Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
The Unlikely Friendships Between Dogs and Other Animals
Although they’ve long been regarded as man’s best friend, did you know that dogs can become friends with other animals as well? You’ll grin when you see these endearing relationships between dogs and all kinds of wildlife. Let’s enjoy some of these precious moments that were caught on video.
Ducks and Dogs: An Ageless Bond
As evidenced by this cute picture of Rusty the cocker spaniel offering Donald the duck a ride on his back, our furry pals have been buddies with ducks since 1949. Ducks and dogs share a unique kinship that endures over time.
Dogs and Monkeys: Picking Up Tips from the Finest
A touching event occurred in the busy Bangladeshi capital of Dhaka when a monkey gave a firm hug to its adopted puppy buddy. This loving demonstration between two distinct animals illustrates the strength of friendship and love.
Piglets and French Bulldogs: An Unbreakable Bond
Baby, a French bulldog at the Lehnitz animal refuge in Germany, discovered that cuddling piglets was his true calling. Six little piglets and Baby struck up a conversation right away. These endearing exchanges serve as a reminder that friendship has no bounds.
Ducks and Dogs: Lifelong Playmates
This adorable picture shows the amazing friendship between Barclay the dog and Rudy the duck. When the two are together, they frolic and leap, demonstrating the unadulterated happiness that may result from strange friendships.
French Bulldogs and Tigers: Cuddling Together
A French bulldog named Bella provided a two-week-old young tiger cub with loving care in Japan. When the cub’s mother rejected it, Bella intervened to make sure the little tiger didn’t feel abandoned. This touching demonstration of interspecies empathy highlights the generosity present in the animal realm.
Dogs and Elephants: A True Friendship’s Tail
At the Tennessee Elephant Sanctuary, most interactions between humans are restricted, but Bella the dog discovered a unique opening. She developed a close relationship with Tarra the elephant, and the two would frequently follow one another about and even share a bed. This endearing bond serves as a reminder that love is unconditional and unaffected by size or species.
These are Only the First Steps…
There are countless touching stories of dogs and other animals becoming buddies. These strange relationships—such as dogs and cats cuddling up to mice or a kind, enormous bear carrying its devoted dog companion—serve as a powerful reminder of the strength of friendship and love. Animals are incredibly good at finding friends in the most unlikely places.
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