Weddings are some of the most beautiful celebrations one can experience in their life (usually). The deep connection between two lovers taking physical form in a ceremonious act for all to see is one that a lot of couples look forward to.
However, it also comes with months upon months of planning, stress, and even more planning. The one thing that a bride cannot go without—the special dress. Whether it be white, maroon, black, fluffy, frilly, or form-fitting, it must make the wearer feel likе the most beautiful woman in the whole entire world.
Some brides take the plunge of crafting their own dresses, be it for the challenge, for the love of the craft, or both. Today we delve into the story of Veronika Lindberg Heino, or Kika, who knitted her special gown for her big day in 6 weeks. She was kind enough to answer some of Bored Panda’s questions so let’s get into it!
Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, decided to take up the challenge of knitting her own stunning wedding dress
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If you were given 2.5 kg of yarn and 250 hours, what would you create? Mayhaps a blanket, mayhaps a 3D portrait, or maybe a knitted wedding dress. Seeing as you clicked on this article for a very particular reason, you probably know by now that we’ll be speaking about the last option.
Opening herself to the challenge was Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, who documented the birth of her special white dress, sharing the ups and downs with her followers on Instagram (which she started in 2017) and YouTube.
This project came about when she and her husband-to-be were both moving house and planning an impromptu wedding, making for a very stressful 7 weeks
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For what was already an intense project, life decided to add an extra bit of *spice*: they were moving house and planning their wedding, happening 7 weeks later, at the same time, so why not add in a project of great significance on top of it all? Unless you’re as skiIIed as Kika, I wouldn’t recommend it!
“I do love a challenge and I’m often a little bit over-ambitious, and the thought felt so wild and inspiring that I just decided to take the risk and do it,” the Finland-based knitter told Good Morning America (GMA). “I ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced my crazy plan on Instagram, and knew right then, there was no turning back anymore.”
She ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced her plans to her followers on Instagram, getting the project officially started with no way to turn back
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Kika based her design around Dior, Chanel, and Ulla Johnson’s dresses. She then sketched and planned the patterns. After all that, the knitting began!
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Nothing worth doing ever comes easy. It was a struggle finding time to knit in between moving, planning the wedding, and publishing her first book
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Instead of throwing Kika off balance, this added project seemed to have the opposite effect: it kept her grounded through the tumultuous time, at least for a while. Nothing worth doing comes easy, and this project was no exception, especially as she’d never knitted a dress before.
“The process was definitely intense, and the biggest struggle was to find enough time for knitting since we were in the process of moving and organizing the wedding at the same time,” said Kika. “Plus I published my first-ever knitting book, so it was definitely hectic. But, I also enjoyed it immensely and loved seeing my vision come to life in the process.”
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Then a big setback occured—her bodice was far too big, requiring her to rip it all up and start again. Her sleeves then kept slipping off, which took lots of time to fix
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Glaring issues started appearing about two weeks in when Kika had finished the bodice and tried it on for the first time—it was way too big. Disappointed, but not defeated, the bride-to-be ripped it all up, starting all over again, describing it as “a tough and frustrating moment where some tears were shed.”
One more issue came along with the slippy sleeves that kept on slipping, revealing a tad bit too much, which Kika found hilarious yet time-consuming to fix. “I made sure to film all my mistakes so I could be real and honest with my viewers, rather than only showing them the picture-perfect moments,” she told Insider.
Not having any other option (you typically can’t just go and buy a dress off the rack, as those require alterations, which take a long time), she kept moving forward until it was one week til the wedding. Encouraging messages from her followers kept her spirits up, the promise she’d made to the project at the very beginning providing her with a sense of accountability.
However, “the biggest motivator was definitely seeing for myself if I could pull my idea and vision off, and the thought of having the dress as a memory for life really kept me going, too.”
But all that didn’t deter her! Just 4 days before the big day, the dress was finished and Kika got to have a well-deserved rest
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Everything was done. She finished her dress on Tuesday, feeling more tired and frustrated than elated, but once she put it on for the ceremony, she couldn’t have been happier with the end result.
Kika got married to her husband Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home (which inspired the cottage-themed wedding tone), just 4 days after she’d finished her dress. Although her partner was a bit more skeptical about her last-minute knitting project, “in the end, he was super impressed and proud of me, and thought it looked really good too,” Kika said.
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Kika told Bored Panda that they’d met back in Spring of 2020, when she moved back home to Finland from London, as the pandemic put the world in lockdown. “Just a few months after moving back I met Juki and for our first date we walked around in Helsinki for hours since all cafés and bars were closed due to the restrictions,” she said.
“I was immediately drawn to his humor and often colorful stories of his adventures which made me laugh, and of course I found him really handsome. I think he was drawn to my enthusiasm, something we both have in common and my positive attitude towards life.”
She married Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home. Everyone loved her dress, praising her for all the effort she’d put into it
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“Over the course of the day, guests would come up to me and immediately feel the dress and comment on it. It sometimes felt likе they were more interested in the dress than in me, but I love talking about knitting, so I didn’t mind too much,” she told Insider.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295, which is a bargain when it comes to wedding dresses, which go for $1,800 on average. Her 149k followers on Instagram absolutely loved the journey, jumping in with suggestions and support any time she needed it.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295
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The 46-minute vlog of the whole journey posted on YouTube has garnered over 3.4M views, quickly becoming the highlight of her channel, which has over 253k subscribers that look forward to her knitting tutorials. “I’m absolutely amazed by all the positive attention the video and my dress has gotten, wow!” said Kika.
“I’ve received messages from people all over the world telling me I’ve inspired them to take up knitting again or to learn it, which makes me so glad. I’m also proud that I’ve maybe been able to push the boundaries and show what is possible using knitting.”
According to Kika, “knitting was actually done primarily by men at some point in history, so the fact that knitting nowadays is associated with something mostly feminine hasn’t always been the case.” Knitting is not just for grandmas, y’all!
The 46-minute vlog of the entire process garnered over 3.4M views on YouTube, inspiring hundreds of people to take up or go back to the craft
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What began as a bonding activity with her grandma when she was 5 years old has become a lifestyle, bringing together likе-minded people from all over the world. The one lesson she’d always kept was to be playful with the craft, rather than searching for perfection.
“With knitting there are a lot of ‘rules’ or principles that come with the territory which sometimes can make it feel likе you’re not doing things the right way,” she told Bored Panda. “My grandmother always encouraged me to make things without getting hung up on perfection, being creative and playful was more important.”
She hopes her followers and those who jumped on the bandwagon to see the final dress get inspired to embrace creative projects they might feel tempted to try—“even if it might feel a bit ambitious, I say go for it!”
We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and can’t wait to see what’s coming up for them next!
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A post-pandemic resurgence of knitting is a very welcome sight for many who are getting into arts and crafts for the first time or returning back to the familiar time-passing activity. Recent research shows that knitting has a measurable effect on calming anxiety, relieving stress, and aiding with chronic pain, as well as helping one build a community of friends. And you end up with a cute hat and mittens in the meantime!
“I think knitting as a craft teaches you a lot about patience and really makes you think about what kind of garments you most likе to wear,” Kika said. “When you’re going to spend 40-60 hours making a sweater, you really want to make sure it’s something that is going to stay in your wardrobe for a long time, which makes knitting a very sustainable practice, too.”
Honestly, what’s not to love!? We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and hope to see many more exciting knitting projects! Let us know your thoughts on the dress in the comments below, and I shall see you in the next one!
People have absolutely loved this project and the final dress. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
I Helped a Disabled Man at the Restaurant Where I Worked and He Changed My Life
I had been working at this fast-food joint in a mall for a couple of years. You’d think I had seen it all by then, but the other day, something happened that really shook me. I’m Jamie, and this is the story of how an encounter with an old man in a wheelchair unexpectedly changed my life.
It was a typical busy afternoon, the kind where you barely have time to catch your breath. I was rushing from table to table, balancing trays and dodging kids running around.
A fast food joint in a shopping mall | Source: Midjourney
That was when I saw him: an old man in a wheelchair. He looked lost and anxious, clutching a dead cell phone like it was his last lifeline. He started asking people for help, but most ignored him or looked uncomfortable.
You know how people get when they think someone might ask them for something: money or time, who knows? The commotion caught the attention of Mr. Hughes, our manager. Mr. Hughes was all about keeping the customers happy and the noise level down, and he didn’t look pleased.
An elderly man in a wheelchair in a shopping mall | Source: Midjourney
“Jamie, can you deal with that?” he said, nodding toward the old man. “We can’t have him disturbing the customers.”
I felt a knot in my stomach. The elderly fellow clearly needed help, and it didn’t seem right to just throw him out. “I’ll handle it, Mr. Hughes. Just give me a minute,” I replied, hoping I wasn’t making a mistake.
Soon afterward, I approached the old man, who looked like he was on the verge of tears. “Hello, Sir. I’m Jamie. Do you need some help?”
A restaurant server guy talks to an elderly man in a wheelchair | Source: Midjourney
His eyes lit up with a mix of hope and relief. “Yes, please. My name is Mr. Thompson. I came here with my granddaughter, Emily, but we got separated. My phone died, and I have no way to contact her.”
I nodded, feeling a pang of sympathy. “Don’t worry, Mr. Thompson. We’ll figure this out. You can use my phone to call her.”
I handed him my phone, and he fumbled with it briefly before dialing. When Emily picked up, I could hear the panic in her voice even though I was standing a few feet away.
A worried young woman talking on her phone in a shopping mall | Source: Midjourney
“Grandpa! Where are you? I’ve been looking everywhere!” she cried.
Mr. Thompson’s voice shook as he answered, “I’m at the food court, dear. Jamie here is helping me.”
I took the phone from him gently. “Hi, Emily. I’m Jamie. We’re going to help your grandfather find you. Where are you right now?”
“I’m near the entrance by the big fountain. I was just about to call for help,” she said, her voice still shaky.
“Stay there. We’ll come to you. It’s going to be okay,” I assured her.
A restaurant server guy talking on his phone | Source: Midjourney
I handed the phone back to Mr. Thompson and gave him a reassuring smile. “Let’s get you to that fountain.”
As we started our way through the crowded mall, I took the handles of Mr. Thompson’s wheelchair, navigating through the sea of people. Along the way, I tried to make small talk to keep him calm. “So, Mr. Thompson, how often do you come to the mall?”
He chuckled softly. “Not very often, Jamie. This was supposed to be a special outing with Emily. We were going to have lunch and maybe do some shopping. My wife and I used to come here all the time before she passed.”
A restaurant server wheels an elderly disabled man through a shopping mall. | Source: Midjourney
“I’m sorry to hear about your wife,” I said, glancing down at him. “She must have been a wonderful person.”
“She was,” he nodded, his eyes misting over. “We were married for fifty years. She was my rock. Emily reminds me so much of her. Kind, thoughtful, always putting others first. Just like you, Jamie.”
I felt a lump in my throat. “Thank you, Mr. Thompson. That means a lot.”
A loving elderly couple hugging outdoors | Source: Midjourney
As we continued walking, Mr. Thompson told me more about his life. He shared stories of his late wife, their travels, and how proud he was of Emily. It was clear how much he adored her.
Listening to him, I felt a profound sense of connection and gratitude. Here was a man who had lived a full life, and his stories were a reminder of the importance of family and kindness.
We finally reached the fountain, and I saw Emily scanning the crowd frantically. The moment she spotted us, her face lit up, and she ran towards us.
A fountain in a shopping mall | Source: Midjourney
“Gramps!” she shouted, tears streaming down her face.
Mr. Thompson’s face broke into a smile, and I could see the relief washing over him. “Emily, thank goodness.”
They hugged tightly, and for a moment, I just stood there, feeling like I was witnessing something truly special.
Emily turned to me, tears in her eyes. “Thank you so much, Jamie. I don’t know what we would have done without you.”
I shrugged, feeling a bit embarrassed by the attention. “I’m just glad I could help.”
A young woman hugging her grandfather in a wheelchair in a shopping mall | Source: Midjourney
As she spoke, I couldn’t help but notice how Emily’s eyes sparkled with gratitude. Her smile was warm and genuine, and there was an undeniable connection between us.
We exchanged a look that felt like we had known each other for years, not just a few minutes. It was one of those rare moments where you feel an instant bond with someone.
Just then, Mr. Hughes appeared, having followed us to see how things turned out. He looked a bit sheepish.
A restaurant server guy talks to a woman in a shopping mall | Source: Midjourney
“Jamie, I owe you an apology. I shouldn’t have been so quick to dismiss Mr. Thompson. You handled the situation wonderfully. Thank you for stepping in.”
I nodded, feeling a sense of pride. “Thanks, Mr. Hughes. I’m just glad everything worked out.”
Mr. Thompson looked up at me, his eyes filled with gratitude. “Jamie, you’ve done more than you know. Thank you for your kindness.”
As Emily and Mr. Thompson left the mall, I watched them go, feeling a deep sense of fulfillment. It wasn’t every day that you made such a difference in someone’s life.
A restaurant server guy is pictured talking to his manager | Source: Midjourney
A few days later, I found myself thinking about Emily and the connection we had during that brief interaction. Gathering my courage, I decided to call her and check in on Mr. Thompson.
“Umm… Hi, Emily. It’s Jamie from the food court. I just wanted to see how your grandfather is doing.”
“Oh, hi, Jamie! Gramps is doing great, thanks to you. He hasn’t stopped talking about how you saved the day,” she replied, her voice warm and friendly.
A man is smiling while talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney
We ended up talking for hours, sharing stories and laughter. The conversation flowed easily, and I felt a growing connection with her. After a while, I plucked up the courage and asked, “Emily, would you like to grab a coffee sometime? I’d love to hear more about you and your grandfather.”
She sounded delighted. “I’d love that, Jamie. How about this weekend?”
“Works for me,” I replied before hanging up the call.
A loving couple on a coffee date in a café | Source: Midjourney
On our first date, we went to a cozy little café near the mall. The place was perfect, with soft music playing in the background and the aroma of fresh coffee filling the air.
As we sat there, sipping our drinks, Emily smiled and said, “I can’t believe how we met. It feels like fate, doesn’t it?”
I nodded, feeling a warmth spread through me. “It really does. I’m so glad we found each other.”
Luckily, our coffee date turned into many more dates. We found ourselves sharing more about our lives, dreams, and pasts.
A couple enjoying while exploring the city together | Source: Midjourney
Over time, our bond grew stronger. We spent countless hours together, exploring the city, laughing over silly jokes, and sharing quiet moments.
Emily was everything I could have hoped for; she was kind, caring, and full of life. I cherished every moment we spent together.
One evening, after a particularly wonderful day out, I turned to Emily and said, “You know, meeting you and your grandfather has been one of the best things that ever happened to me.”
A couple sharing a kiss at the beach | Source: Midjourney
She took my hand, her eyes glistening. “Me too, Jamie. That day at the mall brought us together, and I’m so grateful for it.”
I squeezed her hand, a smile tugging at my lips. “It’s incredible how one small act can change everything. I never expected that moment to lead to this.”
Her eyes sparkled with emotion. “Exactly. It just shows the power of a little kindness.”
Mr. Thompson’s need for help that day not only reunited him with his granddaughter but also brought Emily and me together. It was a powerful reminder that kindness can spark unexpected connections, forever changing lives.
A couple spending time with their elderly grandfather | Source: Midjourney
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