As I made my way home after a long day at work, my mind was heavy with stress. Suddenly, a loud, angry shout broke through the usual noise of the city. In a nearby park, I saw a man shouting at his wife, who was crying. The scene was disturbing, and I felt a surge of anger. I had to intervene.
It had been one of those overwhelming days, filled with looming deadlines and my boss’s constant demands. All I wanted was to get home to my family and escape the stress. I envisioned my wife’s delicious cooking and the joyful laughter of my kids playing outside, but that was overshadowed by guilt about bringing work home.
As I approached the park, I heard the man hurl insults at his wife. She stood with her head down, clearly terrified and shaking. My heart ached for her. I couldn’t believe someone would treat their partner this way, especially in public. Just as I got closer, the man angrily knocked her purse to the ground, sending its contents everywhere while she stood there in tears.
The usual crowd of people walked by, casting disapproving glances but doing nothing to help. It was frustrating to see so many ignore the situation. When the man yelled at her to look at him, I felt my blood boil. I could no longer stand by.
I decided to call 911 but realized I needed to do more. Switching to my camera, I began recording. I captured the moment he pushed her and shouted terrible things. I moved closer to ensure I got a clear shot of both their faces. Then, I shouted at him, trying to distract him.
He turned his rage toward me, and I stood my ground, reminding him that his behavior couldn’t go unchecked. My intervention caught the attention of others, and soon, more people began recording. The man realized he was no longer alone and started to lose his bravado.
He attempted to dismiss the crowd but quickly retreated, humiliated. I rushed over to the woman and asked if she was okay. She looked up at me, tears of relief in her eyes, grateful for the support
As more people gathered, one kind woman, who happened to be a lawyer, offered her card in case the man caused any more trouble. The woman thanked her, clearly feeling hopeful for the first time. She told me she had already called the police and wanted to stay until everything was resolved.
Later that evening, as I settled at home, I felt both exhausted and exhilarated. I uploaded the video online, hoping it would encourage others to take action against abuse. The response was incredible. Within hours, it went viral, sparking conversations about domestic violence and the importance of standing up for those in need.
A few days later, I received a message from the woman I had helped. She had found the strength to leave her husband and was staying with friends. She thanked me for my intervention and mentioned seeking legal action with the help of the lawyer.
Feeling a deep sense of accomplishment, I reflected on the whole experience. My actions had not only helped one woman but also reminded everyone present of their ability to make a difference. When I shared the story with my family, they expressed admiration, and my wife hugged me tightly, proud of what I had done.
That Tuesday evening became more than just another day; it was a pivotal moment that reinforced the values of courage and compassion I wanted to instill in my children. It reminded me that even small actions can have a lasting impact on someone’s life, inspiring them to stand up for others in need.
Phil Collins reveals he can “barely hold a drumstick anymore”
He can barely walk and confessed that he can no longer sing.
With eight Grammy awards under his belt, Genesis drummer and lead singer Phil Collins is one of the most prominent musicians there are. He is one of only three musicians, alongside Michael Jackson and Paul McCartney, who have sold more than 100 million albums both as a solo act and a member of a band.
Born on January 30, 1951 in London, England to parents who possessed creative spirits, Collins fell in love with making music.
When he was just five, his uncle made him a drum kit out of tambourines, triangles, cymbals and toy drums, Collins recalled. “The old cliché is, ‘Well, at least it will keep him quiet’,” he told Interview Magazine.
Soon after, he found himself performing in shows at his parents’ boating club.
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“When I started playing seriously, the English beat thing was just happening, the Shadows and bands like that. It was the very early ’60s,” Collins recalled.
“I remember buying Please Please Me. I used to put the record player on very loud and set up my drums so I was facing the mirror, that way you don’t look at what you’re doing.
“Then when I was fourteen I went to a teacher to learn to read drum music. I figured when this rock-and-roll thing finished I would have to make a living playing in a dance band or in an orchestra pit. So I learned to read drum music, but I found that my capacity for reading was not anywhere near as good as actually playing by instinct.”
It was in the 1970 that Collin’s life changed forever. He was already playing in some bands when he came across an ad by a group called Genesis which was looking for a drummer. He decided to get in touch with them and the rest is history. In the first years of Collins being part of it, the group released five albums with singles that reached the charts.
After the founder and lead singer of Genesis left the group, Collins took his place. He was both a singer and a drummer. Speaking of his new role, he said he didn’t really feel comfortable, but as the group failed to find a singer, he simply stepped in.
Besides being a member of Genesis, Collins also had a very impressive solo career. With smash hits such as In The Air Tonight, You Can’t Hurry Love and I Don’t Care Anymore he soon became one of the best in the music industry.
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When he decided to leave the group and focus on his solo career, Collins said: “Having been with Genesis for 25 years, I felt it time to change direction in my musical life.
“For me now it will be music for movies, some jazz projects and of course my solo career. I wish the guys in Genesis all the very best in their future. We remain the best of friends.”
However, in 2017, he decided to reunite with the band. Last year, they announced a world tour, The Last Domino, but had to put it on hold because of the pandemic.
And as fans were looking forward to seeing the group on stage together, Collins gave an interview with BBC Breakfast which made many concerned about his health. He and his band mates announced that it will be Collins’ son Nicholas who would do the drumming and Collins will only sing.
“Nic is a great drummer, but he is capable of sounding like early Phil. For Mike and I, that was always quite exciting,” Genesis band member Tony Banks said.
“It means you can play some of the songs that you haven’t played with Phil as the drummer for a long time.”
Speaking of why he’s not getting behind the drums, the musician revealed: “I’d love to but you know, I mean, I can barely hold a stick with this hand. So there are certain physical things that get in the way.
“I’m kind of physically challenged a bit which is very frustrating because I’d love to be playing up there with my son,” adding that he doesn’t know if he wants to be touring any longer.
“We’re all men of our age, and I think to some extent, I think it probably is putting it to bed,” he said. “I think yeah, I think just generally for me, I don’t know if I want to go out on the road anymore.”
During the past few years, Collins experienced certain health issues which left him struggling to get on his feet. Speaking to Billboard, he revealed that after a surgery in 2009, he was left with dislocated vertebra, nerve damage. He had also suffered a foot fracture that left him feeling like he’s walking “on sticks.”
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