This time, we sent an air fryer to our youngest granddaughter, the cheapest thing on her registry. Eloise called us, livid, accusing us of being cheap. I remember picking up her call and she didn’t even say hi, she just started ranting, “Seriously, Grandma? I just got your gift. An air fryer? That’s the cheapest thing you could find on my registry!”
I was taken aback because as much as the air fryer was the cheapest on their registry, I still thought it’d be useful to them, so I told her that. Eloise kept on complaining, “Useful? Come on, you know you can do better than that. Everyone knows you have the money. I just can’t believe you’d be this cheap with me. It’s embarrassing.”
In this heated moment, I told her, “Yes, you’re right. We are cheap, old, and useless. The only thing you DIDN’T know is that the day before the wedding, we were going to gift you a check for $40,000.”
I revealed this in an attempt to explain to Eloise about the cash gift we usually give our grandkids before the wedding but she was so angry at this point, that she wasn’t listening to a thing I said. I speculated that maybe she didn’t believe we would gift her such an amount of money after only buying her an air fryer.
Eventually, she said, “No, it’s clear. You just don’t love me enough to show it. You know how much pressure I’m under with the wedding. And then, this? It’s like you don’t even care,” then she hung up.
Despite my husband and I’s shock at Eloise’s reaction, we then bought her a China set, hoping to appease her, but decided against giving her the $40,000, feeling she hadn’t earned it.
Fast forward to last week. Eloise talked to her brother and found out that we were telling her the truth about the money. After confirming it with her cousins, she, called again, accusing us of discrimination, “I just found out that it’s true you gave the money to everyone else when they got married. Why didn’t I get anything?”
We stood firm, explaining our stance was due to her initial reaction, “We felt after your reaction to the wedding gift, it wasn’t right to go ahead and gift you the money.” Eloise pleaded trying to convince us otherwise, “So, you’re punishing me? Is that it? Because I was upset about an air fryer?”
I was angry that she didn’t even understand what she did wrong. “It wasn’t about the air fryer, Eloise. It was how you spoke to us, the disrespect. That’s not something we expected or can support,” I explained.
Eloise implored us, nearly in tears, “But that’s so unfair! I was stressed, Grandma. Planning a wedding is hard, and I just snapped. I didn’t mean any of it.” I felt like she should have only apologized to us instead of finding excuses to justify her behavior.
However, I told her, “We understand that it’s a stressful time, but actions and words have consequences. We hoped you’d understand the value of family and love over material things.” Full of desperation, Eloise added, “But you don’t understand! Can’t we just forget all this happened? I need that money, Grandma.”
She pleaded, threatened to boycott Christmas, and accused us of cutting her off but we didn’t budge. In the end, I expressed, “We love you very much. This has nothing to do with cutting you off. We just hope you’ll reflect on this and understand why we made our decision.”
Now, Eloise has followed up on her threat and she’s boycotting Christmas. Her mother, who is our daughter-in-law, is siding with her, calling us unreasonable. However, we feel that after all we have done for Eloise, the air fryer gift, shouldn’t have triggered this reaction.
For context, we had already paid for her college, and her parents covered her graduate school and half the wedding. Additionally, she and her husband are financially comfortable and do not desperately need our money.
We’re also not upset with our grandkids for revealing the cash gift since she is among the group of family members who are allowed to know about it. Our reason for sending the air fryer earlier was that we live far away, so we always send our gifts early.
The wedding gift is also separate from the money, which we give with the hope it will be used for something significant, like a home. Now, we feel like the action we took towards Eloise was well deserved and we are not going back on our decisions even if she and her mom threaten to do their worst.
Despite the tumultuous events and Eloise’s refusal to understand our perspective, my husband and I stand by our decision. Love and respect in our family are paramount, and we hoped this situation would be a learning experience for her.
The holidays might be quieter this year with her family’s absence, but our hope is for healing and understanding in the future. Our door and hearts remain open to Eloise, whenever she’s ready to mend fences.
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Who Will Replace Pat Sajak as the Next Host of “Wheel of Fortune”?
Fans of the venerable game show “Wheel of Fortune” have exciting news! The hunt is ended for the new host, and none other than the well-known television personality Ryan Seacrest has been selected. As the seasoned host of “American Idol” and a former co-host of “Live! with Kelly and Ryan,” Seacrest may be well-known to you. “I will be taking the wheel together with Kelly and Ryan,” he declared, beaming. With Seacrest in charge, be ready for a new chapter in “Wheel of Fortune” history!
Just one week ago, Pat Sajak announced that he will be retiring from hosting. His retirement will end after the current season in 2024. The New York Times reported sources stating that Seacrest has been chosen by Sony Pictures Television officials to assume the esteemed position. Furthermore, talks are in progress to retain the cherished co-host Vanna White on the show. Given how important she has been to the program, viewers will undoubtedly be happy to have her back.
A notable distinction between “Wheel of Fortune” and its sibling show, “Jeopardy!”, is how quickly hosts are chosen. With the passing of the great Alex Trebek, “Jeopardy!” had a protracted hunt for a new host; meanwhile, “Wheel of Fortune” had already named Seacrest a year ahead of schedule. This thoughtful choice will guarantee a smooth transition to the new era of the show, leaving fans excited to see what Seacrest has in store.
Ryan Seacrest’s name surfaced early on as the front-runner, accompanied by the likes of Andy Cohen and Whoopi Goldberg. But Vanna White was the one who received a ton of support from fans to take the role. Nevertheless, Seacrest was selected to succeed Pat Sajak because of his extensive hosting background and indisputable attractiveness. Seacrest has the charisma and contagious energy to take over the show and make it his own.
Being the host of “Wheel of Fortune” since 1983, Pat Sajak has contributed to the show’s longevity and made it one of the most watched game shows on television. Fans have continuously tuned in to experience the exhilarating gameplay and captivating persona of Sajak. Sajak wrote, “I’ll have more to say in the upcoming months,” as he considered retiring. It’s been a breathtaking journey. I sincerely appreciate your support, everyone. We excitedly welcome the new chapter with Seacrest and bid adieu to Sajak’s amazing stint.
The timing couldn’t be more ideal for Seacrest. He announced his departure from Kelly Ripa’s “Live” co-hosting in April. The difficulty of running a morning chat show in New York City while living in Los Angeles, where he also hosts “American Idol,” was mentioned as one of the reasons. Given that “Wheel of Fortune” is taped in Culver City, California, Seacrest would be a great fit for the host position. He will be able to keep enthralling audiences with his hosting skills thanks to this new endeavor.
Although there hasn’t been an official statement from the show’s management, Ryan Seacrest’s appointment as the next host of “Wheel of Fortune” has created a lot of talk. How do you feel about this exciting development? Would you rather see someone else take the helm of the show, or do you think Seacrest is the best fit? Talk about what you think, and let’s all rejoice over this significant announcement!
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