My Boyfriend Demanded That I Give Him My Card to Pay Our Restaurant Bill
When Lisa earns her much-deserved promotion, she wants to go out and celebrate with her boyfriend, Troy. At the restaurant, Lisa learns that Troy just wants to put on a façade and be the ‘man’—disrespecting her and her hard-earned role. But when he gives his number to a waitress, things take a turn, causing Lisa to embarrass Troy and walk out of their relationship.
It was meant to be a night of pure celebration. After six months at my new job, I had finally earned a significant promotion and was eager to share the joy with Troy, my boyfriend.
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He suggested the new upscale restaurant in town, famous for its ambiance and gourmet menu.
“Let’s just get dressed and go out, Lisa,” he said. “We don’t do this very often, so let’s make the most of it.”
I had to agree; we rarely did this—we rarely decided to go out and indulge in anything.
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“Fine,” I agreed. “A night out is exactly what we need.”
And I believed that we needed it. Mainly because, as much as I wanted to believe that Troy and I were supposed to last forever, I had begun to see some cracks in our relationship. Something just felt different.
I was happy in my job, but Troy wasn’t happy in his.
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“I do so much, but nobody bothers to recognize me,” he said grimly one evening when he came over for salsa night.
Troy sat on the couch and dug his chips into the salsa and guacamole, complaining about work the entire evening.
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It was because of his moods regarding work that I didn’t tell him anything good about my job.
“Maybe you just need to give it more time,” I said, handing him a frozen margarita. “You just started there a few months ago.”
“Lisa, please,” he said. “You wouldn’t understand. Let me be.”
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But when I had gotten news of this new promotion, there was no way that I was going to keep it to myself. I wanted to celebrate and be celebrated, and I hoped that Troy would want to do just that.
To my surprise, he seemed really excited about it, and he told me that he was proud of me.
“Really, babe,” he said when he came over to my apartment to pick me up. “This is a big deal, and I’m proud of you.”
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The evening started beautifully. Troy showed up with a bouquet of flowers, and he sat down and waited while I got ready. Usually, he wasn’t pleased if I was still getting ready when he arrived, but this evening was different.
“Come on,” I said. “I’m ready!”
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Troy put his phone away and stood up, leading the way out of my apartment to where his car was waiting for us.
We drove in silence, but for once, the silence wasn’t tense—it was peaceful, and I felt that maybe Troy was changing. That he was becoming someone who wanted to be here and be present with me.
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The soft lighting and the stunning view of the city skyline from our table set a romantic backdrop for our evening. We toasted to my success, with Troy raising his glass of champagne high.
“To the most amazing woman I know,” Troy cheered, clinking his glass against mine. “And to many more successes to come.”
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“To us and to the future!” I echoed, suddenly caught up in the moment.
We went through the menu and ordered our meals while Troy spoke about the shared dreams that we had—from the Bali holiday that we had been speaking about for a long time, to wanting to move in together soon.
“I just think it’s time,” Troy said. “And now that you have your promotion, it will be much easier for us.”
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Everything went along well, until the waitress brought our food over. Troy kept glancing at her, hoping to catch her eye—he winked at her twice.
I didn’t want to make a scene about it—Troy did this whenever he had something to drink. He behaved as though being a flirt was second nature.
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But then, as we neared the end of our meal, I noticed a change in Troy. His usual easy smile tightened when the check was brought to our table. He smiled at the waitress as she stepped aside.
“You should let me pay with your card,” he said, a strain of insistence in his voice.
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I was surprised. On the one hand, I didn’t mind paying for the dinner because it was my promotion and I was making a lot more money than I had before. But at the same time, I had also hoped that Troy would want to spoil me for the night.
“Why can’t you use your own card?” I asked, surprised by the frown on his face.
Troy’s irritation was barely concealed.
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“Clearly because you’re the one who got promoted, and I don’t have enough money for these fancy dinners, Lisa! You know that, and yet you act like you don’t.”
I was confused by his logic.
“I’ll just pay with my card,” I said, putting my handbag on the table. “It’s not a big deal.”
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My boyfriend’s face hardened as he took a sip of his whiskey—he had switched from champagne halfway through the meal.
“It’s embarrassing, Lisa,” he said. “It’s like you’re actually trying to humiliate me by not letting me be the man who pays.”
I didn’t know how to react to Troy’s words. It didn’t make sense to me. And I couldn’t understand what the waitress had to do with who was paying for our meal.
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I would have retaliated and stood up for myself, but I could feel my energy being drained by Troy.
I felt cornered. And because I wanted to avoid making a scene, I reluctantly handed over my card.
Troy smirked and picked up my card, signaling for the waitress with an exaggerated flourish, presenting my card as if he were performing a grand gesture.
“I’ll be right back with the card machine,” the waitress said.
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Feeling uneasy, I excused myself to the restroom. I just needed a moment to be myself. Troy did this all the time. But I thought that the evening was going well and that he was changing.
Of course, I was wrong.
Before thinking it through, I pulled my phone out and logged onto my banking app. With a few swipes and clicks, I had blocked my card.
Let’s see him pay now, I thought to myself.
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On my way back, I paused near the bar, my attention caught by Troy’s laughter from across the room.
He was flirting openly with the waitress, scribbling something onto a napkin—presumably his phone number.
He handed it to her with a wink. I was stunned. I was hurt. A rush of indignation surged through me.
I returned to the table as the waitress spoke.
“I’m sorry, but there seems to be a problem,” she said. “Your card was declined.”
Troy’s confident façade crumbled as he stammered, turning away.
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“What?” he asked. “Surely that can’t be right.”
Feigning concern, I suggested that Troy call the bank.
He sat back in his chair and pulled out his phone, dialing the bank and putting the call on speaker.
The representative asked for the card number, which Troy read off my card, followed by a request for the account password.
Finally, Troy hesitated. He was at a loss.
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“Okay, Sir,” the person said through the phone. “If you can verify the last three transactions, it would help.”
The waitress hopped from one foot to the other.
“I can answer that,” I said. “A lavender-scented candle, some skincare products, and a new book. And Sir, the name on the card is Lisa Simmons.”
The waitress’s expression cleared with understanding, and Troy was left floundering for a response.
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I then pulled out another card and paid the bill myself.
“Lucky I have two cards,” I told Troy and the waitress. “But babe, since you enjoyed the service, I think you can get the tip.”
Troy, red-faced, scrambled through his wallet, pulling out only expired coupons and a few small bills.
I stood up, waiting for Troy to say something—anything, but he sat there tight-lipped.
“Hey, I didn’t take his number,” the waitress said, a smirk playing on her lips. “I just threw the napkin away.”
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“I’ll find my own way home,” I told Troy as I walked out into the night.
As I walked outside, I didn’t know if I had made a mistake. But at the end of the day, no relationship should make a person second guess themselves or make them feel like celebrating themselves is wrong.
Which is something that Troy did all the time.
I think I’m finally done with him.
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What would you do?
I Saw My Child-Free Ex-husband Buying a Cart Full of Toys – When I Found Out Who They Were For, I Broke Down in Tears
I sat in my car for a moment, letting the memories wash over me. My name is Giselle, and my life has taken turns that I never saw coming.
Tanner and I met in college, and our connection was immediate and undeniable.
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We got married young, filled with dreams of a future that seemed to stretch endlessly before us. But life has a way of twisting those dreams, and ours was shattered over a fundamental disagreement: children.
I had always wanted to be a mom. Tanner, on the contrary, was adamant about not having kids. Our arguments became more frequent, and our love strained under the weight of unmet expectations.
One night, it all came to a head. “Tanner, I can’t keep pretending this doesn’t matter to me,” I said, tears streaming down my face. “I want children. I need to be a mother.”
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Tanner’s face was a mask of frustration and pain. “Giselle, I told you from the beginning that I didn’t want kids. I can’t change who I am.”
“But we’ve built a life together,” I pleaded. “We can find a way to make it work.”
He shook his head, his voice breaking. “It’s not just about finding a way. It’s about fundamentally wanting different things. I don’t want to bring a child into this world when I know I can’t give them the love and attention they deserve.”
The silence that followed was deafening. We both knew what had to happen.
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Eventually, we divorced. The pain was excruciating, but I believed it was the only way for both of us to find the happiness we deserved.
Several years went by. I rebuilt my life, found a good job, and surrounded myself with friends who became like family. But there was always an ache in my heart, a reminder of the life I once imagined.
Tanner and I kept in touch sporadically, mostly through brief text messages. We lived in the same town, but our paths rarely crossed, until a few days ago.
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I was at the local store, mindlessly wandering the aisles, when I saw him. Tanner was standing at the checkout, his cart overflowing with kids’ toys.
My heart stopped. I felt a rush of emotions: confusion, anger, and a deep, aching sadness. Why would he be buying toys? The man who didn’t want children was now a father? It felt like a cruel twist of fate.
Unable to quell my curiosity, I followed him. He loaded the toys into his car, and I trailed behind, feeling like a detective in one of those crime dramas.
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Instead of heading to a family home, he drove to a storage unit. I watched as he unloaded the toys, spending a long time inside. My mind raced with possibilities. Was he hiding a family? Keeping a secret from everyone?
When he finally left, I continued to follow him, my heart pounding in my chest. Tanner drove to the house we used to live in, the one we filled with dreams of a future together. There were no signs of a new partner or children.
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It looked exactly as I remembered, almost frozen in time. I felt a wave of exhaustion and embarrassment, but I couldn’t turn back now.
I took a deep breath and got out of the car, walking up to the door. My hand shook as I knocked. Tanner opened the door, his expression shifting from surprise to confusion.
“Giselle? What are you doing here?”
I hesitated, the words tumbling out in a rush. “I saw you at the store with all those toys. I thought… I thought you had a new family.”
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Tanner sighed, stepping aside to let me in. “It’s not what you think. Let me explain.”
The house was eerily familiar, every corner filled with memories. We sat down in the living room, the silence heavy between us. Finally, Tanner spoke.
“I know this must be confusing for you, Giselle. But it’s not what it looks like.” He took a deep breath, his eyes filled with sincerity. “I’ll tell you everything.”
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I sat in stunned silence as Tanner began his story, and his voice was soft but full of emotion.
“Every Christmas, I dress up in a Santa outfit and go around to unfortunate neighborhoods, giving out presents to poor kids,” he said, his eyes misty with memories.
“Why?” I asked, still grappling with the shock of what he was telling me.
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He took a deep breath, his gaze distant as if he were looking back through the years.
“When I was a child, my family was really poor. One Christmas, a stranger dressed as Santa showed up at our door with gifts. It was the highlight of my childhood. That moment, that kindness… it stuck with me. Ever since then, I’ve made it my mission to do the same for others.”
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I was speechless, the weight of my misconceptions pressing down on me. All this time, I had misunderstood his intentions and motives. He wasn’t buying toys for a new family; he was giving back to the community in the most selfless way possible.
“When I got my first job,” Tanner continued, “I decided that I would set aside part of my salary every month to buy toys and presents. I wanted to be ready for December, to make sure that no child in my old neighborhood had to feel the way I did back then.”
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I could see the passion and dedication in his eyes, the way they sparkled when he talked about those kids. It was a side of him I had never seen before, and it made me realize how much I had misunderstood him.
“I just… I don’t know what to say,” I stammered, my emotions a tangled mess of admiration, regret, and a deep, aching respect. “Why didn’t you tell me?”
Tanner looked down, his voice barely above a whisper. “I didn’t want to make things more complicated than they already were. And honestly, I wasn’t sure you’d understand.”
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His words stung, but I knew there was some truth in them. Our breakup had been messy, and I had been so focused on my own pain that I hadn’t considered his perspective.
“I’m so sorry,” I said, tears welling up in my eyes. “I was so angry and hurt when I saw you with those toys. I thought you had moved on and started a new family. I never imagined…”
He reached out and took my hand, his grip warm and reassuring. “You don’t need to apologize, Giselle. We both made mistakes. But I’m glad you know the truth now.”
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We sat in silence for a moment, the weight of our shared past hanging in the air. Finally, Tanner stood up. “Come with me,” he said, a small smile playing on his lips. “I want to show you something.”
I followed him to the storage unit, my heart pounding with curiosity and anticipation. He unlocked the door and flicked on the light, revealing rows upon rows of neatly stacked boxes, each one filled with toys and gifts.
“This is incredible,” I said, my voice barely above a whisper. “You’ve done all this by yourself?”
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Tanner nodded. “It’s taken years to build up, but it’s worth it. Seeing the smiles on those kids’ faces… It’s the best feeling in the world.”
As I looked around the storage unit, I felt a deep sense of admiration for Tanner. Our painful past had led to something beautiful and meaningful. I realized that sometimes people have reasons for their actions that we can’t see on the surface.
“Do you need any help?” I asked, surprising even myself with the question.
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Tanner looked at me, his eyes wide with surprise and gratitude. “Really? You’d want to help?”
I nodded, a smile spreading across my face. “Yeah. I think it’s time I started giving back too.”
Over the next few weeks, Tanner and I spent hours together, preparing for Christmas. We sorted toys, wrapped presents, and made plans for the big day. It was hard work, but it was also incredibly rewarding. And as we worked side by side, we began to heal the wounds of our past.
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On Christmas Eve, we dressed up as Santa and his helper, loading up his car with gifts. As we drove to the first neighborhood, my heart raced with excitement and a little bit of nervousness. When we arrived, children gathered around us, their eyes wide with wonder and joy.
“Ho, ho, ho!” Tanner bellowed, handing out gifts with a twinkle in his eye. The children’s laughter and smiles were infectious, and I felt a warmth spread through me that I hadn’t felt in years.
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We spent the night visiting different neighborhoods, bringing joy to dozens of kids. It was a magical experience, and it brought Tanner and me closer than we had been in a long time. By the time we returned to his house, we were exhausted but happy.
“Thank you, Giselle,” Tanner said as we unloaded the car. “I couldn’t have done this without you.”
I smiled, feeling a sense of fulfillment I hadn’t felt in years. “No, Tanner. Thank you. For showing me that there’s still good in the world, and for helping me find my way back to it.”
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As I drove away, I felt a weight lift off my shoulders. Our story had taken an unexpected turn, but it brought healing and hope to both of us.
The next morning, Christmas Day, I woke up with a sense of peace. I knew that our story was far from over, but for the first time in a long time, I felt hopeful about the future.
As I sipped my coffee and looked out the window at the snow-covered ground, I smiled, thinking about the children who had woken up to find presents from Santa.
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Tanner and I had found a way to turn our pain into something beautiful. And in doing so, we had found a way back to each other, not as husband and wife, but as friends and partners in a mission to bring joy to the world. It was a new beginning, one filled with hope, understanding, and a renewed sense of purpose.
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