Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos Celebrate Milestone Birthday of Their Eldest Child
Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos, one of America’s most beloved couples, are marking a significant milestone today – their eldest child, Michael, turns 27. With three decades of love and three children together, this power couple has built a life filled with joy, laughter, and cherished memories.
To commemorate Michael’s special day, Kelly and Mark took to Instagram, sharing an endearing video montage of their firstborn’s journey from infancy to adulthood. The heartfelt post was captioned, “Happy 27th birthday to the founding member of our family, Michael.
We adore you, Consuelos – you started it all!” Set to Curtis Mayfield’s uplifting tune “Move On Up,” the video showcased Michael’s life milestones, including tender moments with his parents, grandparents, and younger siblings, Lola and Joaquin.
The couple’s fans, friends, and family flooded the comments section with warm birthday wishes. Andy Cohen chimed in, “I love this! Happy birthday, Mikey!” while Nia Long added, “The most adorable!” As Kelly and Mark often share updates about Michael, fans can’t help but notice the uncanny resemblance between Michael and his father, Mark.
“Wow, Michael is the spitting image of a younger Mark!” exclaimed one fan. Another echoed, “Michael is his dad’s twin!” The similarities between father and son are undeniable.
Following in his parents’ footsteps, Michael has embarked on his own journey in the entertainment industry, making appearances in Riverdale alongside his father and producing shows like Summer House and Winter House.
As Kelly and Mark celebrate this significant birthday, it’s clear that family is at the forefront of their lives. With a legacy of love, laughter, and shared experiences, the Consuelos clan continues to captivate hearts. Here’s to many more years of happiness, love, and adventure for Michael and his family.
Kelly and Mark’s enduring love story serves as a testament to the power of commitment and family. As they honor their eldest child’s milestone birthday, fans can’t help but feel inspired by the couple’s devotion to one another and their children. Happy birthday, Michael – may this year bring you joy, success, and cherished memories with your loved ones!
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