Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
A Little Boy Who Sounds Like Johnny Cash Is Met With Standing Ovations by the Audience…
Through his endearing interpretation of Folsom Prison Blues, a little boy who goes by the name “Little John” is responsible for ensuring that Johnny Cash’s music continues to be played. The fact that his voice is remarkably close to that of the great performer was shown by his rendition of the song in the year 2008.
A great number of individuals claim that they possess a voice that is reminiscent of a certain star; but, for a little child who goes by the name Little John, this is in fact the case. The crowd was struck dumbfounded by Little John’s incredible singing abilities during one of his performances.
Little John is now in the second grade. Due to the fact that the little child displays an endearing quality, the audience was already captivated by him before he even started singing the song themselves.
The sight of him playing the guitar, which seemed to be too large for his little hands, and his lovely little button-down blue shirt made him an adorable sight. Despite the fact that he had selected a challenging song to play, he was certain that he would be able to do it with elegance and talent. Despite the fact that Little John was going to put on an incredible display, nobody was prepared for it.
Before commencing to sing, he introduced himself as well as the songs that he was going to cover in the next performance. When the little kid declared that he was going to perform some Johnny Cash songs, everyone was taken aback. However, as he began singing, it became abundantly evident that these songs were destined to be sung by the voice of this young child.
During his singing, the little child seemed to be singing in a manner that was both natural and elegant, and the crowd was awestruck by his musical prowess. His voice could be heard emanating from every corner of the room, and it was obvious that he had been training for years, despite the fact that his skill level was far higher than his age.
His voice had an uncanny similarity to that of Johnny Cash himself, and his tone was kind and reassuring. But just when the audience was beginning to assume that that was all he had to give, Little John pulled out an even more impressive trick that he had been keeping up his sleeve. Halfway through one of his songs, he made the decision to vary things up a little and make the crowd go even crazy for his incredible ability.
Despite the fact that many were amazed that someone of such a young age could have such a presence on stage and such a remarkable singing skill, Little John was there.
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