Real reason Kate Middleton turned down invite to Lilibet’s 1st birthday party – she was mocked by Meghan’s pal

It’s reasonable to suppose Princess Lilibet is still ignorant of her parents’ past. After Prince Harry and Meghan Markle relocated to Montecito, California, the small child was born in the US, and her upbringing differed greatly from her father’s. Even though Lilibet’s first birthday was truly celebrated in the UK, rumors and conjecture still persisted.

Lilibet’s first birthday celebration was missed by her cousins Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis as well as her royal aunt and uncle, Prince William and Kate Middleton. Although it is said that the late Queen Elizabeth was present, she declined to have her photo taken with her great-granddaughter.

The absence of William and Kate at Lilibet’s birthday celebration sparked reactions soon after. While it is true that the Waleses and Sussexes’ relationship was at an all-time low, one of Meghan’s pals publicly mocked Kate and refused to accept it as the cause.

Harry and Meghan made the wonderful announcement that their daughter Lilibet had been born on June 4, 2021. Fans of the royal family will be aware that the girl is their second child; their son, Archie, was born in 2019.

Lilibet, Princess

“It is with great joy that Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, The Duke and Duchess of Sussex, welcome their daughter, Lilibet “Lili” Diana Mountbatten-Windsor, to the world,” a pair representative stated at the time.

Prince William and Kate Middleton were among the other members of the royal family to congratulate Harry and Meghan on the birth of their second child. However, the relationship between the Sussexes and Waleses is now colder than it has ever been.

After her parents had already left the Royal Family, Lilibet was born in the United States. Because Lilibet would benefit from a more subdued and intimate presentation to the public, she could avoid the paparazzi press that had followed Harry and Meghan across the globe.

It took some time for Lilibet’s family in the UK to get to meet her, as the Sussexes reside in the US.

Lilibet finally saw her great-grandmother at Queen Elizabeth’s Platinum Jubilee Celebration in 2022. Lilibet turned one on June 4, 2022, and her parents chose to celebrate at Frogmore Cottage, their then-UK residence.

MisanHarriman on Instagram.

On their daughter’s special day, Meghan and Harry planned a picnic in their backyard. One of the few images of Lilibet that the public has seen is the lovely photo that their friend Misan Harriman shared of the young child celebrating her birthday.

At Lilibet’s first birthday celebration, Queen Elizabeth declined to have her photo taken.

Lilibet first encountered her then-grandfather, Prince Charles, and her great-grandmother, Queen Elizabeth, at the picnic at Frogmore Cottage.

Although they must have both been happy to see Lilibet, no pictures of their initial meeting were released to the public. In fact, Queen Elizabeth forbade Harry and Meghan from having a photographer present, as The Sun revealed.

An insider told The Sun, “Harry and Meghan wanted their photographer to capture the moment Lilibet met the Queen.” But nobody gave them a chance. It was a private gathering with family.

The tiny child had a bloodshot eye, so the queen refused to have a picture taken with her, according to royal researcher Camilla Tominey. According to Tominey, the queen requested not to be in any pictures that would be released to the public.

Harry was said to have mentioned wanting a picture with her “at some point in the future,” according to a report that Tominey reported at the time in The Telegraph.

The queen at the time, according to royal expert Phil Dampier, had a “lack of trust” in Harry and Meghan because they had participated in the controversial Oprah Winfrey interview just a few months prior. She therefore wished to avoid having her great-granddaughter pictured.

“The Queen remained as sharp as a pin, despite her health struggles. She became aware that any photo she had taken with Lilibet might have been used for malicious purposes, Dampier told The Sun.

“I don’t believe she was overly happy that the name Lilibet was selected in the first place and was given to her as a fait accompli. Putting her foot down, she ruled against taking pictures.

A friend of Meghan Markle made fun of Kate Middleton for turning down Lilibet’s birthday invitation.

According to reports, the children of Zara Tindall and Peter Phillips were the only ones that attended the celebration. Princess Kate, Prince William, and their kids decided not to go. Things haven’t really gotten much better since then; tensions were still very high.

The official explanation for Prince William and Kate Middleton’s absence from Lilibet’s birthday celebration was that they had other obligations that day. But during the Sussexes’ visit to the UK, Christopher Andersen, a royal specialist, told Us Weekly that the future king and queen made “no effort” to introduce George, Charlotte, and Louis to Lilibet.

One of Meghan Markle’s pals was displeased when Prince William and Kate Middleton turned down the invitation to Lilibet’s first birthday picnic at Frogmore Cottage.

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills actress Garcelle Beauvais discussed the absence of the now-Prince and Princess of Wales from the birthday celebration in an interview with E!.

She called Kate’s choice to skip the event “shady.”

“What’s happening is that I’m shampooing my hair and we’re out of town—what a coincidence. There is some shade there, Beauvais said to E!.

“They are unable to postpone the flight for a few hours in order to meet Lilibet and Archie?”

Family conflicts are never pleasant, and they frequently become much more complicated when children are involved.

Harry hasn’t seen his nephews and niece in a while due to the ongoing “battle of the brothers” and Harry and Meghan’s relocation to the US. Tom Quinn, a royal biographer, claims that Harry is “devastated” at the division.

Princess Lilibet turns three, and the celebration is kept low-key.

Quinn informed the Mirror, “We know that Harry’s deepest upset concerns not only his lack of relationship with George, Charlotte, and Louis, but also his own children’s lack of a relationship with their cousins.”

“Harry and Meghan would really like to find a solution to the issue. They would really like it if the cousins could get together frequently and have a good connection as they grow up, but they are unable to see how that can happen while they are still at odds. Harry expressed his wish that the cousins could maintain their friendship as adults.

Tuesday, June 4, 2024 was Lilibet’s third birthday. As previously indicated, Lilibet’s first birthday was observed in the UK. In California, her second birthday was supposedly celebrated with a “celeb-packed all-American bash,” while this year’s event is supposedly more subdued.

People Magazine stated that a “pre-birthday bash” kicked off the birthday celebrations for Lilibet. Harry, Meghan, and their kids threw a celebration in their Montecito house over the weekend to honor their daughter. “Close friends, family, and some of Lili’s friends” were among the attendees.

When Meghan Markle was in Nigeria, she shared new information on Lilibet.

Harry and Meghan have made the decision to keep their kids out of the spotlight, and they seldom ever post updates or images of Archie and Lilibet. When the kids debuted in their Netflix series in December 2022, among other things, royal fans learned that Archie spoke with an American accent.

In order to promote the Invictus Games, Harry and Meghan traveled to Nigeria for three days a few weeks ago. Meghan said that Lilibet’s “favorite class” was “singing and dancing” while visiting a school in Abuja. This was probably because to “all the jumping around.”

In addition, the Duchess conversed with a few students and gave a brief speech about her daughter.

It’s interesting to note that Lili, our daughter, is far smaller than any of you. It’s almost her third birthday. And a few weeks prior, all she would see when she gazed at me was my eye’s reflection. “Mama, I see myself in you,” she exclaimed. Meghan remarked, “Oh, now she was talking really, literally,” according to the Mirror.

But my interpretation of those words was quite different. And I realized that while I do see myself and you, and you see me and you, I also see myself in each and every one of you as I glance around this room.

Though Archie and Lilibet have remained out of the spotlight for the time being, the Sussexes may decide to change that.

When Meghan Markle was in Nigeria, she shared new information on Lilibet.

In addition, the Duchess conversed with a few students and gave a brief speech about her daughter.

Though Archie and Lilibet have remained out of the spotlight for the time being, the Sussexes may decide to change that.

My Father Fired Me Because His Biological Son Wanted My Job — Karma Didn’t Let It Slide

After years of being groomed in his stepfather’s construction company, Sheldon is discarded when David, his stepbrother returns. Instead of retaliating, Sheldon walks out gracefully, only to be head-hunted by a rival company. But a few months in, his stepfather calls him, desperate…

You know things sometimes come full circle? Well, that’s been the story of my life.

I’ve been working at my dad’s construction company since I was 15. At first, it was simple tasks like filing and cleaning out his office, and then more responsibility was placed onto my shoulders as I got through school. And this wasn’t because I wanted to, but because I had to.

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My dad, or technically my stepdad, didn’t let anyone skate by for free. He had one rule and he swore by it. If I wanted to live in his house, I had to earn my keep.

“It is what it is, Sheldon. Take it or leave it,” he said.

Obviously, I had no choice but to take it. Where else was I going to go?

He married my mom when I was 10, and from then on, he always said that I was his “responsibility.”

A couple at their wedding | Source: Midjourney

It never felt that way, because when I turned 16, I had to pay rent, which meant that I had to work at his company after school and work at the local ice cream place during weekends.

But it was fine, I didn’t complain once. I figured that it was all part of his version of tough love.

Over time, I worked my way up in the company. When I graduated from high school, my stepdad gave me no choice but to join the company full-time.

A boy at his high school graduation | Source: Midjourney

“Sorry, Sheldon,” he said one evening over dinner. “But there’s no room for you to go to college or whatever. Now that you have the time and capacity, you need to join the company properly.”

“That’s fine with me,” I said, feeling an odd sense of contentment.

To me, it felt like my stepdad wanted me there, and that was a big deal.

So, I started with the dirty jobs. I cleaned up sites, hauled materials until my muscles were defined, and just did whatever needed to be done. I worked hard, wanting to take pride in the company; it was a family legacy after all.

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And by my mid-20s, I was foreman. I thought I had proven myself, not just as an employee, but as his son, too.

Then everything changed. David came back. His biological son.

David hadn’t been around in years. After my dad’s divorce, he sided with his mom and blamed Dad for everything.

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“He said some pretty horrible things to Dad,” my mom told me once when I asked why we didn’t see David.

“So, that’s it? It’s like how I don’t see my biological father?” I asked.

“Pretty much, honey,” she said. “But your father was a cruel man, cruel to the bone.”

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While David was gone, I stepped in as the son. I did everything, I put in the work, but when David decided to resurface, all of that seemed to vanish.

“I don’t get it,” I said to my mom one night. “David hasn’t spoken to Dad in over a decade. And now he’s back, acting like nothing happened between them?”

My mother sighed and cut a piece of banana bread for me.

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“Your father misses him, honey,” she replied quietly. “He’s just trying to make things right.”

I sighed. I could understand that, but it still didn’t sit well with me.

A few days later, I was called into my dad’s office. He didn’t even look up from his desk. He just cleared his throat.

“We need to let you go, Sheldon,” he said.

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“What?” I blinked, trying to process. “You’re firing me? Really, Dad?”

He finally glanced up but refused to make eye contact with me.

“David’s coming on board, and, well, we don’t have room for both of you in management. He’s got the degree, you know? Construction management?”

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“So?” I asked, struggling to keep my voice calm. “I’ve been here for over a decade. I’ve earned this.”

“It’s time I help David get on his feet,” he muttered. “He’s my son, after all. And I lost so many years with him.”

I sat there for a second, stunned.

“I thought I was your son, too.”

“You are, but you’re not blood,” he said.

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Just like that, it was over. No severance, no handshake, not even a thank you for my years of hard work. I felt the anger building, but I kept my cool.

“All right,” I said, standing up. “Cool. Good luck.”

I walked out not knowing what would happen next.

“Just move in with me,” my girlfriend, Bea, said when I told her what had happened. “You don’t need to see him every day after this. Take some time away.”

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I listened, and within a few hours, I was out of our home and into her apartment.

Within a week, I landed a new job at a rival construction company. I’d made some solid connections over the years, and they jumped at the chance to hire me.

“It’s for a project manager role, Sheldon,” the owner said. “I know it’s not what you’re used to, but I’ve followed the projects that you’ve overseen. You’re ready for this.”

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I accepted without hesitation. This new role meant more pay, and best of all? More respect.

“You’re going to love it here,” my new boss said when he took me around, showing me my new office. “We take care of our people, Sheldon. None of that cutthroat stuff that I’ve heard your father does. And don’t worry, we cover dental, medical, and everything else.”

I smiled. I could already tell that this was going to be an entirely different experience from what I was used to.

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It didn’t take me long to settle into my new job, and I loved every second of it. I had projects that ranged from movie theater construction, to malls, to even theme parks. It was only going to get better from there.

“I miss you at home, darling,” my mother said when we met at a coffee shop for breakfast one weekend.

“I know, Mom,” I said. “I miss you too. But you understand why I had to move, right?”

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“Of course I do, Sheldon,” she said gently. “And it was time to spread your wings, too. But if I’m being honest with you, there seems to be something big going on with Dad’s company. He’s been very stressed. He and David are not really on speaking terms now. They’re just polite to each other.”

“Trouble in paradise?” I asked sarcastically.

“I think so,” my mother said, buttering a slice of toast.

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It wasn’t long before whispers started to flood our industry, talk of my dad’s company going under seemed to be the biggest news. Apparently, things really weren’t going well since David had taken over.

My stepbrother had been losing clients, mismanaging projects, and making mistake after mistake. Some of the same clients I had built relationships with left my dad’s company and signed with me instead.

Then, one day, I was sitting in my office, flipping through a stack of resumes when I came across David’s.

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“No way,” I muttered, staring at the paper. It was surreal. The same David who replaced me at my dad’s company was now applying for a job at my new one.

I couldn’t resist. I called him in for an interview.

When David walked in, he looked worn, like life had knocked him around. He didn’t even recognize me at first, but when he did, the color drained from his face.

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“Have a seat,” I said.

He sat down, clearly uncomfortable. The confidence he once had was gone.

“So,” I began, flipping through his resume. “Why are you looking for a job here?”

He gulped.

“I need something new. Things didn’t work out at my dad’s company.”

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“What happened?” I asked.

“Just… I made some mistakes. I lost us some clients.”

“I see,” I replied, leaning back in my chair. “You do realize that this is the same industry, right? We’re not going to make it easy for you.”

David nodded.

“I’m ready to work,” he said.

“We’ll let you know,” I said.

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As he left, I couldn’t help but feel a mix of satisfaction and pity. Karma had done her job. Still, it felt good to know that I’d landed on my feet while David struggled.

A few weeks later, my phone rang. It was my dad.

“Sheldon, come back,” he said simply. “The company is failing. David walked out after he messed up again. We’re in trouble. I need you to come back. Help me out, maybe take over.”

I let the silence hang in the air for a moment.