What does bravery really mean? Is it the bravery to hold on when you know the end is close and the battle you fought so hard is lost, or is it the capacity to face terrifying things?
For a sixteen-year-old girl, bravery meant standing by her father, who never wavered even under the most trying circumstances.
A man by the name of Tom Mitchell told the following tale.
This loving father remembered his daughter complaining that she didn’t feel well and requesting to be taken to the doctor because she thought she had a sinus infection.
Yes, sweetie, I’ll come get you tomorrow after school. If you’d like, we can have supper together afterward,” he replied.
The next day, the two did enjoy dinner together, but it was not at their preferred eatery. Rather, kids were having difficulty swallowing the food at Fairfax Hospital’s pediatric oncology unit. These father and daughter would have more than 450 meals there together, not to mention the hundreds more in the years that followed.
Instead of a sinus infection, his daughter had a massive tumor that had gone to her lungs and collapsed one.
It was a genuine struggle. Even though they knew it wouldn’t be simple, they were committed to fighting as a team.
Hodgkin’s illness, stage four, was Shayla’s diagnosis.
Tom tried to convey to them what it meant to be brave and withstand the trials and problems life placed in front of them by purchasing two sterling silver “feather” bracelets and placing one on each of their wrists.
Then he made three promises: he would stay at the hospital every night until Shayla was cancer-free; he would wear the bracelet until then; and he would persevere as long as she did.
Shayla’s cancer struggle dragged on for years, during which she had blood transfusions, chemotherapy, radiation, painkillers, and more medication. Her body could not take all of this, and as a result, her heart grew weak and a defibrillator had to be quickly implanted within her chest.
Shayla was getting ready for chemotherapy one day when she started screaming, “Help me, Dad! I’m shocked by it! ..I’m shocked by it.
Tom continued his explanation of what had occurred. I drew her in and gave her my strongest embrace. It almost blew her out of my arms and stunned her once more. But I resisted letting go. That’s exactly how I hugged her, fiercely as I could. As swiftly as it had begun, it stopped startling her, and we hurried to the hospital.
As it turned out, the device’s maker had to recall thousands of them because they were malfunctioning, and Shayla’s chest contained one of them.
More chemotherapy sessions, blood transfusions, a botched bone marrow transplant, and more uncomfortable sleepless nights ensued. But until the very last, Shayla never once considered giving up.
“How in the world was I meant to talk to my sweet kid about this? How would I ever have the courage to tell my daughter that she was going to die? There’s a quote I once heard that kind of captures my thoughts. “Can a guy who is terrified still be brave? He can only be bold at that moment. I had to have courage for HER! Of course, I did have that talk with her, and despite how unbelievable it may sound, it ended up being the most incredible, lovely, magical, and fantastic conversation I have ever had in my life. I sincerely pray you never, ever have to have it. Tom gave a portion.
“Dad, am I still brave?,” she murmured in his ear.
Then he met her gaze directly and saw into her soul. He was aware that she was beyond tired of battling and that it was becoming impossible for her, but he suddenly came to a chilling realization. She exhibited bravery for him rather than for herself.
Shayla tragically passed away a few days later, but her father will always remember her bravery and strength.
Shayla, rest in peace.
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IMPORTANT ALERT! DEADLY DANGER! The Most Dangerous Insect In The World Has Appeared
In recent years, the United States has faced a significant and deadly threat from the giant killer wasp, often referred to as the “murder hornet.” This invasive and highly destructive insect, known as the largest and most dangerous of its kind globally, first appeared in the country in 2019 and has since continued to spread fear and havoc.
The most recent sighting of this menacing creature occurred in Washington state in 2021. This discovery alarmed the region, as the “murder hornet” exhibited aggressive behavior, attacking anything that crossed its path. Measuring an imposing 4.4 centimeters in length, this insect was detected on August 11, just 3.2 kilometers from where it was first identified in December 2019, near Blaine, Washington, according to the Washington State Department of Agriculture (WSDA).
These hornets are notorious for their ability to decimate entire beehives. Their formidable mandibles allow them to kill and decapitate thousands of bees, taking over the hive and defending it as their own. They ruthlessly tear apart the brood to feed their offspring, leaving devastation in their wake. This is especially concerning given the critical role bees play in pollination and maintaining ecological balance.
Adding to the danger, the venom from a single sting of a “murder hornet” has the potential to kill a human. These hornets inject a significant amount of venom into their prey. While fatalities from a single sting are rare, the risk remains significant and alarming.
In response to this development, the WSDA is taking proactive measures to combat the threat. Live traps are being set up in the area, and entomologists plan to tag captured wasps to track them back to their nests. The proximity of this sighting to the US-Canada border has also prompted officials in that region to install additional traps to prevent the further spread of these deadly insects.
The emergence and spread of the giant killer wasp, or “murder hornet,” serves as a stark reminder of the threats nature can pose. With its potential to devastate bee populations and harm humans, efforts to monitor, control, and mitigate this invasive species are crucial to safeguarding both ecosystems and public safety. The ongoing efforts by state and regional authorities highlight the importance of swift and effective action in managing invasive species to protect the environment and human health.
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