking about his kids, Nolte emphasizes his special relationship with Sophia and his son’s desire to become a doctor.
Nick Nolte is 82 years old, and his appearance has definitely aged. Nevertheless, his alluring charisma and indisputable good looks continue to be apparent. Nolte accepts and gracefully embraces his advanced age, seeing it as just another exciting journey. He thinks it’s important to persevere through difficult times and to treasure the chance to keep going forward and doing new things.

We cordially encourage you to share this article on Facebook with your friends and family if you are a fan of Nick Nolte and his amazing talent. Let’s honor the actor’s enduring spirit and be grateful for his exceptional contributions to the entertainment industry.
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